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I don't know when we began to stop using love to maintain a relationship, but to measure a person's sincerity with benefits and efforts.
In this way, it is really a tragedy.
Because, without love in love, you can't experience the beauty of love at all, even if two people are together, there is no meaning.
It is often said that if a woman today falls in love with a man at first sight, then either the man has money or the man has a face.
This is not the case.
As the saying goes: "I am accustomed to the gentleness of mass production, so I am particularly touched by the sincerity of clumsiness." ”
Deeply believed, the same is true of women's attitude towards men.
Seeing more men's clever words and listening to each other's sweet words, women feel more and more that men who make them move have achieved these two things.
1, you can have no money for the time being, but you can't be unmotivated
There is a saying: "As long as a man is self-motivated, there is nothing that cannot be done." ”
Deeply believed, a man can have no money, but must not be unmotivated.
Because not all people have an innate sense of superiority, some people, may be born, are destined to redouble their efforts to get the resources that others can get effortlessly.
Moreover, you know, a man, in his 20s, if he does not have a mine at home, where does the large amount of savings come from?
Therefore, what often moves women is not the man's money, but a man's self-motivation.
Friend Xiaofeng has a boyfriend who has been talking for three years, and the two have a good relationship, but just last month, she told me that she broke up with her boyfriend.
I was shocked by this, but after Xiaofeng explained the reason to me, I felt reasonable again.
The two broke up because of the bride price, and the man's family was willing to take out the 80,000 bride price, but the woman's family did not agree.
Originally, with Xiao Feng's efforts, he had already persuaded his parents to agree. However, on the other hand, Xiaofeng's boyfriend only has a salary of 3,000 yuan per month, and is not willing to resign to go to a higher place, and said that he would live with his parents after marriage, saying that he could let his parents take children after marriage.
Just being with her parents has made Xiaofeng unacceptable, moreover, her boyfriend's lack of ambition makes her feel that the other party is a person without planning, and she has to use the differences that cannot be discussed by the bride price to break up with her boyfriend.
In fact, this love, no matter who it is, has already paid a certain amount of emotion, and it is a pity that it has not been cultivated to the right result.
However, in the face of reality, women's sobriety is the most important. Because, being with a man with no future is equivalent to burying your own happiness.
We don't have to do that.
2, can not look handsome, but the character should be speechless
In the public's aesthetic standards, it has always been felt that men must be handsome and be the best boyfriend.
However, if you want to consider the long-term development of love, this is doomed to be not the right choice.
After all, handsome can not be eaten as a meal, the most important thing is to be able to accompany you for a lifetime.
As the saying goes: "Small things test character, big things reveal nature." ”
Indeed it is.
A man's character is the most important thing for a woman, and only in this way can your happiness be guaranteed.
The other day, my dad and I talked about finding a boyfriend.
I told him that most of my peers had boyfriends, and even some of them were married and had children.
In addition to the disbelief on his face, my father also had some expectations for me.
He told me that if I found a boyfriend, I must bring it to him to check it out, and I can't be cheated.
He said that the other party is handsome or not, whether there is money or not is not important, the important thing is to be good to me, character has nothing to say.
If you don't encounter it for a while, don't be in a hurry, take your time.
To be honest, my heart was very touched. Both for my dad's enlightenment and for my own choices.
Fate, must not be wanted to meet, which requires the combination of various objective factors, in order to achieve our expectations of love,
Therefore, as a woman, even if you choose to be single, don't be with someone with bad character, which is really a loss.
3, let women move the man, never let the woman down
Someone said, "Sometimes we have to be cruel to ourselves and not indulge our sadness and disappointment." ”
I deeply agree with this, and only by being cruel to myself can I not let myself fall into despair.
Whether it is life or love, it should be so.
The man who makes a woman's heart move must have given a woman a special feeling at some point.
In this world, there is no unprovoked affection, and as the saying goes, worship is the foundation of love.
Compared with various external conditions, women will inevitably pay more attention to men's talents and inner talents.
Just like men's mate selection criteria, they will also think carefully and not be defeated by women's beauty.
After all, the world is full of hypocrisy and everyone wants to make themselves profitable. It is a blessing for us to meet a good person who can treat him sincerely.
So, a woman falling in love with a man has nothing to do with age, and the most important thing is reliability.
Xiaoyuan's message: Some people regard love as their lifelong belief, and some people do not have any expectations for love.
Either way, in fact, it's your own choice.
Today's women are no longer the "love brain" that can be dead set on men by sweet words.
They think and weigh the pros and cons.
Because, in this society, it is difficult to see the reality clearly, and it is difficult to have true happiness, which is true now and the future.
So, if you can, I hope you and I can be a reliable person. Share!
Topic: What do you think are the characteristics of men who move women?
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