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When true love comes, it is unstoppable.
The heart lives in a certain person, and all emotions begin to be pulled by the other party's words and deeds, every move, and can no longer be controlled, and can not be stopped.
Maybe when facing other people, he can be rational, calm, and calm; but as long as he faces the people he likes, he is easy to lose control.
He can't control talking to you and sharing everything with you; he can't control caring about you and paying for you; he can't control being jealous and wanting to possess you.
In feelings, truly falling in love with someone is uncontrollable.
As a woman, you must understand that men will be so "out of control" when they are emotional about you.
01 Can't control want to talk to you, that's a kind of worry
In the face of feelings, everyone expresses love differently, but love must be hidden in sharing.
He would tell you what meal he had eaten at noon and it was not bad; he would tell you that he had tried on a nice dress and wanted to buy it; he would tell you who he had met on the street and what interesting things had happened to him.
It's not that these mundane things are important, it's just that you're important, so he wants to share them with you.
Maybe he is not usually a person who talks a lot, but for you, he will not be able to control the chat with you, and want to share his joys and sorrows with you.
The desire to share is itself passion and love, and its other term is like.
Always can't control the desire to talk to you, that's a kind of worry. If you have also met such a person who shares his life with you passionately, there is no doubt that he is mostly touching your true feelings.
02 Can't control caring about you, that's a kind of giving
Duras once said:
"If a person loves you, there will be pity in his eyes, and if he does not love, there will only be desire."
Indeed, there is a big difference between loving and not loving in a relationship.
People who don't love you will only weigh the pros and cons, calculate the gains and losses, only take and desire, and have no pity and love.
On the contrary, when a man moves his true feelings for you, he will not be able to control caring for you, paying for you, and giving you the best of everything.
He will care and pay great attention to your life, and if you are doing well, he will feel very at ease; but if you are not having a good life, he will not be able to help but feel sorry for you.
Because he loves you, he will uncontrollably care for you, pay for you, give you money to spend, buy you gifts, take you to eat and drink.
Always can't control caring about you, that's a kind of giving. If you also meet a man who knows how to care for you and knows how to take care of you, don't doubt it anymore, he has already moved his true feelings for you.
03 Can't control jealousy, that's a kind of care
I once saw a passage like this on the Internet:
"I admit that I am jealous and selfish, and as long as other members of the opposite sex touch you, I am not happy because I just want you to belong to me." 」
Indeed, when a man has a real affection for you, he will not be jealous and will very much mind that you get too close to the other opposite sex.
Because I care, I think wildly; because I love you, I can't control my jealousy.
He is often jealous, not because he doesn't trust you, but because he can't help himself.
Always unable to control jealousy, that is a kind of care. If you also meet a man who can't help but be jealous and cares about you, don't get upset because he really loves you.
Loving someone cannot be hidden or stopped.
Can't control want to talk to you, that's a kind of concern; can't control caring about you, that's a kind of giving; can't control jealousy, that's a kind of care.
If you've also met a man like that, there's no doubt that he really loves you.
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