In order to urge my mother to marry, she was really soft and hard, and scolded me on the phone yesterday for more than an hour, and only one night the attitude of one hundred and eighty degrees took a big turn. Called me early in the morning and said, "Son up."

In order to urge my mother to marry, she was really soft and hard, and scolded me on the phone yesterday for more than an hour, and only one night the attitude of one hundred and eighty degrees took a big turn.

Call me early in the morning and say, "Is my son up?" ”

I woke up in my sleep, and when I saw that my mother had startled me, what I was most afraid of was that my mother had called early in the morning and at night.

Immediately picked up and said, "I didn't get up, ma'am." ”

My mother said: "Son, yesterday my mother did not sleep well all night, squinted for a while at dawn, and dreamed of your father, I thought a lot, yesterday I should not indiscriminately call you to say such heavy words, at that time my heart was comfortable, and afterwards my mother regretted that she was going to die." You are so stubborn, after listening to it, I don't know if you will not think about doing stupid things, the more you think about it, the more uncomfortable it is, you want to call you at night, think about it or forget it, and call you again in the morning.

Mom thinks a lot, your dad also said in the dream that the children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, told me to take care of myself, you have your own ideas when you are older, when you were a child, you were used to being the master, you always wanted to force rice, after your father died, everything is your own idea, marriage This matter, I want to understand, this time I really want to understand, should not interfere with you. You can rest assured that your mother will not be like this in the future.

Mom just saw that children as old as you, and children younger than you, are married, their children are in their teens, and some of them have given birth to their second children, and I am anxious and envious.

As soon as I said that you should get married quickly, you said that you would not come in a hurry, first engage in a career, and also advised me that what to do when you get married so early, you have to rely on your parents for everything you get married, and you have to work for two children, and leave your children to the care of your parents. Newborn children have become left-behind children, parents are in charge for more than ten years, and children can't see their parents a few times a year, you say how pitiful the children are.

At that time, my mother also said that you, what is the pity of left-behind children, and the grandparents are not painless.

You said that with financial means, children do not have to be left to their parents, they can carry themselves. Education is better. I used to object to your words. No objection now.

There are also many left-behind children in our village, and the grandparents are in pain and there are no pain, it is indeed pitiful, and no matter how painful it is, it is not as good as the parents around.

I called you just to apologize to you, my mother did something wrong yesterday. I won't scold you anymore. ”

I said, "It's okay mom, I didn't think about it, you're right, the male eldest should get married, it's time to get married." What do I think to myself? ”

My mother said, "Just think about it, I won't force you, if you have an object, tell me and take it home to see."

Look at your TikTok comments that you want to be a father, your mother also wants to be a grandmother, listening to people's children call me grandma, I was thinking how good it would be if I were my own grandson.

I also want to taste what it is like to cook for my grandchildren in the morning and take my grandchildren to school and leave school, they all say that they are tired and angry, and they don't know whether they are tired or angry, but my mother feels that if I am angry every day, I am willing. ”

I said, "If you're angry, hit your grandson." ”

My mother said, "That can't be beaten, that's my grandson, I can't bear to fight when I'm angry, when can I come this day?" ”

I said, "I'll do it as soon as possible." My mother said, "Well, son, the mother is waiting to hold the grandson." I couldn't stay up all night, I would sleep. ”

After my mother hung up the phone, I was very unhappy in my heart, a few heavy words can go to the light life, where there is an overnight feud between mother and son. My mom was so confused.

But a passage from my mother made me look forward to marriage, and the scene of having a son instantly sketched a warm picture in my mind.

My mother's seemingly open heart words were really offensive to me, more than yesterday's insults.

Yesterday's words only upset me, but today's words made me extremely heavy. What age to do something, it's time to get married!

Not only for my mother, but also for myself, because I also want to have a home of my own, a wife I like and love me, a crystallization of love.

That's happiness!