Smart women in the in-laws after marriage, must know how to put their own position, what can be done, what can not be done, to have a number, the following taboos must not be touched, remember

Smart women in the in-laws after marriage, must know how to put their own position, what can be done, what can not be done, to have a number, the following taboos must not be touched, remember!

First, you can't complain that your husband is not, let alone go to your in-laws to file a complaint.

Always remember that your husband is your mother-in-law's son. Protecting the calf is the instinct of every mother, no matter how bad your own children are, they are treasures in the eyes of their mothers, and you dare to complain about their sons' badness, which is equivalent to indirectly accusing the in-laws of being wrong, so that they have an opinion on you in their hearts, not only will they think that you are not a good daughter-in-law, nor a good wife.

Second, do not meddle in the affairs of the in-laws.

In-laws' big things and small feelings, you must keep a distance, you must not know how to blindly zhangluo, especially between the husband and sisters, at this time you must remember, you are an outsider, they agree on the matter, if you politely consult your opinion, you agree with their plan on the line, to know that your opinion has no meaning, your different opinions in addition to let you label "do not understand", other meaningless.

Third, don't use your own (or your mother's) money to supplement your in-laws' family

Your eldest sister-in-law building a house, your brother-in-law buying a car, these things have nothing to do with you. Even if you borrow money from others, the in-laws will always think that this is your husband's generosity and understanding, and will earn money.

I really can't hide from it, and it is better to send some profits directly than to lend out my own money. Of course, if your family's money is all earned by your husband alone. 

There is also an important point, whether the money has been lent out, whether it can be returned, or whether it will be unpleasant for this repayment problem in the future is still unknown.

It is said that the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law are natural enemies, in fact, this is not true, where there is any natural enemy, the mother-in-law wants only that you are good to her son and can make her son happy. Her son is happy, she will naturally be grateful to you, sincerely good to you, so that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good! I'm @Ryusu, if there's anything unhappy, you can tell me that I'm waiting for you here. #Marriage & Family # #微头条情感 #