Daughter-in-law transfer 8000 to parents to visit the New Year, mother-in-law yin and yang weird anger scolding daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law but not mouth, mother-in-law called the son divorced, daughter-in-law directly back to the mother-in-law's home, the son chased to apologize, how should the daughter-in-law deal with this marriage?
Min Min and her husband met when they were working in Guangzhou, because they are both Guangfu and hunan people, and the two people have a common language when they chat, and they naturally become lovers. In love for two years, the two were married, although the two were both from Hunan, but she was also married far away, married from the northernmost part of Hunan to the southernmost part of Hunan, and took 7.8 hours by car.
After getting married, Min Min's husband still works in Guangzhou and wants to make more money to buy a house. Min Min originally wanted to go back to her mother's house to buy a house and settle down, she is the only daughter of the family, she wants to be closer to her parents and can take care of them. But my husband was reluctant and said, "Wife, if you marry me, you should follow me back to your hometown." On the side of our parents-in-law, we can often go back to see them, and when they are old, we will take them over for the elderly, and I will definitely take good care of them. Min Min saw the sincerity of her husband's words and acquiesced to her husband's idea of settling in her husband's hometown.
Min Min and her husband are married in the in-laws' house on National Day, and the first year after marriage is almost the New Year, and the husband said to Min Min: "Wife, this year we will go to your house for the New Year, and accompany your parents well." ”
Min Min was so happy, but the mother-in-law knew that they were going to their mother's house for the New Year, and scolded her husband on the phone: "Do you understand the rules?" In the first year of new marriage, you must go home, and when you get married, you will go to your mother's house for the New Year, and your relatives and friends will think that you are the son-in-law of others, and our family will be laughed at, and people will be poked in the spine. Son, give your parents a face, take your daughter-in-law home for the New Year this year, go to your mother's house next year, and then take turns on both sides for the New Year. good no good? ”
Min Min also does not want her husband to have no face in her hometown, so she can only go back to her in-laws' house with her husband for the New Year.
Last year, when it was almost the New Year, Min Min happily bought a lot of things with her husband and planned to go back to her mother's house for the New Year, but her mother-in-law called her husband and said: "Son, your father is sick, you come back quickly after the holiday." ”
The husband said, "Mom, my father's illness is not serious, right?" We are going back to our mother's house for the New Year this year, and we will not go home. ”
The mother-in-law cried and said: "Your father is more seriously ill, today is a little confused, the mouth is chanting your name, son, you have to go home to see your father, next year back to your mother's house for the New Year, right?" ”
Min Min had no choice, had to call her parents to explain the situation, did not expect her parents to comfort her: "Your father-in-law is sick, then you have to go back to see, if there is really something, you will also have a disturbed conscience, you will come back next year for the New Year!" ”
Min Min and her husband returned to her in-laws' house, but found that her father-in-law was just a common cold, only a little cough, the mother-in-law lied to them, the description of the father-in-law's condition was serious, she was angry and immediately wanted to go back to her mother's house, her husband pulled her, coaxed her to say: "Sorry, next year no matter what my mother says, I don't believe her, next year I will accompany you back to my mother's house for the New Year, I swear!" ”
Min Min was very depressed in the new year at her in-laws' house, and she was particularly ashamed of her parents, on the first day of the New Year, she got up early to transfer 8,000 Yuannian money to her parents, and then gave her parents a video call to give her parents a New Year's greeting.
Unexpectedly, when Min Min made a video call to her parents, her mother-in-law listened to the corner of the wall, and when she ate lunch, the mother-in-law deliberately said at the dinner table that the daughter-in-law of the relatives took care of the family, saved money and thrift, the family was prosperous, bought a house and a car this year, and also filial piety to the in-laws A lot of money; whose daughter-in-law did not care about the family, was extravagant, and also posted the money to the mother-in-law, you said that this mother-in-law's parents, so inconsiderate of the daughter, also received the daughter's money, simply fell into the eyes of money ..."
Min Min didn't care at first, thinking that her mother-in-law was talking about the gossip of her relatives, and then the more she listened, the more wrong she became, and the mother-in-law clearly referred to Sang Scolding Huai, that is, she ignored the family and gave all the money to her mother-in-law, saying that her parents dropped the money in their eyes.
The more the mother-in-law said more and more vigorously, has been talking endlessly, Min Min was angry, and then the mother-in-law's words said: "People's daughter-in-law's money, filial piety to their parents, how to your mouth has changed, I think this daughter to 8,000 less, should give 80,000, oh, I did not go home this year to accompany my parents, I have to transfer some money to filial piety to them." ”
After Min Min finished speaking, she took out her mobile phone to operate, and her mother-in-law snatched her mobile phone at once, and roared: "You transferred 8,000 to your parents, you are not satisfied, you still have to turn, you are married to my son, people are my son's, money is my son, how are you still in Cao Yingxin, take my son's money to supplement your mother's family, you eat inside and outside, how did my son marry such a loser daughter-in-law like you." ”
Min Min got angry and said, "I married your son, but I didn't sell it to your family." ”
The mother-in-law cried and said to her husband: "Look at your daughter-in-law, she gave her mother-in-law money, she is still reasonable, she told you not to marry her, you want to marry, you must divorce her, marry Miaomiao." ”
Min Min was so angry that he grabbed his phone and yelled, "Well, who is afraid of whom?" She directly packed up her things and took a taxi back to her mother's house at a high price.
In the end, my mother-in-law actually asked her son to divorce me. I was so angry that I packed up my things and took a taxi back to my mother's house.
Not long after Min Min returned to her mother's house, her husband chased after her, and her mother asked her husband what to do? My husband apologized to Min Min and her mother one after another, saying: "I will persuade my mother, but my mother is that temper, save the habit, I will definitely let you have less contact with her in the future, Min Min, you look at my face, you don't have to worry about my mother!" In the future, if you don't want to go back to my house for the New Year, you won't come back and never force you, okay? ”
Min Min is very entangled, her husband is very good, but he always listens to her mother-in-law, can not solve the contradiction between her and her mother-in-law, she does not know whether to forgive her husband this time, and continue to live with her husband?
Friends, do you think this husband is not a mother baby man? If Min Min can live a happy life with him, what should she do?
@ Flower World Willow Dark Flowers Bright
The son's marriage is still decided by the son himself, and the parents cannot be too domineering. It is very normal for an only child to go back to her mother's house to accompany her parents for the New Year and send them a red envelope. Mother-in-law can't be too selfish, let alone the daughter-in-law is taking the money she earns and transferring it to the person who gave birth to her and raised her, what is wrong with this? Therefore, after the son gets married, the mother-in-law still does not care too much, so as not to be rude.