On the second day of the Chinese New Year, which was originally a very happy day, a video call interrupted all my goodness. I understand completely, there are really few people who can really see how well you are doing. The second day of the Chinese New Year is very stable

On the second day of the Chinese New Year, which was originally a very happy day, a video call interrupted all my goodness. I understand completely, there are really few people who can really see how well you are doing.

The second day of the Chinese New Year passed very peacefully, in the evening with the in-laws video phone, chatting really happy, suddenly a male classmate in the primary school video phone contact me, is my mother's family a village, since I got married these years, there is very little contact.

At that time, the phone call video with the in-laws was about an hour, and the male classmate kept making video calls.

Later, after hanging up the video call with my in-laws, I sent him a message: "I'm sorry, I was just on video with my family."

After a while, he hung up the video again, and for the sake of face, he had to connect his video.

After a few words of coldness, you can see in the video that he has drunk some wine, drunk, and his speech has begun to be out of proportion, and he is also a little arrogant.

He asked me, why didn't you come home for the New Year? I told him: "The children's school advocates that we celebrate the New Year on the spot, and the winter vacation time is not long, and it cannot add chaos to the country."

He immediately said, "Did you quarrel with your mother, or did you quarrel with your sister-in-law?" Whatever the reason, I have to go home! ”

What's the matter? Can you have a good chat on the second day of the Chinese New Year? If you can't, don't bother others.

Originally a very happy day, suddenly by this "two stunned" words made a very bad mood, you say how can everyone in life have ah?

In the New Year, I can't be spoiled by such a person, and suddenly remembered a story told by Professor Zeng Shiqiang of Taiwan Normal University in the "I Ching".

Professor Zeng said: "One day a man went up to the mountain to find Confucius, and it was a disciple of Confucius who received him, and he asked Confucius's disciples, what seasons of the year?" The disciple of Confucius replied, "There are four seasons in a year," and the man said, "There are three seasons in a year," and when the two men argued endlessly, Confucius came out.

The man pointed to Confucius's disciple and said, "Let your master judge and judge, and if I am right, you will give me three prostrations, and if you are right, I will kowtow three heads to you."

"Master, how many seasons does master have a year?" "Of course there are three seasons in a year," Confucius replied.

The disciple had no choice but to obediently kowtow three times to the man, who walked triumphantly down the mountain. Confucius's disciple asked the master puzzledly: "Master, master, a year is obviously spring, summer, autumn, winter four seasons, how can you say three seasons?" ”

Confucius replied to his disciple with a smile: "You didn't see that his whole body was green, he was a grasshopper, and the grasshopper was born in the spring and died in the autumn, and he never saw winter at all." You can't argue with him until dawn, so why waste your time and energy," Confucius's disciples woke up like a dream.

Therefore, when you encounter people or things in life that make you unhappy, why bother with it, just like meeting the "three seasons of people", do not waste time and your precious energy, and your heart will be balanced a lot.

Friends and friends Happy New Year, 2022 is full of sunshine and happiness every day! Stay away from the "Three Seasons Man". [Cover your face]

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