Mention the "rebellious period", everyone will think of puberty, in fact, this is a misunderstanding, the child's life will appear three rebellious periods, is not feeling that do not know when to start, the child used to say "no"; when the child is asked to wash his hands before eating, the child will feel very headache when he waves his hand to you and refuses, in fact, this is the child entering the first rebellious period.
2-3 years old is the first rebellious period experienced by children, this time can also be called the baby rebellion period; whether it is eating, washing face or getting dressed at any time may cry wolf howl, difficult to control, and even roll on the ground, psychologically self-centered, like to do some strange things to attract your attention, in fact, the child's behavior is because of the initial autonomy at this stage, want to express some of their own ideas, the way of thinking is relatively simple, What comes to mind is what it is.
If your child is at this stage, in order to better cope with the child's first rebellion, as a parent, you need to have more patience with your child, you can let the child make your own choices, the most important point is to properly meet the child's requirements, to grasp a "degree", do not blindly accommodate the child, which will make the child's rebellion worse.
7-9-year-old children ushered in the second rebellious period, known as the children's rebellion period, this period of children from kindergarten into the primary school life, independent consciousness rapid development, after entering the primary school, new environment, new friends, so that children have the illusion that they have grown up, their world center is no longer their parents, but themselves or other things.
Children at this stage generally behave as rebellious, sharp-tongued and have strong self-esteem, so the conflict with their parents has become more, and the source of rebellion in children at this stage lies in dissatisfaction with the rules set by their parents. When parents face this situation, they should evaluate their children carefully, trust their children and objectively look at the matter of their children's backing.
12-18 years old finally ushered in the third rebellion, but also we all know the adolescence, adolescent children endocrine metabolism will appear abnormal, so interfere with the development of children's emotions and personality, this time the rebellion is the most serious and the most headache for parents. There are many children in adolescence who are difficult to discipline, and even in serious cases, there will be skipping school, fighting, eating, drinking, smoking and drinking.
Rebellious children let all parents are helpless, so parents should understand that children at this age have undergone tremendous changes in both physical and psychological, especially susceptible to the influence of the environment, will be more yearning for independent and free life, this time parents should pay attention to the way and method of communication with the child, to respect the child, reduce control, the stronger the control of the child at this stage, the stronger the child's rebellious psychology, try to get along with the child's identity as a friend, Don't blindly impose your own ideas on your children, listen to what your children say, and respect and support your children from the bottom of your heart.