In "The World of Man", Zhou Bingyi was found to be in pain, and Zhou Bingkun hinted at his brother's divorce
The three children of the Zhou family seem to have a marriage that they feel good about, but they all have their own grievances.
Zhou Rong gave birth to a daughter, for the Zhou family this is a granddaughter, she is not surnamed Zhou, for the older generation, always feel a little estranged, Zhou Bingkun has a son, the Zhou family thinks that this is Zhou Bingkun's own son, only Zhou Father knows in his heart, the blood on this child is not surnamed Zhou, especially when he visits the New Year, he also hears some gossip about this child, and Zhou Father's heart is not a taste.
Although Zheng Juan is pregnant again, Zhou's father still hopes that Zhou Bingyi can have a child, and in their concept, the eldest child seems to indicate the consummation of the family.
At the New Year, those who are not married are afraid of the elderly at home to urge marriage, married and afraid of the elderly at home to urge children, with daughters also hope to have a boy, this is the most fashionable topic of people in that era, and this topic is also enduring, although there is a new understanding of boys or girls, but the topic of marriage and child generation has never decreased.
Therefore, the fact that Zhou Bingyi gave birth to a child has also become the focus of the two families, Zhou Bingkun has long known that Hao Dongmei has physical problems, and accidentally injured when fetching water in the winter, resulting in her and Zhou Bingyi having no children after marriage.
Hao Dongmei's parents first knew about this matter, especially when Hao Dongmei's father knew that his daughter could not get pregnant, he seemed to have an infinite sense of guilt for Zhou Bingyi, if he knew that his daughter could not get pregnant, he should help Zhou Bingyi's family to do some things.
In the heart of Zhou Father, Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong are very much fighting for their own face, Zhou Rong is the one who marries out, and he can be counted as half of the Zhou family, Zhou Father has unlimited hope for Zhou Bingyi, the only thing that is not satisfied is that there is no child, which has also become a piece of Zhou Father's heart disease.
In the traditional family, the male in the family, especially the eldest, seems to mean that they shoulder the heavy responsibility of passing on the generations, and many families are not unable to escape this strange circle of thought, and the reason why they cannot escape is because there are very few people who learn to resist.
Zhou Bingyi has long thought of a good countermeasure, if he has been asked why there is no child, then say that he is infertile, so as to reduce the harm to Hao Dongmei, after all, in this era at that time, a woman can not have children, but also suffered a lot of doubts and speculations, on the contrary, if a man can not have children, it seems to reduce the discussion of others.
Hao Dongmei's inability to have children is always a hidden pain for Zhou Bingyi, who also gave up his parents' expectations for himself and the right to become a father for love.
Zhou Bingkun and Zhou Bingyi fought
Although Zhou Bingkun has not studied for several years, but some people are still in the eyes, Hao Dongmei's parents have not come to visit home, Zhou Bingyi does not let the Zhou family visit Hao Dongmei's parents, where is the family, this is clearly a stranger.
In the eyes of Hao Dongmei's parents, if the daughter's in-laws were more capable than they were, they would have visited long ago, and if they did not visit Zhou Bingyi's parents, they were afraid that the Zhou family would trouble them to do something against their hearts.
Consider it from another angle, if Hao Dongmei marries a more powerful family, that person will also hide from Hao Dongmei's parents, and then Hao Dongmei's parents will be in the position of the Zhou family's parents, and will their daughters still be happy at that time?
Hao Dongmei's parents are treating themselves as people
Zhou's father has different expectations for the two sons, especially the eldest son Zhou Bingyi, so in the visits to relatives and friends and the words and words are intentionally mentioned Zhou Bingyi, under such words, Zhou Bingkun can not hear it, he can also complain.
Zhou Bingkun already knew the hidden pain of his brother Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei, but from his father's mouth, he always heard the voice of praising his brother, and it was also in front of outsiders, especially Hao Dongmei's parents have always treated their Zhou family with love and ignorance, and Zhou Bingkun's heart will inevitably think wildly.
Zhou Bingkun did not understand love so crepe, so he did not understand the feelings between Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei, he seemed to feel a kind of estrangement, thinking that his brother was corrupted by material, and the purpose of marrying Hao Dongmei was to climb the branches.
Zhou Bingkun's brother Cao Debao also had a dream when he was not married, he wanted to marry a phoenix who fell into distress, and after rehabilitation, he could fly in one move, and in Zhou Bingkun's eyes, Zhou Bingyi became such a person.
Zhou Bingyi was angry with This idea of Zhou Bingkun, and he was very angry and beat Zhou Bingkun, maybe Zhou Bingkun was not right, but it still came to Zhou Bingyi's weakness.
Whether intentional or unintentional, Zhou Bingkun's words are hinting at Zhou Bingyi's divorce, in Zhou Bingkun's mind, I really can't understand why Zhou Bingyi wants to marry a woman who can't have children, with him having two children, this idea has also fallen into a dead cycle, has his brother really become a person who hates poverty and loves the rich.
What exactly did it mean that women could not have children in those days?
Does Zhou Bingyi really not have any selfish intentions when he marries Hao Dongmei?