In love, it is difficult for us to remain calm and maintain a rational state at all times as before. If you love someone in your heart, you will be anxious and entangled because of this person. Even if you want to escape from such a state, love will pull you back at any time, leaving you deep in it and unable to extricate yourself.
In our impression, we often feel that what a man shows should be a mature, calm, and rational appearance. Even if something happens, it can be analyzed and solved in an orderly manner.
For men, in fact, they themselves want to maintain such a state, leave a good impression on others, and let others think that he is a mature man and a trustworthy man.
However, in love, even a mature and calm man is greatly affected by love. They may be calculated for a small matter, as Loglin said: "Love makes all people orators Absolutely right." ”
A man may be a man who has very few words in front of those ordinary friends, but in love, they will involuntarily become a talkative, a long-winded person. Even a small thing will be told to women for a long time.
It's like some things are actually very simple in the eyes of women, and they can be explained clearly in a few words, but for men, they always ask women to get the most accurate answer.
A man will be in such a state because he cares deeply about this woman, as Stendhal said: "Love is like a high fever, and it comes and goes without the will." ”
Women must understand that he loves you, so he will "ask" you like this, and women don't understand.
01 Where he didn't do well and where he needs to improve.
We all know that the love between Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun is very enviable, especially the way the two get along is also worth learning. After the two had children, Lee Seung-hyun temporarily gave up his career and chose to be a full-time father. In this regard, Qi Wei is very grateful and respectful of Lee Seung-hyun, and it is because of this that the relationship between the two is not unbalanced.
After marriage, many couples also ignore the feelings between husband and wife, and it is also good to reflect on themselves and communicate some problems that exist between the two. I still remember once watching a variety show between the two of them, when walking in the evening, Lee Seung-hyun asked Qi Wei very seriously: "Do you think I still have something bad to do and need to improve."
A man knows how to reflect on himself in this way, and is willing to take the initiative to ask the other party where he is not doing well, which shows that in his heart, he is very concerned about this relationship and cherishes it. He wants to do better, he wants to hear something from the other person's mouth that he needs to improve. Such a sincere attitude is also what every woman needs in love.
Women should know that if a man is willing to ask you like this, it means that you have a very important position in his heart. He loves you so much that he asks you such a question.
02 Want to know how your family and friends feel about him.
Bacon said, "Even God has a hard time being smart in love." ”
When it comes to love, men also become less confident and less brave. Even if some of the answers are already very clear, men will continue to question, dare not really believe, to face.
Generally speaking, as long as a man loves a woman deeply, he will silently consider the future of the two and make plans for the future. Since a woman has been identified, in a man's heart, he will naturally think of getting married. When it comes to marriage, the opinion of the family is naturally the most important.
If a woman wants to marry a man, she will naturally care about how the man's parents will see them. And if a man wants to marry a woman, he will also care about the attitude of the woman's parents. If they have already met, or if the other person's family knows of their existence, the man will constantly ask the woman how her family views her.
Even if the woman says that the impression is very good, it will not be long before the man will still be less confident and think about asking such a question again. In such a situation, the woman should understand, because he loves you very much, so he will continue to ask you like this.
03 Ask you what place he holds in your heart.
Zhou Guoping once said: "Women always pull big things into small things, and men always pull small things into big things." ”
Men fall in love with a woman, and even small things like eating and sleeping will become a big thing in their eyes. After identifying a woman, in a man's heart, everything about a woman is the most important thing for him.
The more he loves a woman, the more a man wants to know what kind of place he has in a woman's heart. Only when they get the answers they want, men will have this sense of security and enjoy this happiness well.
When two people get along, men sometimes become wordy and like to ask women what kind of position they are in her heart.
Women have to understand that because he loves you, so in front of you, he will lack self-confidence and worry that he is not so important to you. He will ask you, but he wants to get the answers he wants again and again, so that he can become more confident and braver to guard this love.
Shiqibachev said: "Love should know how to cherish, and cherish it more with the years." Love is not idle under the bright moon, nor is it sighing on the bench. ”
Men love you deeply and will cherish you. This cherishing makes him start to fear that he will lose you, and he is naturally less confident in front of you. He asks you to find this confidence in your answers.