On how to choose a life partner, Qian Zhongshu wrote in "The Siege" that such a way: "Travel is the most experimental way to derive a person's character. When traveling, it is the most troublesome and troublesome, and it makes human nature appear.

On how to choose a life partner, Qian Zhongshu wrote in "Siege of the City" in this way:

"Travel is the most experimental way to derive a person's character. When traveling, it is the most troublesome and troublesome, and it makes human nature appear. People who have traveled a long time and don't hate each other can make friends. The honeymoon trip after marriage is reversed, should travel for a month, after a month of boats and servants, the two sides have not yet seen each other, dislike each other, but also maintain the original marriage contract, such a couple promises not to divorce. ”

In fact, the emphasis here is on "long-term travel", because short-distance travel is like the early stage of love, and both parties can still restrain themselves and show a good side.

But long-term travel, long-term people's hearts, in the trivialities of daily life, people will eventually reveal the most real side, at this time can still get along, it is necessary to understand each other and difficult to run.