In fact, few people in this world are willing to be educated by others, especially preaching. Whenever our educational intentions are too obvious, in most cases the educational effect will be greatly reduced.
Teachers and parents are often used to talking at length and chattering, but they don't know how little success they have. Sometimes the fewer the words, the more blank space, the better the effect!
For example, comics.
01
A wake-up call for children's comics
First:
In his speech at Hengshui Middle School, Zhang Xifeng said a very sincere word:
When I was young, I couldn't listen to the advice of adults, and when I really passed that stage, I realized that everything the adults said was correct.
A child's heartfelt respect and admiration for the elders often has to start from middle age - people to middle age, experience the storms of life, only to know the parents and teachers of life is not easy, only to feel the preciousness of their life experience.
When children are also talking to themselves, they are more aware that many of the things that parents and teachers said to themselves were right.
Second sheet:
A person's life is like walking on a seesaw. The higher you go, the harder it is to find balance.
When you think you're getting taller, you're already starting to go downhill. And you find that you can never stand on the high point you see in your eyes.
Struggling back and forth many times, you find it so difficult to stand on a high point because you can never find a balance point.
If you want to stand on a high place, there is another way: someone is supporting you at the bottom of the seesaw, maybe family, friends, or enemies you killed.
Finally, one day, you realize that only by finding the balance of life, balancing play and learning, balancing jealousy and catching up, balancing independence and dependence, is the highest place.
Third shot:
On the journey to achieve their ideals, some children have a lot of fantasies every day, and they will do big things, become big people, and make big money in the future, but they can't sink their hearts to finish the topics in front of them.
Some children are down-to-earth and serious, set small goals, and take small steps forward.
Are you the one who fantasizes and doesn't act, or the one who desperately strives to achieve your goal?
Although action is not necessarily successful, but without action it will not succeed.
Fourth card:
Everyone is carrying a heavy cross and moving slowly and hard! Cut off a section, you will be very relaxed, but the gulf of life is in front, what do you rely on to get through?
On the road of life, each of us carries a variety of crosses and struggles forward. Maybe it's our learning, maybe it's our work. But it is these responsibilities and obligations that constitute the justification and value for our existence in this world.
Therefore, please do not complain about the heavy study and the hard work, because the real happiness is the result of the struggle, and without experiencing deep pain, we will not experience the happiness of being full of happiness!
The Family Story of a Comic for Children:
Many students will find reasons to fight their parents for reasons such as adolescence and rebellion, and some students think that their parents cannot keep up with the pace of the information age, and that their parents are out of the way and are reluctant to communicate with their parents.
Yes, students, you are in adolescence, rebellious period, but this is definitely not a reason to be cold to your parents and speak harshly to each other, no matter what stage you are in, filial piety to your parents is your life's responsibility, and listening to your parents' nagging is your life's obligation.
Old Tree Painting once painted a group of small paintings to the father, wrote a group of small poems to the father, sincere and moving, full of our feelings and voices.
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Tenth sheet:
Comic source: Old Tree Drawing
02
The time of the manga for children
People in the youth, always feel that the future is far away, there is endless time to spend, the opportunity to come, in fact, many times life is in the rapid flow, rapid disappearance.
You can let your child look at another set of photos, let the child pay attention to the invisible flow, the visible changes!
This group of works comes from photographer Gustavo Germano, who collected some old photos of group photos from the 1970s and 1980s, and then found the people in the photos to restore in the same place, and the vacant position in the photos is the person who has passed away, the photos are extremely impactful, life is short, please cherish everyone around you, cherish every inch of time.
When we face our children, we always like to quote the scriptures, and we talk endlessly about written long speeches to persuade children to get on the right track, but we think that clever preaching is just a bunch of "big truths" that children hate.
The child is not stupid, what you say is unreasonable, untenable, the child will not be convinced.
Education also needs such four or two thousand pounds of points and inspiration, parents are less reasonable, perhaps a picture, an action, education is completed in the silent moisturizing.