In this era of information explosion, a statement about banning paternity testing is like a pebble thrown into a calm lake, stirring up layers of ripples. One woman claimed: "For the sake of fairness, paternity testing should be banned. As long as the child born in marriage, whether the gene is yours or not, the child is your child. As soon as this remark came out, it immediately aroused widespread attention and heated discussions from all walks of life.
We can't help but ask, what kind of fairness is this woman's "fairness"? Is it "fairness" to cover up the truth and give up the right to explore the facts? When "fairness" is so distorted, should we revisit what the word really means?
Fairness is a sacred and solemn word, which stands for justice, equality and justice. However, in the woman's mouth, "fairness" seems to have become a tool to cover up the truth and maintain a semblance of peace. What she is looking for may be a world without strife and doubt, but is this really the "fairness" we expect?
Paternity testing, as a science and technology, is to reveal the truth and resolve disputes. It is an assistant to the law and a guardian of morality. Banning paternity testing is tantamount to covering one's ears and stealing the bell, and deceiving oneself and others. We cannot choose to avoid it because we are afraid to face the truth, let alone cover up the facts in the name of "fairness".
Let's imagine a scenario where a man pays for the bride price, his house, his car, and everything else, only to find out that the child is not his own. Such a blow is heavy for anyone. If he had known the truth beforehand, he might have chosen not to get married; But in hindsight, it was discovered that the pain was undoubtedly doubly doubled. Can we really comfort him with a phrase "to be fair"? Apparently not.
To be a man, you should be down-to-earth and innocent. We cannot expect deception and concealment in exchange for so-called "fairness". This fairness is false and fragile, built on sand and can collapse at any moment. True fairness should be based on honesty, loyalty and trustworthiness.
Sincerity in exchange for deception will eventually end in an end that we cannot bear. This not only hurts ourselves, but also the people closest to us. Therefore, we should be brave enough to face the truth, no matter how cruel it may be. Only in this way can we truly be fair to ourselves and to others.
Going back to the original question, does banning paternity tests really bring "fairness"? The answer is clearly no. We cannot abandon the search for truth in the pursuit of superficial peace. On this issue, we should have a sober understanding: only the truth can bring true fairness and justice.
So, how should we view and deal with such words and behaviors in the face of such words and behaviors? In my opinion, we should adhere to the following principles: first, we should respect everyone's right to know and choose; Second, we must maintain social fairness, justice and moral bottom line; Finally, we need to promote the values of honesty and loyalty.
Everyone has their own opinion and point of view on this issue. But in any case, we should respect the facts and the truth. Only in this way can we build a truly fair and just social environment. At the same time, I also hope that everyone can take responsibility for their words and deeds, and not mislead others with distorted thoughts. Because in this world, there is nothing more important and sacred than the truth.
Finally, I would like to conclude this article with a quote: "Fairness is the soul of society, and truth is the cornerstone of fairness." "Let's work together to maintain the fairness, justice and moral bottom line of this society! At the same time, I also hope that every reader will have their own voice and opinion on this issue. Because it is only through communication and discussion that we can continue to progress and grow.