Just watched a video, 1 bao mom 1 month for 4 childcare sisters-in-law, the sister-in-law collapsed and cried: in her family is not a person's work! There are many people who are uneven for the sister-in-law, and some people say that the current sister-in-law is now the sister-in-law

Just watched a video, 1 bao mom 1 month for 4 childcare sisters-in-law, the sister-in-law collapsed and cried: in her family is not a person's work!

There are many people who are uneven for the sister-in-law, and some people say that the current sister-in-law is very harsh, we are not parties, it is not good to comment.

Both employers and employed people should learn to respect others. Some employers are indeed not good employers, and there are also very harsh people in the month.

Tell us about your personal experience!

I was originally a full-time mother of two boys, the eldest high school, the second grade of the smallest, just a year ago, the daughter-in-law of his family gave birth to a baby, and the sister-in-law had to ask for a nanny after a month of work, and the family thought it was not worth spending so much money through the actions of the sister-in-law this month.

Because the sister-in-law in addition to making some confinement meals for baoma, and then the baby takes a bath, there is really nothing to do, the baby in the confinement generally eats and sleeps, sleeps and eats, basically do not have to hug, to coax, and the pot that gives baoma soup is hairy.

To hire a babysitter, I remind my family, please babysitter also pay attention, because it happened to me, I still invited very, very familiar people, but also with a little relatives, when my family was more than a year old, I was anxious to make money, the store was empty there for more than a year, I wanted to hire a babysitter, free up time to do business.

But I never expected that often on the Internet to see the babysitter abuse of young children will actually happen to me, the pre-shop decoration time to open, this time is my own belt, only when cooking, I will ask her to follow behind, because small, afraid of being abducted, my family is very good to bring, just need to follow him, he himself will play, but also know how to be safe, never go down the road to play.

Just four days after my shop opened, during these four days, I felt that my little baby was not right, and the look in my eyes completely changed into a person, and it just so happened that the boss said to me, Mom, the person we invited will scold the little brother.

Oh, my God! My head was spinning, my heart was about to jump out at once, and the performance of the second elder in my mind these days immediately came to mind, lifeless, and my eyes were in a daze (that is, stupid).

The next scene is even more angry, the heart of killing people has, hearing the boss say so, the second is different, that day I left a heart eye, that day the second cried again, not I want, because there are too many things, too busy, my husband asked her to hug and play.

She walked on the front foot, I followed on the back foot, she carried the little one into the rental room, I felt very strange, why as soon as I entered the door, I didn't hear the cry, I gently opened the door with the key, oh my God! How dare she do this! Cover my child in the quilt and hold my child in the quilt with tight hands.

Fortunately, I found out in time that day, otherwise my family's small family might not live today. So far I dare not ask for a babysitter, I am willing to make less money, and it is not too late to earn when the children are older.

Because I have experienced it myself, I kindly remind my family that I should also be careful when asking for a nanny. The family said that since you also know that it is difficult to ask for a nanny, anyway, you two are also older, bringing one is also a belt, bringing two is also a belt, you help, help me bring, I will retire immediately, and I will not need your help when I retire.

At that time, I heard her say that she only had half a year to retire, and I thought that half a year would pass quickly, and if you help me, I would help my own family.

Thinking is too simple, how big she is I don't understand, I don't know, after taking half a year, she said she still has more than a year, really helpless, really don't want to help her bring.

Since helping her with her grandson, I have suddenly fallen into the bottom valley of the abyss, and that kind of life is really not a human life.

After I left my sister-in-law, I took over, and I told my family that I only brought it during the day and I couldn't bring it at night, because I also had two, the little one had just started the first grade (I had not been in the kindergarten connection, and the kindergarten was also a year old), and now was the time to develop good habits of learning.

The family consulted with the daughter-in-law, who said that she had never brought a child and did not know to bring it.

Seeing that my family was in a dilemma, my heart softened, OK! I'll bring it with me at night! I think that my family will have something to say or discuss in the future.

To be a man is to be conscientious. You are counting salaries for me, but you can't bully people too much, be too disrespectful to people, and use people as cattle and horses.

Since helping with the baby, where people live, it seems to be a hellish life.

Get up at five or six o'clock in the morning to make breakfast, depending on the baby's mood, the baby sleeps well, this breakfast can be successfully completed, sleep is not steady, then you have to hold the baby in one hand and work with one hand, the key is that he is not an honest lord, there is no stop, active, making a meal is like a war, the same is true for lunch and dinner. Originally the time in the morning was tight, going to school, going to work, no one could take the handle.

The anxiety in my heart, my family's small original small, every day want to make him some nutritious meals, is simply a luxury.

Before we didn't bring a baby, we would get up at seven o'clock in the morning to read ancient poems aloud, when we were in kindergarten, in kindergarten during the day, and when we came home at night to read and read some books on science and technology.

However, since helping your family with the baby, all the good habits are gone, and it is said that your baby is not conscious, and the first-grade children still want to roar from time to time, whether you have done anything wrong.

I really don't know what sins I have created, and I have to take care of others.

From morning to night, from night to morning, no matter how noisy his baby is, I don't care if you have eaten, anyway, the bowl is lost, take a nap at noon, after dinner is playing mobile phones, the baby and I have no half-hair relationship, this is the family daughter-in-law's approach to my relative.

She thinks that she pays for everything, you do everything, take the baby to do housework during the day, take the baby to sleep at night, some people will definitely think that there is something with the baby to sleep at night, that is, some people have not brought this kind of child.

I can't sleep soundly and cry. Since two months, eczema has grown, festering in large areas, not sleeping at all at night, holding and sleeping all night, not drying, sometimes making a fuss for an hour or two in the middle of the night, walking around the room in the middle of the night.

I was really going to break down and mentioned it to my family three times, and I said I couldn't take it. She herself is also very clear, I am gone, she is not able to invite people, always all kinds of borrowing to prevaricate the past.

Through taking the baby, I saw clearly that many people are ugly in human nature, and I no longer want to trust anyone, even if it is a highly educated, with a glamorous and decent job, and the morality is not worthy, I still look down on you. So both the nanny and the employer have to polish their eyes.