"Crawling mother" Dong Mingying, is a very inspirational person, because of the unfortunate illness, her body can not stand upright, can only wear two pairs of shoes, hands and feet crawling on the ground, looking particularly hard.
Dong Mingying herself said that she never felt that she was a disabled person, although she could only crawl and walk, but she never felt inferior, nor did she think that she was inferior to others.
Dong Mingying's strength and optimism have a lot to do with her family background, so she is very fortunate that she was born in this family.
A disease destroyed her body
Dong Mingying's home, in Ju County, Rizhao City, Shandong Province, her parents are ordinary people, and the family has three children.
She is the second oldest in the family, with an understanding sister on the top and a strong and brave brother below.
When Dong Mingying was a child, there was no difference with other children, she looked very healthy, her little face was also very beautiful, her parents liked her very much, hoping that she could grow up healthily, and in the future she would find a good mother-in-law, no one thought that a disaster would come so suddenly.
When Dong Mingying was more than 1 year old, her body was still very healthy, she was lively and active, always playing with other children, as if she had endless energy.
One day, Dong Mingying suddenly felt that her whole body was weak, and she kept coughing, and after her parents found out, they were startled, they thought that the child might have a cold, and quickly took her to treatment.
The doctor took a brief look, did not see too much of a problem, gave Dong Mingying an injection, and prescribed some medicines to her.
After receiving treatment, Dong Mingying's body temperature gradually decreased, and his mental state improved rapidly. The parents thought that their daughter would soon recover her health and continue to play as before. Unexpectedly, Dong Mingying's body actually underwent strange changes.
Her body, like no bones, could not straighten her waist, would lie forward uncontrollably, and had to support her body with her hands, otherwise she would collapse to the ground.
Parents see their children so embarrassed, they are so distressed that they shed tears. They knew that their daughter might have a strange illness and quickly took her to the hospital for treatment.
The family's financial situation is not very good, the husband and wife are busy for a year, and they can't save much money. In order to treat Dong Mingying's illness, they ran a lot of hospitals and spent a lot of money, but Dong Mingying's physical condition did not improve halfway.
Later, because her parents really had no money to continue to treat their illness, they had to take Dong Mingying home to recuperate, hoping that her body could recover on its own, and the result was that they were disappointed again.
Because of the delay in getting effective treatment and missing the precious treatment time, Dong Mingying's body was completely fixed and he lost the ability to walk upright forever. The parents were very guilty about this, and tried their best to make up for Dong Mingying and gave her more care.
Because of the careful care of his parents, Dong Mingying has been particularly well-behaved since he understood things. She knew that her body was different from other children, but she didn't cry or make trouble, she laughed and giggled every day, and seemed to be very happy. She will play with other children as before, and many times it will be half a day.
The child's palm is very delicate, and if it is rubbed on the ground for a long time, it is easy to be injured. Her parents did not want Dong Mingying to suffer, so they specially prepared two pairs of shoes for her, one pair to wear on her feet and one pair on her hands.
At the beginning, Dong Mingying was not used to crawling, his movements were relatively slow, and he would soon feel that his arm was sore and he could not use his strength.
After insisting on it for a while, Dong Mingying gradually got used to the way of walking with his hands and feet, the crawling speed increased significantly, and his hands became stronger, even if he insisted on it for a long time, he would not be particularly tired.
On the surface, Dong Mingying's life does not seem to have changed at all, but in fact, her heart is not good.
Before the illness, she was also like other children, she could stand up straight, run around with her two little feet, and use her young hands to get some favorite toys.
After the illness, she could no longer stand up straight and run around like before, nor could she directly hold the toy in her hand.
Such a change, the contrast is particularly large, young Dong Mingying, do not want to use the crawling way to walk, but she can not control her body, can only silently accept this result.
She knows that her parents love her very much and always cry for their own things. She didn't want her parents to be so uncomfortable all the time, so she deliberately acted optimistic. When she couldn't stand it in pain, she would quietly hide from anyone.
Parents see that their daughter is so sensible, and they are relieved and distressed, and they once again make up their minds that they must take good care of their daughter and not let her be wronged. Dong Mingying's sister and brother also take care of her and will take the initiative to help her get things so that she will not be too tired.
Second, it is difficult to go to school, and if you try to study hard, you can only give up your studies
Little by little, time passed, and Dong Mingying's body was completely accustomed to crawling. When she reached school age, her parents went around looking for help and sent her to school.
Changes in the environment have affected Dong Mingying's lifestyle. Their home wasn't too far from the school, but it wasn't too close either.
Dong Mingying herself would be very hard to crawl over, her mother did not want her to be so tired, every morning on her back to school, at noon, carry her back to eat, and then carry her to school. At the end of school in the afternoon, my mother would go to school again and carry her home.
This way of life is very hard, but my mother has no complaints, she feels that this is what she should do.
Dong Mingying once told his mother that he was not small, he did not have to send her to and from school every day, and his mother always shook her head and refused to say, how do you do it by yourself, your mother is not at ease, and when you are older, your mother will let you go to and from school by yourself.
In addition to sending Dong Mingying to and from school, her mother also had to do housework and squeeze time to farm and fertilize the farmland. He was busy all day and often tired and weak.
After insisting on it for a while, my mother's body, because she was too tired, had many problems. Dong Mingying's sister is also very sensible, she took the initiative to tell her mother that she has grown up, she can send her sister to school, and her mother does not have to work so hard.
In fact, the sister is only 2 grades higher than Dong Mingying, and is also a child, the mother knows that the eldest daughter wants to help herself reduce the burden, she is very happy, but still refuses.
She is very sad for her second daughter, but she also loves her eldest daughter, and the palms of her hands and the backs of her hands are full of flesh. Rather than let her daughter suffer, she would rather tire herself out.
Dong Mingying's father, knowing that his wife is not easy, also wants to help her reduce some pressure, but unfortunately he always has more than enough and is not enough. He is the pillar of the family, needs to work hard, earn more money to support the family, every day is very hard, can not take time to help his wife share the housework.
This kind of hard life lasted for a long time, and the mother's physical condition was not as good as before, and there was no way to always carry her daughter to and from school as before, so she had to entrust the matter of sending her second daughter to school to the eldest daughter.
The mother did not want the eldest daughter to be too tired, and tried to get a bicycle, let the second daughter sit on the saddle, and let the eldest daughter push the bicycle to send the second daughter to school.
Later, Dong Mingying's younger brother learned to push the bicycle, took the initiative to take over the task from the eldest sister, and was responsible for sending the second sister to school.
Sister and brother are very kind, rushing to help Dong Mingying work, Dong Mingying is very grateful to his sister and brother, and will try to give back to them, so the feelings of the 3 people have been very good, and there has been almost no contradiction.
There is a bit of a gap in the age of the 3 children, Dong Mingying is not in the same class as her sister and brother, but her campus life has not encountered too many hardships.
Dong Mingying's classmates are also relatively kind children. When Dong Mingying first entered school, she did attract some strange eyes because of her special physical condition, but everyone quickly accepted her.
Instead of laughing at her, her classmates often offered to help her. Dong Mingying is very grateful for everyone's enthusiastic help, and she is optimistic and strong, because of the love and help of the people around her, she has become more and more cheerful.
Dong Mingying knows that reading and learning is very important, and when the teacher is in class, she always listens carefully to the lectures and is not willing to waste a little time.
Her academic performance has always been very good, and the school teachers have recognized her and are willing to help her a little more.
Unfortunately, Dong Mingying did not complete her studies, and she was forced to drop out of school because her family was relatively poor, and she was forced to drop out of school after only reaching the fourth grade of primary school.
Her parents felt very sorry for her, but Dong Mingying said that she felt very lucky to have the opportunity to go to school for a few years, and she was already very content, even if she dropped out of school, she did not feel wronged. Not going to school does not mean that she cannot learn, she can read at home and continue to learn. Self-study at home, no delay in schoolwork, and save some tuition.
The parents knew very well that Dong Mingying said these words to comfort them, and he couldn't help but cry. They want their daughter to continue her studies and get a good job in college, but the family conditions really don't allow them to do that. Even if you want to send your daughter back to school, you can't get the tuition fee, so you have to keep her at home.
Third, grow up and marry well
Dong Mingying did not want her parents to worry about herself, and after dropping out of school and returning home, she always held the textbooks she bought when she went to school to read themselves. When she was tired of studying, she put down her textbooks and helped her parents do some manual work.
She doesn't work fast, but she can also help her parents reduce a little stress, pass the time, and make her life not too boring.
The older Dong Mingying is, the more work she does, she not only helps her parents do manual work, but also takes the initiative to take care of housework, such as washing clothes and cooking.
Because he always kept working, Dong Mingying's body became stronger and stronger. In addition to not being able to walk straight, her physical fitness is not worse than that of ordinary people.
She can take care of her own food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and has a strong ability to take care of herself. Even if there is no one else in the family, she can live as usual and will not cause trouble for her neighbors.
The family was also more at ease with her, so they did more work. The family worked hard, earned money with their hands to support the family, and lived a better life.
Dong Mingying, who is strong and optimistic, has not only been recognized by his family, but also praised by his neighbors. Everyone said that she was a very successful child, and hoped that she could continue to work hard and have a happy family in the future.
When Dong Mingying was in her 20s, her family began to arrange marriage for her. They successively introduced several good-looking blind dates for Dong Mingying, but they all failed.
After the man knew Dong Mingying's physical condition, he had some worries and found some excuses to reject her. Dong Mingying's family is angry every time they hear these excuses.
Dong Mingying already knew that her marriage would not be particularly smooth, so she did not be too sad because of the rejection of others, and accepted this result very calmly.
She took the initiative to advise her family not to take the previous events to heart, as long as you persist, you will definitely meet true love. It is also the case that Dong Mingying later met Feng Zhiyu, a man from a neighboring village, by chance.
The two families were close, but had not intersected before. Feng Zhiyu has 4 brothers in the family, and the family conditions are not very good. Feng Zhiyu himself was honest and diligent, but unfortunately he never started a family, and he dragged it to his 40s or a single stick.
Looking at his age alone, Feng Zhiyu could even be Dong Mingying's father. The two are 22 years apart and look like a bad match. Dong Mingying felt that Feng Zhiyu was a person worthy of life.
When talking about Feng Zhiyu, Dong Mingying generously said that he was more honest and very good at living a life, and he could do it for me, so it was enough, I didn't ask for so many things.
Dong Mingying is a very assertive person, and her family is also more enlightened, not because of the age gap to tear the two apart, but gave them sincere blessings.
After Dong Mingying married Feng Zhiyu, because of the inconvenience of moving, he always stayed at home to do manual work, barely earning some money to supplement the family.
Feng Zhiyu is not idle, he always goes out to work, goes outside to do physical work, and earns some hard money. It is not easy for him to run around outside, but he has no complaints, he has always been worried about his wife at home, and every time he gets paid, he will send a part to his family and let Dong Mingying be used as living expenses.
Fourth, two children are born, and it is getting harder and harder for the family
The husband and wife support each other, although there is no way to see each other every day, but their feelings are very good. After marriage, Dong Mingying soon became pregnant.
Knowing that she had a child, Dong Mingying was particularly excited, she knew very well that it was not easy to get pregnant and give birth to a child, but she still gritted her teeth and persevered, as far as possible to adjust the body, so as not to cause harm to the child in the abdomen.
Due to the better nursing, Dong Mingying gave birth to a beautiful and lovely daughter smoothly, and the family liked the child very much and gave her a lot of love.
The birth of his daughter brought a lot of joy to Dong Mingying and his wife, Feng Zhiyu worked harder to earn money, and Dong Mingying also took the initiative to take on more manual work.
The husband and wife are diligent and hardworking, relying on their own ability, to earn some money, to provide a relatively good living condition for the young daughter.
Dong Mingying's family, seeing that she was so happy, also felt very relieved, and often came to help her deal with a little housework.
Feng Zhiyu knew that his wife and father-in-law and mother-in-law had a good relationship, and often found an opportunity to go home when they were not busy at work, carrying his wife back to her mother-in-law's house and reuniting her with her father-in-law and mother-in-law.
Later, Dong Mingying and Feng Zhiyu gave birth to another daughter, and their second daughter was also a healthy and lovely child.
Dong Mingying knows that the children's bodies are relatively weak, and if they are not well taken care of, they are prone to problems, and they have always loved them very much and are not willing to let them get hurt. Even if the child only has a little headache and brain fever, she will take the child to the treatment as soon as possible so as not to leave hidden dangers.
Under the careful care of Dong Mingying, the two daughters gradually grew up, they are very sensible, every day when they come home from school, they will help their mother to do some housework, and sometimes they will help their mother to do some manual work. Every time Dong Mingying looks at his two daughters, he will show a sweet smile.
The children grow up day by day, and the expenses in the family are also increasing. Dong Mingying and her husband's income has not changed much. If they continue like this, it will be difficult for them to maintain their family life.
Fortunately, Dong Mingying's family has been taken care of by the local government, they have a minimum guarantee, and the children have received subsidies for schooling. During the New Year's Festival, the village cadres will also come to send them some rice and flour grain and oil. Because of everyone's enthusiastic help, Dong Mingying's family gradually survived the difficulties.
A few years ago, Dong Mingying's father unfortunately died of illness, and his mother, because of her old age, was always plagued by illness, and it was difficult to take care of housework alone, and life was quite inconvenient.
Dong Mingying was very distressed about her mother, and often took the child back to her mother's house, helping her mother wash clothes and cook, and cleaning up the family's miscellaneous things.
Dong Mingying's sister and brother often find opportunities to come back to accompany their mother. Neighbors said that Dong Ming's mother had several filial piety children and was very envious of her.
In fact, the person Dong Mingying needs to take care of is not only her mother, she also needs to take care of her husband. Dong Mingying's husband is 22 years older than her.
When her husband was young, he could still go out to work and earn money, but now that he is getting older and weaker, he can no longer go out to do physical work like before, but he does not want to stay at home and eat idle meals, always gritting his teeth to force himself.
Dong Mingying loves her husband very much and has always wanted to help him reduce a little pressure, but she herself is not even convenient to move, how to help her husband share the pressure?
Dong Mingying thought about it for a long time and did not come up with a good way. By chance, she found a way to earn money at home.
Fifth, contact with the Internet, life has hope
One day, Dong Mingying, as usual, was doing housework with his hands and feet and crawling. When a relative took a video, he accidentally recorded Dong Mingying.
After being posted online, Dong Mingying's video quickly attracted the attention of netizens. Everyone was curious about her and wondered what she had been through.
After knowing her deeds, everyone was very sympathetic to her suffering, and also admired her optimism, praised and supported her, and shared her affairs with more people.
Dong Mingying is a grateful person, and she is very grateful for everyone's support and understanding. With the help of her family, she learned to use the Internet and gave herself a name: Big Pretty in Two Pairs of Shoes.
Dong Mingying explained that she wore two pairs of shoes because she had a pair on her feet and a pair on her hands. The big beauty in the name is not that she looks beautiful, but that she wants to live beautifully.
She wants her two daughters to have a better future, and she also hopes that her husband can be more relaxed and not always work hard like before.
After learning to share videos on the Internet, Dong Mingying often publishes some works, sometimes logs into the system to chat with everyone online, or sings some of his favorite songs.
Netizens like her very much and can't help but like her, and many people pay attention to her. After only a few short months, Dong Mingying's account had more than 100,000 fans.
Many people think that Dong Mingying's life is very difficult and wants to help her, but Dong Mingying refuses, she said that her life is still passable, and she hopes that everyone will help those who are more in need.
Later, someone suggested dong Mingying Since everyone is so supportive of you, then you should simply sell some local specialties, which can not only make everyone express their hearts, but also reduce the economic burden of your family.
Dong Mingying's hometown, there are many agricultural products, because the traffic is not particularly convenient, it is difficult to sell quickly, often in a state of slow sales.
She thought the suggestion was very good, and began to use the Internet to sell local souvenirs from her hometown, or to sell some things that the disabled needed to use. These commodities are more common, the price is not very high, the profit is very limited, but Dong Mingying feels very satisfied.
Later, because of his increasing influence, Dong Mingying got an opportunity to join the Juxian Self-Improvement Volunteer Association and participated in many public welfare activities as a volunteer.
The Juxian Self-Improvement Volunteer Association later set up a live e-commerce promotion station for the disabled, and Dong Mingying became a representative of the association because of his certain experience and was sent to an institution for study.
Dong Mingying knows that he has the expectations of many people on his shoulders, and he is very serious when he goes to study, and after he returns, he shares all the knowledge he has learned to help everyone make better use of the network to develop business.
Dong Mingying also took the initiative to make friends with some disabled people in similar situations and helped them sell some handmade products. She is very satisfied with her current life and is grateful to the netizens who are enthusiastic about helping her.
Someone once asked her what her plans were in the future? Dong Mingying replied that she wanted to do more work, take care of her two children, and also hoped that the conditions at home would be better, making her husband and mother easier, and as for herself, she would be at ease.
In the first half of her life, Dong Mingying suffered a lot because of childhood illness, but she was not defeated by the hardships of life. Because of the gentle companionship and careful care of her family, she has a positive and sunny mentality and always greets everything in life with a smile.
Her story once again confirms a truth, difficulty is like a spring, you are weak it is strong. Many times, it is not the difficulty itself that crushes us, but that we are not strong enough. If you are strong enough, even if you encounter a very difficult problem, you can face it calmly and will not be hit by difficulties.
Life is in the world, no one can be smooth sailing, we will all go through all kinds of tribulations, we must learn to face them bravely, and find ways to solve them.
The ancients often said that the boat to the bridge is naturally straight, many times, the road ahead looks to be curved, as long as you carefully observe the terrain, step by step, in the case of ensuring their own safety, patiently go down, always out of the predicament.
Dong Mingying is plagued by diseases and can only use her hands and feet together, but she has climbed out of a future of her own, and her life is worth applauding. Her optimistic spirit and sunny mentality deserve more praise and learning from more people.