My mother-in-law asked me to go to her house in the afternoon to get fruit, not to come in the morning, but I didn't have time in the afternoon, and when I went in the morning, I ruined my mother-in-law's good deeds, and Uncle Li saw me and hurried away from my mother-in-law's house. I'm not

My mother-in-law asked me to go to her house in the afternoon to get fruit, not to come in the morning, but I didn't have time in the afternoon, and when I went in the morning, I ruined my mother-in-law's good deeds, and Uncle Li saw me and hurried away from my mother-in-law's house.

I didn't meet Uncle Li at my mother-in-law's house for the first time, I had encountered it in the morning, afternoon and evening, in fact, I didn't dislike Uncle Li, and my wife also liked Uncle Li more, but we don't know why Uncle Li hid when he saw us.

My mother-in-law is sixty-one years old this year, she has a good mentality, people look young, Uncle Li is sixty-seven years old, people do not look old, the two of them are very husband and wife, and I also hope that they can hold hands in their old age and spend the rest of their lives together.

My father-in-law left early, he died more than ten years ago, and Uncle Li's wife and son died five years ago, and there is no insurmountable obstacle between the two of them.

In fact, when my mother-in-law and Uncle Li were young, they had a relationship, but because of the opposition of Uncle Li's parents, they could not achieve their biggest wish at the most suitable age.

The reason why Uncle Li's parents objected was that my mother-in-law did not have much culture and did not have a stable job, but Uncle Li was a person with an iron rice bowl in his hand, and as a parent, he hoped that his children would be happy.

Later, Uncle Li first married and became a family, and my mother-in-law then married my father-in-law, and after both of them started a family, they broke off contact with each other.

Thirteen years ago, when my father-in-law was sick in bed for a long time and finally swallowed his last breath, someone introduced my mother-in-law to a blind date, but my mother-in-law refused one by one.

My wife once told me that her mother did not want to remarry, but that she was waiting for someone, whether this person was Uncle Li, we have no way of knowing, but the possibility that my mother-in-law is waiting for Uncle Li is still very large.

This speculation is not unfounded, because at that time, Uncle Li's wife had also been paralyzed in bed for several years.

If my mother-in-law is really waiting for Uncle Li, why has Uncle Li's old partner and children been dead for five years, and the two people still dare not pick up the relationship and come together in a bright light? I am puzzled by this.

I once asked my mother-in-law this question, and my mother-in-law told me that now she and Uncle Li are just friends, and neither of them has that meaning.

But since neither of you has that meaning, why does Uncle Li often come to the house? Uncle Li is not too close to my mother-in-law's house, there are more than ten kilometers away, every time Uncle Li is a taxi, conservative estimates, Uncle Li's annual taxi costs, but also two or three thousand yuan.

My wife and I both hope that my mother-in-law can be old and dependent, and it is best to come together with Uncle Li, but the attitude of both people is not clear, and my wife and I are very anxious, so we want to understand the reasons and help them solve the problem.

After my wife and I analyzed it, we finally believed that it must be Uncle Li's children who opposed Uncle Li to find an old partner again, and the two of them maintained the current relationship, which was not far away.

My wife and I tried every means to learn the contact information of Uncle Li's son, and one weekend, we made an appointment to meet him, and when we met with Uncle Li's son at the hotel at the agreed time, his first sentence proved that my wife and I's conjecture was completely correct.

He said: My father I can afford to raise, I will take good care of him, I don't want anyone to covet my father's family property and take advantage of my father's feelings.

I quickly explained to him that no one coveted your father's property, my mother-in-law and your father, when they were young, they had a relationship, when they were young, they did not combine because of the opposition of their parents, and now they are old, with the conditions for union, and it is the obstruction of their children that destroys the happiness of the two elderly people. If you have concerns, we can do a notarization of premarital property, and my mother-in-law will never take a penny from your father.

Uncle Li's son retorted to me: My father has a pension, how can this be notarized? My father gave something valuable to your mother-in-law, what can I do with him? Besides, my father was a sentimental man, and I didn't want his feelings to be hurt.

My wife and I, and Uncle Li's son, have had a long time of communication and exchange, and we hope that the two old people will be happy. After some patient persuasion and explanation from us, although Uncle Li's son seemed to be a little relieved in the end, he said to go back and let him consider it, but we did not have much hope for him.

Before leaving, his attitude was still relatively resolute, that is, it was not easy to accept Uncle Li to find a wife.

After returning home, we advised our mother-in-law that it was better to give up Uncle Li, there were many candidates for her to choose. But her mother-in-law said that she only wanted to live alone for the rest of her life, and for more than ten years, she was also used to living alone, which was very quiet and good.

I very much hope that Uncle Li's son can be reasonable, understand the emotional needs of the elderly, and not hinder two elderly people who love each other from coming together.

I called Uncle Li's son and asked him what his attitude was toward Uncle Li and my mother-in-law. He said he hadn't thought it through and asked me to give him some more time.

I don't know, how long is this period of time?

The elderly remarry, indeed will encounter a lot of troublesome things, the understanding of the people around them, the opposition of children, the worry about uncertainties... Remarriage of the elderly, on the surface, seems quite simple, involving the problem of buildings, bride price, and even support for parents, but the elderly remarry, there will be a lot of resistance.

The opposition of children is the most common and prominent, and the opposition of children is like a mountain on the road of remarriage of the elderly, some old people can cross, some old people are one on this side of the mountain, one on the other side of the mountain, two people can only look forward to each other, but they cannot hold hands.

In the face of children who oppose the remarriage of the elderly, in addition to persuading and persuading them, we really have no good way, we can only say that the children who love their parents, the children who understand their parents, the children who care for their parents, and the children who honor their parents will certainly not oppose the elderly who have the need to remarry.

It is easy to be a parent's child, but it is not an easy task to be a qualified child, first of all, we must know how to respect, respect the reasonable wishes and demands of parents, and respect the happy life of parents. There is a kind of respect: children do not become a stumbling block on their parents' road to happiness!