After watching six episodes of "Heart Residence", for the time being, the overall situation is acceptable, at least it is worth chasing. Although it is not as good as "Human World", as long as it maintains the current level, it is likely to become a small blockbuster drama.
People who have watched the play should be very clear that "Heart Residence" is unfolded from a female perspective, so the two female characters Gu Qingyu (Tong Yao) and Feng Xiaoqin (Haiqing) naturally become the protagonists of the world. Gu Qingyu is a rich sister- and Feng Xiaoqin is a shabby foreign sister-in-law, and the two are typical of face and heart discord.
Of course, a slap does not make a sound, and the two have their own problems.
Out of proportion
Gu Qingyu's problem is that he is overly involved in the affairs between Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin, even if he is a father and mother, he should not interfere too much in the married life of his children. In the future, it will be the husband and wife who will be able to grow old with their heads in vain, not their parents or siblings, which is the most basic measure of family life.
In real-life marriages, relatives and friends of either party point fingers at the parties, and the result is often that the labors and swallows fly apart. In the case of Gu Lei, although her mother is no longer there, her sister Gu Qingyu plays the role of a mother to some extent. Gu Lei, who obeys his sister's words, is afraid that he will be called "Ma Bao Man" by many women, and he is one of several men who are resolutely unable to marry.
Thinking from another position, I think Gu Qingyu himself is not willing to marry such a man, and he does not want to do to others. The more Gu Qingyu gave Advice to Gu Lei, especially suggestions with negative emotions, the more unfavorable it was to the feelings between Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin. Even if Gu Lei did not die unexpectedly, if he continued in the long run, Gu Lei and Feng Xiaoqin would look like they would be separated until they divorced.
Confused
Objectively speaking, Feng Xiaoqin can be regarded as a good daughter-in-law, and taking care of the Gu family is still comprehensive. It is also right to want to buy a house of your own, including borrowing money from Gu Qingyu, because Feng Xiaoqin has this qualification.
Note that it is eligible to borrow money from Gu Qingyu, not that Gu Qingyu must lend money to Feng Xiaoqin. The reason why Feng Xiaoqin is qualified to borrow money from Gu Qingyu is actually very simple. After all, Gu Qingyu and Gu Lei are compatriots, and the younger brother's family has difficulties, so naturally the first thing that comes to mind is to kiss the sister. Secondly, Gu Qingyu has this economic strength, and Feng Xiaoqin's care for the elders in the family has both merit and hard work, and borrowing money with her mouth is not a non-divided move.
However, Gu Qingyu also has the right to refuse, and there is no need for any reason, whose money is in charge. Since Gu Qingyu expressed the idea of borrowing money, Feng Xiaoqin should retreat in the face of difficulties, rather than forcing the Gu family to comply by running away from home. As the Internet is very popular, helping is the love, not helping is the duty, this kind of thing must not evolve into moral kidnapping.
The high and lowly in the family
But these are not the root causes of contradictions, and as for why they are said, it is clear through the two plots.
1. Have a small meeting
When Feng Xiaoqin offered to buy a house, Gu Father (Gu Shihong), Gu Qingyu and Gu Lei hid in the house and held a small meeting. To tell the truth, this scene is actually quite poignant, that is, Feng Xiaoqin is regarded as an outsider. Regardless of whether Gu Father and Gu Qingyu agree to buy a house, yu should make it clear in front of Feng Xiaoqin, after all, Feng Xiaoqin is Gu Lei's wife, at least give due respect.
At this moment, Feng Xiaoqin is like a small employee in the company, Gu Father, Gu Qingyu and Gu Lei are equivalent to the management of the company. The minor clerk submits an application to management, and the management needs to meet to discuss and decide whether to approve the minor clerk's application. If you want to describe the relationship between small employees and management, it may be important to say that there are two classes, but at least two classes. Extending such a character relationship into the family, the two parties will inevitably be estranged, which will then evolve into a fierce conflict.
2. Be a babysitter
Gu Qingyu's great aunt offered to let Feng Xiqian (Feng Xiaoqin's sister) be a nanny, and there was no evasion, this detail can be described as murderous. The matter of the small meeting has already shown that the Gu family regards Feng Xiaoqin as an outsider, but in front of relatives and friends, it is reasonable to say that feng Xiaoqin still has to give face. But in order to break Feng Xiaoqin's idea of buying a house, not only the United Front of the Gu family, but even the great aunt and aunt came to join in the fun. This shows that Feng Xiaoqin's status in the Gu family, even if it is not well known to passers-by, is not a secret.
This family atmosphere, on the one hand, will make Feng Xiaoqin resentful, on the other hand, it will also affect relatives and friends to Feng Xiaoqin. It is estimated that in the mind of the great aunt, Feng Xiaoqin is a foreign daughter-in-law who is only worthy of buying jig, so Feng Xiaoqin's sister should also be the same. This idea is similar to india's caste system, it seems that Feng Xiaoqin's family can only give people babysitters, so Feng Xiaoqin and Feng Xixi will be extremely unhappy. Perhaps the great aunt subjectively did not mean this, but the speaker had no intention of listening to the heart, and the Feng sisters would feel that they were looked down upon.
Pride and prejudice
In the final analysis, when the Gu family faced Feng Xiaoqin, their bones were full of pride and prejudice. In particular, Gu Qingyu always felt that Feng Xiaoqin's marriage to his brother was a plot and would abandon Gu Lei in the future. It is undeniable that Feng Xiaoqin chose to marry Gu Lei, and the motivation was not pure love. However, such marriages are very common, and a considerable number of women often consider men who are better off than themselves when choosing a spouse. This situation not only exists in foreign sisters, but also local girls, so this should not be the reason for Gu Qingyu to despise Feng Xiaoqin.
In addition, Gu Lei's own conditions are also not outstanding, presumably the local girls can't look up to it, and marrying Feng Xiaoqin is not a loss. From Gu Qingyu's words and demeanor, it seems to convey such a message, even if Gu Lei is not angry, Feng Xiaoqin is still high. This is why, when Gu Lei couldn't pass the accounting certificate, Gu Qingyu had been with the mud. To put it bluntly, in Gu Qingyu's mind, Gu Lei, who could not get an accounting certificate, was also stronger than Feng Xiaoqin. Qiang Zai Gu Lei is a local with a local hukou, while Feng Xiaoqin is just a foreign sister who tries to change her fate through marriage.
epilogue
In summary, it is undeniable that Feng Xiaoqin is indeed unclear many times, but she is mostly forced by life. On the other hand, Gu Qingyu's lack of measure is based on arrogance and prejudice, which is far more unacceptable than the former.
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