My ex-wife, who was divorced for 5 years, came to me and she said, "Give me 200,000, my son is sick". I said, "Your son is sick and goes to your husband, what does it have to do with me?" The ex-wife said: "This money you."

My ex-wife, who was divorced for 5 years, came to me and she said, "Give me 200,000, my son is sick". I said, "Your son is sick and goes to your husband, what does it have to do with me?" The ex-wife said: "You must pay this money, otherwise you will regret it." When I learned the truth, I regretted it and wanted to remarry my ex-wife.

I am 35 years old, from Shenzhen, Guangdong Province, and work as a department manager in a listed company in Shenzhen, with an annual salary of 500,000 yuan. I am a second-married man who has been married to my current wife for 5 years and my daughter is 4 years old.

Compared with my ex-wife, I actually love my ex-wife more in my heart. My divorce from my ex-wife is really helpless, if it were not for my parents' mischief, I would not have divorced if I had killed them.

My ex-wife is also from Shenzhen, named Xiaohua, we are college classmates, from college love, to marriage, our relationship has been very good. At that time, Xiaohua worked in a bank with an annual salary of 200,000 yuan.

And she is a more enterprising woman. After getting married, she discussed with me and wanted to have children later. Her original words were: We are young, we should make more money, anyway, we only have one child, it is better to have children later.

I also agreed, after all I love her and can only support her.

My parents have been looking forward to holding their grandchildren for a long time, but Xiaohua and I were married at the age of 25, and until the age of 29, for 4 years, I have not been pregnant. At first, my parents thought it was the little flower that didn't have children, but I explained that we wanted to give birth later. But parents don't understand what we young people think.

So my parents forced me and Xiaohua to go to the examination, and after finding that there was no problem, the parents said: Xiaohua, although you are very good to us, but our family is not short of money, even if you give us 1 million, it is not as important as having a offspring, if you do not want to have children, leave my son as soon as possible, what we want is very simple, nothing more than want to hold a grandchild.

Xiaohua was very aggrieved, she said that my parents did not understand her thoughts, but my parents were resolute and wanted her to get pregnant within a year, otherwise they would want us to divorce.

Xiaohua didn't want to divorce me, after all, my parents took it seriously that time, so after that, we removed all safety measures and tried our best to prepare for the arrival of the child.

But for a whole year at the age of 30, Xiaohua showed no signs of getting pregnant, and my parents did what they said and wanted us to divorce.

No matter how I explained, even if I told my parents that our husband and wife were already trying to conceive a child, my parents were determined to ask Xiaohua to leave my house.

It's a tough choice, between parents and wife, how can I choose? On the one hand, the parents who gave birth to me and raised me, and on the other hand, the wife who has been married for 5 years, loved for 3 years, and has been in love for 8 years, I am really a headache.

Xiaohua didn't want to see me embarrassed, and if she stayed, my parents would cut off relations with me. So Xiaohua sacrificed our feelings, and she had to divorce me.

In desperation, I also agreed to the divorce. After that, I also quickly remarried.

My second-married wife has an unstable job and a low income, but fortunately there is no shortage of money in our family, and she is not very good to my parents. In the second year together, she gave birth to a daughter for me, and my parents had grandchildren to hold, and they didn't care about the daughter-in-law's bad.

After that, I didn't meet Xiaohua either, she changed her phone and didn't work in the bank anymore.

Yesterday at noon, I was taking a lunch break at the company, and the front desk said that someone was looking for me. After I went out to see, it turned out to be my ex-wife Xiaohua, who had not been seen for 5 years, but she looked very haggard.

I was ready to ask for a few warm words, but Xiaohua said directly: Give me 200,000, my son is sick. I was a little disappointed to hear that she had actually come to ask for money.

I said: Your son is sick and looking for your husband, what does it have to do with me? You didn't give me a baby when we were together.

Xiaohua said: You must give this money, otherwise you will regret it, because the child is your son.

I was taken aback when I heard her words, and I was half-convinced, and there was no sign of pregnancy when I divorced her. I guess she's here to fool me.

But Xiaohua told me the truth. After my parents drove her away, the next month, she learned that she was pregnant, and she was going to come to me, but I was already remarried.

After that, she quit her job at the bank, raised a baby with peace of mind, gave birth to a child, and did not remarry. Now her son and I are 5 years old.

Xiaohua also said: My son has congenital heart disease, there is a possibility of cure, but I need money, after I gave birth to him, I did not go to work, all the savings over the years were spent on my son, and now he still has to undergo an operation, it takes 200,000, I really can't do anything, and I can only come to you.

In order to verify the facts, I went to the hospital with Xiaohua. After seeing the child, he did have a bit of a godlike resemblance to me. And Xiaohua also said that she could let me do a paternity test, and of course I believed that the 5-year-old child was my son.

I directly transferred 300,000 to Xiaohua, and I said: I will definitely be responsible for the child to the end, and if the money is not enough, I will tell it.

I didn't accompany Xiaohua in the hospital, after all, if I didn't come home at night, my wife would be angry.

I told my parents about it, and they were taken aback, they didn't expect that my ex-wife had given me a son.

My mother said: I already knew that she was pregnant with a child before, so I wouldn't let her divorce you.

I said: Isn't it all your credit that I divorced her, and it's too late to say anything now.

Father said: In fact, we also loved Xiaohua before, after all, she is capable and filial piety is good, and she is indeed much better than your current wife. Moreover, Xiaohua also gave birth to a boy to our family, and now this daughter-in-law has only given birth to a girl, and her temper is not good. We also know that your relationship with Xiaohua is better, or you divorce your current wife, and then let Xiaohua come back, she is not married anyway.

Hearing my father's words, I hesitated, he was also right, I love small flowers in my heart. But if I get divorced, wouldn't I be sorry for my current wife? Even if she is a lot worse than Xiaohua, I don't want to be a treacherous man, after all, my current wife has been married to me for 5 years.

What am I going to do?

@Moving Emotion Analysis:

What I'm trying to say is don't be an ungrateful man. There is no regret medicine in the world, and there are gains and losses.

You and The Little Flower, which have become the past, have to keep your distance. Now that you have a wife, your most contact is the common son, and then don't do anything else. #情感 #