Dong Mingying, a beautiful girl walking in two pairs of shoes.
When she was young, she was sick and could no longer stand, so she could only "crawl" and use both hands and feet when walking.
Although fate did not take care of her, she was still optimistic, intelligent and strong, content and grateful.
She said: "I have not felt like I am disabled since I was a child, although I crawled and walked, but I have never had inferiority, nor have I felt inferior to others. ”
At the age of 24, she married her husband, who was 22 years older than herself, and the two formed a "special" family that was highly disproportionate to outsiders. In this regard, Dong Mingying generously said: "Others are more honest and more able to live a life, and I can also do it for me. ”
Later, Dong Mingying not only gave birth to two lively and lovely daughters, but also began to start his own business...
In this issue, we will lead everyone to understand this "creeping mother" who aspires to live beautifully.
Dong Mingying
Woman wearing two pairs of shoes
Dong Mingying was born in an ordinary family in Ju County, Rizhao City, Shandong Province, and was the second oldest among siblings, with an older sister at the top and a younger brother below.
When he was born, Dong Mingying was a very healthy child, and he was beautiful and cute, and he was very loved by his family.
But when Dong Mingying was more than one year old, a sudden accident completely changed the girl's life.
When he was more than 1 year old, Dong Mingying had just learned to walk, and he liked to stumble and run around every day, lively and cute.
At this time, she could not predict that it would not be long before "running around" would become the most luxurious thing in her life.
On this day, Dong Mingying caught a cold and also started a fever.
His parents hurriedly hugged Dong Mingying, who was more than one year old, to see a doctor, and after an injection, Dong Mingying slowly receded from the fever and the illness improved.
But at this time, dong Mingying's body was something wrong, and she could not sit down. As soon as she sat down, her waist would crawl forward, as if there were no bones, completely unable to support the weight of her body.
This situation made Dong Mingying's parents very worried. They began to take Dong Mingying everywhere to see a doctor and ask for medical treatment everywhere, but they never got better.
The family is not rich, the time is long, and the family's income is even more difficult to support the cost of treating her daughter.
The family always had to survive, there was no other way, Dong Mingying's parents had to take her back home.
In the days that followed, Dong Mingying's parents became more and more concerned about their daughter and took great care of her.
Dong Mingying is also very sensible, does not cry or make trouble, laughs and giggles every day, this fashion and young she does not realize that she is different from other children.
Seeing other children running around on the ground, jumping around alive, Dong Mingying, who could not stand upright, crawled on the ground with his hands and feet and used his hands and feet to play with children of the same age.
Over time, Dong Mingying's arm became very powerful, in order to facilitate walking, others walked with a pair of shoes, Dong Mingying used two pairs of shoes to crawl.
The strong Dong Mingying is very distressing, but Dong Mingying has never felt it, she feels that her life is very good, and there is no difference from others.
And the first time Dong Mingying knew that her family was different was when she was in school.
Dong Mingying's parents have always treated their children equally, and have not treated Dong Mingying differently because of their poor health. Dong Mingying reached the age of school in the blink of an eye, even if the family conditions were not good, Dong Mingying's parents also sent their daughter to school for study, which had a great impact on Dong Mingying's life.
When she first went to school, Dong Mingying's mother carried her to school every day.
In school, Dong Mingying felt different from other children for the first time, and she felt embarrassed for the first time. But this emotion did not last long in Dong Mingying, and she quickly accepted the "special" of her body.
At that time, there was no accommodation or canteen in the countryside, and children had to run back and forth between home and school every day.
In order to facilitate her daughter's schooling, every morning Dong Mingying's mother will carry her to school, wait until noon to eat and then carry her daughter home, and then send her daughter to school after eating.
The relationship between Dong Mingying's sister and brother is also very good, Dong Mingying's sister is two grades higher than her, and later when her sister is a little older, she began to be responsible for transporting Dong Mingying to and from school.
When Dong Mingying's younger brother learned to push the bicycle, it became his brother who used the bicycle to push her to school every day.
The classmates in the class were also very kind to Dong Mingying and did not reject her because she was inconvenient to walk.
On the contrary, the students in the class often carry Dong Mingying to the toilet.
In this environment full of love and mutual help, Dong Mingying, who is already strong and optimistic, is more cheerful.
However, because of the difficult conditions at home, Dong Mingying only read to the fourth grade of primary school.
In this regard, the sensible Dong Mingying said that she is very content, and the life in school in recent years has brought a great impact on her life.
After leaving school and returning home, Dong Mingying did not give up his desire for knowledge, and often read some books to enrich himself.
After getting a little older, Dong Mingzhu couldn't sit still, and she wanted to support herself through her own efforts, rather than being raised by her parents all the time. Therefore, Dong Mingying constantly did some work within his ability, such as processing lighters, doing some manual work, and so on...
Dong Mingying is threshing grain in the threshing field
In addition to doing some manual work, Dong Mingying often exercised himself, trying to crawl and wash clothes and cook.
Dong Mingying's efforts were not in vain, and slowly, in addition to walking still different from others, Dong Mingying could eat, wear, live and travel on his own, saving his family a lot of heart.
Dong Mingying's strong optimism infects the people around him, and everyone likes this smart and beautiful girl.
At the age of 24, she married her husband, who was 22 years old
In the blink of an eye, Dong Mingying had reached the age when it was time to talk about marriage.
Relatives introduced several blind dates to Dong Mingying, but none of them came to fruition.
Later, after a coincidence, Dong Mingying was introduced to her current husband Feng Zhiyu.
Feng Zhiyu's family has four brothers, who are honest and capable, and have a good character, but because of family reasons, they have not been able to get married.
Sometimes fate is so wonderful, Dong Mingying's home is in Dahedong Village, Zhaoxian Town, Juxian County, and Feng Zhiyu's family is in Xidi Village, Luohe Town, Juxian County, and the two villages are very close. Therefore, after the two got along for a while, Dong Mingying married into Feng Zhiyu's family.
This year, Dong Mingying was 24 years old, and Feng Zhiyu was 22 years older than Dong Mingying, which was already the age when he could be Dong Mingying's father.
After the two got married, Dong Mingying continued to do manual work at home to subsidize the family and take care of the housework, and Feng Zhiyu usually worked outside to earn money.
Dong Mingying was fetching water
It didn't take long for them to give birth to a daughter.
The eldest daughter is beautiful and cute, very cute, and their family has finally become a complete family.
After having a daughter, the life of the family became more and more lively, more and more homely, Dong Mingying's husband was very good to her, often carrying her back to her mother's house.
Later, Dong Mingying gave birth to a daughter.
For a normal person, having a child is not a simple matter. It is impossible to imagine what kind of difficulties Dong Mingying experienced before giving birth to two children.
But Dong Mingying has never complained about the difficulties of life, she always said: she is very content with her current life, she can crawl and do a lot of things, it is already very good.
Dong Mingying's two daughters are not only healthy and lovely, but also particularly considerate of their mothers and especially sensible.
When they are not in school at home, the two daughters will always help their mother to do some housework within their ability, and even help their mother to do handicrafts. Every time he mentioned his daughter, Dong Mingying would unconsciously smile on his face.
Dong Mingying's family of four
When the child grows up, there are some troubles that come with it, that is, the expenses of the family are also getting bigger.
But with the help of the government, these problems have been solved.
The relevant departments take great care of Dong Mingying's family, the family has a minimum guarantee, the children go to school also have subsidies, and every New Year's Festival, the village will come to send rice noodles to the family.
Well-wishers in society also built a hope hut for Dong Mingying's daughter, and even intimately tailored a kitchen for Dong Mingying.
Dong Mingying is cooking
These help made Dong Mingying very grateful and content.
Her husband has been working outside the home for a long time, and Dong Mingying has taken care of her two children at home, and the two people have helped each other.
In the eyes of her husband and two daughters, Dong Mingying is a good wife and a good mother.
In the eyes of Dong Mingying's mother, she is a good daughter.
A few years ago, Dong Mingying's father died of illness, and his mother's health was not very good, so Dong Mingying would often take the child back to his mother's house, wash his mother's clothes, clean up the housework, be very filial piety, and get along well with his neighbors.
In this regard, the people in the village often praised her for doing a good job in housework, doing a good job in the field, and being a good girl who was filial piety.
It can be seen that Dong Mingying is a very good person.
Dong Mingying is feeding poultry
Start your own business and make money
With the passage of time, Dong Mingying's husband is getting older and older, and his health is becoming worse and worse, which makes Dong Mingying feel very distressed.
I always think: How can I reduce the pressure on my husband?
Do you have the ability to raise a family?
The opportunity soon came.
Once, a video of Dong Mingying "crawling" at home was filmed by relatives and posted online. Unexpectedly, this video immediately caught fire, attracting a lot of people's likes and encouragement, and everyone was also very curious about this strong "creeping mother".
Since then, with the encouragement of others, Dong Mingying has begun to share his daily life online.
She named herself "The Big Pretty with Two Pairs of Shoes."
She said: "Wear two pairs of shoes" because she wears a pair of shoes on her feet and a pair of shoes on her hands, and "big beautiful" does not mean that she looks beautiful, but that she wants to live beautifully.
At the same time, with the encouragement of netizens, Dong Mingying has become more confident and more hopeful about his life.
Since then, every afternoon or evening, Dong Mingying will hold a live broadcast, chat or sing with netizens.
Dong Mingying is broadcasting live
Unexpectedly, netizens liked her very much, and in just two months, she gained 130,000 fans.
After many people knew Dong Mingying, they said they wanted to help her, but Dong Mingying refused, and she felt that she could do it, and let these people help people who really needed help.
Slowly, Dong Mingying began to do live streaming with goods, and she wanted to change the life of the family through her own efforts and make her husband's burden easier.
At the beginning, the live broadcast business was not good, Dong Mingying's goods were mainly local agricultural products, as well as products for the disabled, so the profit was not very high, but he could earn money with his own efforts, and Dong Mingying was already very satisfied.
At present, Dong Mingying's fans have more than 200,000.
Dong Mingying also joined the Juxian Self-Improvement Volunteer Association and became a volunteer.
Later, the association set up an e-commerce live broadcast promotion station for the disabled, because the live broadcast was done well, and the local disabled people's association also let Dong Mingying as a representative to learn the self-media live broadcast. After learning, Dong Mingying shared what he learned with others.
Dong Mingying's products include woven products, calligraphy and painting, and agricultural products, which are handmade by the disabled. Dong Mingying is very satisfied with such live streaming, and she feels that she is helping others while improving the economic situation at home.
Dong Mingying is preparing to bring products with goods
Although life is very busy every day, to shoot videos, live broadcasts, package products, and send goods, such a life makes Dong Mingying feel full of hope. Dong Mingying, with her own efforts, has made her life flourish, and her disability has been best reflected in her.
Some people, faced with some small difficulties, sighed and felt that they could not survive. Some people, in the face of difficulties, will only become more and more frustrated, such as Dong Mingying.
Difficulty is a very strange thing, the more you are afraid of it, the more you can't overcome it, you have nothing to fear, all difficulties will be solved. There is no smooth life, everyone's life will experience various storms, in the face of difficulties, we must learn the qualities of Dong Mingying, face difficulties unyieldingly, face difficulties, I believe that life will always bloom brilliant flowers.
Contented and happy, happiness is actually a very simple thing, as long as the heart is satisfied, there is love in the heart, no matter what kind of life is happy, I believe we can find the meaning of life through our own efforts.