#How to look at Gu Ailing's mother's education method #Along this topic, let's say: why our education has become an "arms race", why there is "can not lose at the starting line."

#How to look at Gu Ailing's mother's education method#

Along the lines of this topic, let's say: Why has our education become an "arms race", why is there "can not lose at the starting line"?

Many people like analogies: we post-70s and post-80s have no tutoring classes when they go to school, and they can play freely after class and so on. But without seriously thinking about why our children have to go into "hellish" painful learning mode!

After the 2001 new curriculum standard, quality education was proposed, and the targets at that time were mainly beijing and other big cities, where the learning pressure of children was already very heavy, and the future education and training of New Oriental, Xueersi, etc. also began to set sail from there. Interjection digression: I am also a beneficiary of this teaching reform - after the curriculum reform, the high school Chinese has a reading book, and most of the ancient texts I can memorize now are memorized that year - I could not see those things before, such as "Autumn Sound Endowment", "Chibi Endowment", "Me and the Temple of Earth" and so on.

I was born in 1983, when I was in elementary school, there were more than forty people in the same village, and when I went to junior high school in 1995, I went to junior high school, and when I went to high school in 1998, there were only two or three, and when I went to college in 2002, there were only three or four in the village (there were two primary schools in the county seat). This was the current situation of rural education at that time!

In the process of my schooling, my family did not have the ability to guide the direction, so after I graduated in 2006, I wasted four years before the Kautgang teacher returned to my hometown, and it took another eight years to be admitted to the county town in 1919.

Similarly, a very good friend now, born in the same year, the family is in the county, in 1998 he could not pass the high school, went to the sports school, in 2002 his grandfather put all the things in order, let him come back to work, the previous year has been promoted to senior, last year was already the principal of a township, the same is anxious about the child's achievements.

After pulling so much, I want to say that the main points are three points: First, the environment is different from the times, and educational anxiety naturally has its reasons for existence - in the case of a decrease in the number of children, only excellent can bring better results; second, family education and planning are also upgraded step by step with the universalization of educational anxiety; third, children are their own, rather than envying fish, it is better to retreat to the net - the ability to plan for themselves, others are only a reference.