My wife is 36 years old, working as a nanny, with a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan, going to work at 7 o'clock every morning, coming home at 9 o'clock at night, and she has only come back in the early morning for the last 2 months, giving me 650 every month

My wife is 36 years old, doing nanny, monthly salary of 5000 yuan, every morning at 7 o'clock to work, 9 pm home, the last 2 months she is only back in the early morning, every month will give me 6500 yuan, I think it is not right, just pay attention to her, that day I stayed in the community downstairs, saw her into a hot pot restaurant, into the door took an apron to start cleaning up the table, I slapped myself twice, scolded myself too useless!

I am 38 years old, Chengdu, Sichuan, my wife is 36 years old, Chongqing sister, and my wife met in the hot pot restaurant, when she worked in the hot pot shop, I worked in the construction site project department, because I often came to eat hot pot with colleagues, and I was familiar with my wife when I came and went.

I took the initiative to pursue her, but she has always felt that she is uneducated, unworthy of me, and does not agree to my marriage proposal, but the more she rejects me, the more I like her, after more than two months of dead face to invite her to dinner, watch movies, send gifts, she is finally touched by my sincerity.

A year later, we got married, three months after marriage, my wife was pregnant, I was worried that she was not good for the child at work, so I let her be a housewife at home to raise a baby, I went to work to earn money to support the family, because I ate and lived at the construction site, I didn't smoke, I didn't drink, basically I didn't spend any money, so I gave her the salary card and let her spend it casually.

The wife is a rural girl, because we just got married and have no money on hand, the wife is usually very calculating, very economical, after the birth of the child, the wife let my mother to take care of the child, she came out to work, although she only has 3,000 yuan a month, but this money is enough for the family's living expenses, my salary can be saved to buy a house after.

When the child was two years old, because of pediatric pneumonia, he lived intermittently in the hospital for nearly two months, it took more than 30,000 yuan to cure the disease, originally he was not rich in his hands, a disease treated the family empty, the father was not in good health, perennial back pain, and there was serious gastritis, every day to take medicine, watching the child grow up day by day, I felt that the burden on the body was particularly heavy.

I am paid 8,000 yuan per month at the construction site, in order to make more money, I use the holiday time to do odd jobs, because I will also renovate, after finding a job, the daily salary is 400 yuan, I go to do a day every week, and more than 1,000 yuan a month to subsidize the family.

Therefore, my wife especially hurt me, saying that the rare rest time, let me rest at home, accompany the children, but look at the family are counting on me, and in a few years the children will go to school, the cost will be greater, I can not help but desperately earn money to support the family.

Half a year ago, suddenly felt weak and uncomfortable, and could not eat, went to the hospital for examination, when the results of the examination form came out, I felt that the sky was spinning, it turned out that I had severe nephritis, and I could not go to work to make money and could not do things, and the doctor said that it was to recuperate.

I am the pillar of the family, I fell, what should I do with this home? It all falls on the shoulders of the wife, does she bear it? During that time, I really didn't want to live, and my wife comforted me every day, saying that there was still her at home! Let me rest assured that she will definitely support this family, let me rest assured that I can recuperate, and often encourage me, so that the child will accompany me to make me happy.

Since I fell ill, my wife has not worked in the hot pot restaurant, because she feels that the salary is too low, can not afford to raise a family, heard that the nanny salary is high, just in the introduction of friends to the nearby community to a 65-year-old retired uncle as a nanny, the uncle is healthy, but the wife is gone, feel lonely, the children will pay him to hire a nanny, just cook and wash clothes and clean up every day, go to work at 7 o'clock in the morning, leave work at 9 o'clock at night, 5500 yuan salary per month.

At the beginning, my wife came home from work at 9 o'clock every day, and when I got home, it was about 9.15 minutes, and I came back every day to talk with us, play with my children, and the family could only have fun together at night.

But in the past two months, my wife came home every day in the early morning of the evening, several times I asked her how to come back so late, she said that the uncle's stomach disease was particularly serious, the doctor had ordered to eat less and more meals, and then she had to prepare a bowl of porridge with the uncle at 12 o'clock every night, and after cleaning up for a while, she came back late, because she worked for a few more hours, so the uncle and her raised 1500 yuan salary.

At the beginning, I was particularly distressed about my wife, who worked for more than ten hours a day in order to make more money, and she was really tired! But last week, I came back from the hospital, on the way I met my wife as a nanny Uncle Liu, I chatted with my uncle for a few words, and then asked my wife if she came back from work until very late every day? The uncle said: "Every day she leaves work on time, and when she arrives, she leaves in a hurry."

When I got home, I felt something was wrong, my wife must have something to hide from me, and it was not a good thing, otherwise what to do after a few hours after work? In order to make things clear, I decided to pay attention to my wife's every move.

Yesterday, at half past eight I went to the green belt next to the neighborhood where my wife worked to hide, just waiting for my wife to come out, after nine o'clock, I saw my wife hurrying out, I quickly followed her, and walked for more than ten minutes to see her turn into a small alley, and then into a hot pot restaurant, I saw her from the window and took an apron and began to clean up the table, the action was particularly sharp.

I burst into tears! My poor wife, all because of my illness and drag her down, if I still have a healthy body, can earn money to support the family, where does the wife need to work so hard to support the family? I slapped myself hard! Feel so sorry for your wife, don't know how to repay her?

@Leaning Column Monologue Listening to your story, I am really proud that you have such a virtuous wife who cares for the family! Marry you when you have nothing, have children for this family, work hard, and be filial to the elderly.

When you are sick, you are by your side and do not abandon to comfort you, encourage you to have the courage to live, a young and weak woman works for more than ten hours a day, with weak shoulders to pick up the burden of the whole family, it is really not easy! You live by her side is the best reward for her! Such a good woman who is serious about righteousness, hard work and kindness is a good example for all women to learn! Kudos to her!

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