#Sexual Emotions#
The relationship between sex and emotion
Here is a platonic little couple who love to the death without sexual contact, and there is an unforgettable love story in which the male and female protagonists of many movies or novels have developed because of rolling sheets. Sex plays a very different role between the two, and it is indispensable to be two roles that are very different. The former is dispensable and does not concern itself. The stakes of the latter are high and indispensable. This can't help but make people ask whether it is sex because of love or love because of sex, and by extension, whether emotion causes sex or sex leads to the occurrence of emotion.
The old saying has clouds of "full of warmth and lust", and the sages still feel this way, let alone ordinary people and illiterate people. Sex is an indispensable part of human beings, but people often hold a vague, evasive attitude towards sex, in the eyes of most people, sex is only a way to pass on the generations, through the combination of reproductive organs, a series of biochemistry between reproductive cells to produce heirs, continue the family, regardless of emotion. It's just one way, one way. This was the most widespread mode of existence of sex in prehistoric societies, slave societies, and feudal societies. Even today, with the rapid development of various life sciences, natural sciences, and humanities, there are not a few people who hold this view. Sex is often just a sensitive topic. Especially when sex and emotion intersect, people tend to think that sex tarnishes pure emotions. As everyone knows, emotion and sex complement each other and are indispensable. A man and a woman in love will naturally want to blend with each other, intertwined limbs, in an absolutely private space, the two frankly meet each other, merge with each other. Reaching the realm of "you have me, I have you", this kind of sex established under normal circumstances can not only increase the sense of intimacy and security between couples, but also bring a sense of stability and certainty to their feelings. Their every action reveals their complete trust in each other, unreservedly for each other, full of tacit understanding and beauty, so that the other party further feels the feeling of love and being loved. Under the guidance of emotion, the sexual relationship established is unintentionally healthy and safe, and only sex with emotional support can show its original beauty without reservation.
Some people promote platonic love, no desire and no demand, regardless of flesh and desire. It's just the collision of hearts and minds, the spark of love. This kind of love is undoubtedly a spiritual enjoyment. They will think that sex is a taint of pure emotions and is not conducive to love maintaining its sacredness. In fact, almost all spiritual couples do not have the actual conditions for sexual relations, whether for physical or psychological reasons, or the obstruction of reality, rather than deliberately maintaining the so-called purity and sacredness of love. I don't know if you have heard the saying "Love becomes beautiful because of sex, sex becomes sacred because of love" this sentence is a good illustration of the relationship between sex and emotion, sex and emotion are a pair of Tilian, indispensable, complement each other.
Some people will also ask, is there any emotional communication between sex workers? What is the state of sex between sex workers and their sexual partners? It is only out of physiological desire, resulting in sexual behavior, even safe and healthy can not be guaranteed, what is the emotion? In this way, does it show that emotions and sex are not related? It is true that such sex has nothing to do with emotion, such sex is a transactional existence, irrelevant to emotion, whether out of physical desire or as a means of venting. However, for such sex, the existence of emotions is unnecessary, and the emotions or love that arise from this condition are undoubtedly deformed in most cases, and even if a small part can be cultivated to a positive result, the hardships experienced in the process are not humane. There are also people who fall in love with the opposite sex at first sight and have difficulty curbing their desires, so that a relationship can occur. For example, there are often such a situation in life, some people fall in love with the object of a one-night stand, which develops into a multi-night stand, and eventually the two become lovers. However, this is only a special case, after a one-night stand, they spend a lot of time and experience to develop feelings, because if there is no emotional support, there is not enough intimacy and security between them, there is no intention to understand, then, soon, this relationship will become a period of affair after tea, the transformation during this period, but from white moonlight to white rice grains, cinnabar moles to mosquito blood process.
Therefore, we should have a dialectical attitude towards the relationship between sex and emotion. Perhaps everyone should have an answer in their hearts, sex plays a pivotal role in the maintenance of emotions, you should know that the breakdown of marital or romantic relationships caused by disharmonious surname life is innumerable. The sex developed in the love relationship is not only stable, but also deepens the love of each other. Therefore, we should look at the relationship between sex and emotion with a dialectical eye.
