Now society seems that the elderly should bring children to their sons, if not, sons and daughters-in-law will not be very happy, angry may not bring their grandchildren to see you for half a year. With or without grandchildren and children to raise you for the elderly, there is a certain correlation, but the relationship is not large, I come to help you analyze it, inappropriate, please correct.
Children have the obligation to support the elderly
The law clearly stipulates this article, that is, if you do not bring your grandchildren, your sons and daughters-in-law have a legal obligation to give you a pension.
Neighbors and grandmothers are almost ninety years old, in the yard and when they are nagging, she often feels deeply guilty about not helping her son and daughter-in-law with children, saying that at that time, her wife was paralyzed in bed, she was helpless, fortunately, her son and daughter-in-law were very sensible, her mother put down farm work and came from the countryside to take the children, she is now older, her son and daughter-in-law come to see herself every three to five, several times asked her to move in with them, and she did not worry about the problem of old-age care at all.
I have the right not to bring my grandchildren
There is no provision in the marriage and family law that the elderly must bring grandchildren, and whether to bring grandchildren or not depends entirely on the attitude of the elderly themselves.
Aunt Chen, the mother of Fa Xiao, was born in the "Everybody Girl Show", and when she first made it clear that sending a novel would not help him bring up the child, because the small hair was not brought up by Aunt Chen, she herself did not know how to take the child. Aunt Chen gives the child 2,000 yuan a month, so that the two families can find a nanny and give the child to primary school.
But I have a relative, do not bring children or give money, often hang on the lips of a sentence is to have children is the greatest kindness to him, the son education is very filial piety, relatives are old, sons and daughters-in-law wait in front of the bed every day.
You can find a way to compensate your son
When people are old, they have to think about everything, and the house money can't be taken away in the end. The old man with his grandson has also become an unwritten rule in modern society, and he wants to find a way to compensate his son's family a little, and he can also get some comfort in his heart.
Aunt Zhao, the mother of the classmate, has three sons, but she has not brought the children of her classmates, and she always feels that it is a heart disease. At the family gathering during the Spring Festival, Aunt Zhao told the children that she should give more money to her classmates because she had not helped him bring her children. Classmates said that it was all a matter of the past many years, not to mention, the other two sons and daughters-in-law agreed.
They are good to their children and have feelings, and they don't have to worry about whether they will give themselves a pension, even if they don't have grandchildren for various reasons, the children will understand.
Now how good the living conditions are, I will live happily and healthily!