"When did you find out you liked him?"
"When I saw a strange banyan tree on the road, my first reaction was to take a picture of it and show it to him, and that's when I knew it was not good."
Both men and women, at the beginning of the like, is so simple.
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Friends and her boyfriend have always had a good relationship and are an envied pair that everyone envies.
The other day she excitedly told me that the two parents were ready to meet.
But not long after, the two people officially broke up in the circle of friends.
This wave of operations is really confusing.
After all, when it comes to getting married, on the one hand, the relationship must be stable, on the other hand, the parents of both sides are more satisfied.
Therefore, everyone says that these two people show affection every day, unless there is a matter of principle, how can they break up!
And she said to me:
"There was no cheating, no betrayal, just that he didn't want to marry me at all!"
I think when these two people were together, I also knew.
Like many couples, from time to time to send flowers and snacks, get on and off the shuttle to pick up the car, every day video, phone calls continuously.
It can be said that except for the time to work and sleep, both people are almost tired of being together.
It's all about enviable love.
But when it comes to marriage, even the love of the gods is only a chicken feather.
Friends said that after being with him, all they thought about was to marry him, and when they saw the beautiful wedding dress, they would always ask him with great anticipation:
"When will there be a romantic wedding that belongs to us?"
In the adult world, "no response" is the deadliest rejection of the relationship.
Marriage can wait, but there should be a deadline for this wait.
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I always like to chat with people who come over.
They like to talk to me about things that they see through now but have done in the past.
Once, when I went to class, I met a male teacher.
While chatting, he talked about his marriage:
"At that time, I had just graduated from graduate school, and I was 26 or 7 years old, so what could I understand?"
"Talked about an object, and the family asked you to take it back to see."
"After meeting, this is the beginning of the marriage."
I asked him, "So you wanted to get married?" ”
"I don't want to, how old is it, the career is not complete, the world is not deep, I don't want to get married, I still have those ambitions that I haven't completed, what marriage." 」 He smiled and said.
I couldn't stand the urge at home, and finally I was confused or knotted.
"However, after getting married, my wife told me how much determination and courage I had used to get married."
"Later, I found out that a woman who identified you and wanted to marry you without hesitation bet that she could win with you, which is a very fortunate thing for men." 」
Therefore, for men, as long as they are forced into marriage, they probably just want to escape!
But marriage is a serious matter, and no woman will take it as a child's play, even those women who talk all day about not wanting to get married.
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The greatest enemy of love, not others, is time.
In the American drama "Bread and Love", Vanessa and her boyfriend Daniel fell in love for four years.
On the anniversary of her four-year relationship, she put on a red dress, prepared a candlelit dinner for her boyfriend, and prepared a diamond ring for herself.
She proposed to her boyfriend and asked, "Daniel, my light of life, will you marry me?" ”
When she said this, her eyes were full of light, as if she could see happiness immediately.
All the eyes of the guests present were focused on the man.
Seeing that her boyfriend did not respond, she said: "As long as you say I am willing, then put the ring on my hand." ”
However, the boyfriend spat out two English letters "NO" with difficulty.
For vanessa, who was waiting for it, four years of expectations were disappointed.
Without saying a word, she picked up her bag and left.
After thinking about it, I turned around and poured him a bowl of soup.
Some people will say after reading it, "Maybe men who refuse to think more about it, women don't have to think about anything to get married?" ”
Yes, it is true that women marry without thinking about anything.
But if four years is not enough to figure it out, then pull it down and stop the loss in time.
If it were me, it would probably not be as simple as pouring a bowl of soup, but I would have to throw him a few ear scrapers.
As Vanessa said, "If you're only going to reject me, what have you been doing all these four years?" ”
Is it that hard to say yes?
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Don't say that it is the best now, and don't talk about the japanese side.
The scummy man will want to marry her home the moment he meets someone he likes.
In college, there was a male classmate who was very handsome.
Falling in love is also one after another, and there is never a shortage of good-looking girls around.
In the year of his senior internship, he met the same college, but the academic system was five years.
Since then, he has risen early every day to deliver breakfast to the girls' dormitory, asked his classmates in the same room to help rent a house, confess to her, and create surprises for her.
I thought he wouldn't last long this time.
Unexpectedly, after graduation, he directly followed the development of the girl's hometown, and it did not take long to get married.
Therefore, if you really like someone, you will think about the future.
If you've been together for many years and you can't get married, it's really time to let go.
Like the line from the movie "When Sally Meets Harry":
If you realize that you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone, you'll think the sooner you start the rest of your life, the better.
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