The man is deeply involved in the one-night stand scandal, and the wife's trick is too relieving

Hong Libo is a public institution worker, about forty years old, diligent, excellent he is deeply involved in a one-night stand scandal, his wife is too relieved to do so.

Lao Hong received a notice from the unit about his style of work, and he was extremely angry. He rushed to the leader's office and demanded that the punishment notice be revoked.

He thinks he's single, why not get a girlfriend? There is nothing wrong with work, can't you find a girlfriend for work? He is not cheating in marriage, nor has he committed bigamy, he only had a relationship with the woman after the divorce, a single dog, it is normal to find a female partner, why was he punished by the warning of the county pole industry? He considered it unreasonable and demanded that the sanction be revoked.

In order to restore the facts, the leader launched an investigation in advance, first of all to understand the accused plaintiff. It turned out that the woman was a married woman who knew Lao Hong usually, but did not intersect too much. That time was when Lao Hong was drunk, a friend called her to come, maybe Lao Hong was in a bad mood that day, drunk too bad to make a mistake. But the facts have been caused, the plaintiff wants to get a certain amount of compensation, Lao Hong believes that he is set, at that time the two sides of you and I wish, is a normal male and female interaction, is the other party blackmailing money, he refused to pay.

The woman was not reconciled. After a few days, Hong Libo received 8 WeChat messages from the other party, and the other party asked him to transfer money, the amount was fifty thousand, and he did not do it. The woman was eloquent and did her best, the purpose was to ask for money, saying that Lao Hong should pay for a one-night stand. Lao Hong is "dead pigs are not afraid of boiling water", that is, do not give.

The leader suggested that he was private, and Lao Hong was unwilling.

Then the woman sent screenshots of weChat chats with him, open house videos, and photos of shoulder to shoulder on the street, the purpose is obvious, that is, to ask for money. Lao Hong, laughing, thought that it was a matter of consensuality, didn't she want to blackmail money? I'm not used to her.

The woman's husband also knew about it, the couple hated each other, threatened and lured money, and Hong Libo was an iron rooster. Things got bigger and bigger, and it was full of storms in the city. Everyone talked about this matter with an unclear expression, and Lao Hong ignored it.

The leader wanted his ex-wife to solve the matter, but the wife did not do it.

The ex-wife thinks he deserves it, and it is reasonable that he can be fired from work. The ex-wife is very sad, divorce is not their intention, the two of them quarreled badly, but for a while, they were angry, they did not give in to each other. Regret after leaving, there is no need. Originally planned to remarry one day, but he had a one-night stand, and he disappointed her so much that he thought it was a joke that he wanted to remarry.

After the divorce, Hong Libo had dinner with his friends, and he said that he no longer had to pick up his wife who played mahjong in the middle of the night, nor did he have to listen to her nagging, thinking about it was simply happy. I drank too much that day, drunk on a broken piece, and unexpectedly something went wrong.

He had a pig teammate who, while he was drunk, made a phone call for him, arranged a bureau, and waited for him to wake up, knowing that the consequences were serious.

Hong Libo hated the sinister tricks of his friends, let himself be on the road, and his drunken state was set up by the heart machine woman. He simply broke the jar and broke it, did she ask for money? Don't give, can you drop? And did not force her, not a crime, what can she do to him?

The woman was not willing to "lose the lady and fold it", and sued him to the unit, only to have the warning notice.

The ex-wife was angry and hateful. His own good family, torn apart by the two of them, is now making this ugly incident, causing a lawsuit and a dilemma. She and Lao Hong's relationship has always been very good, originally planned to remarry, and now that this has happened, Lao Hong is still interested in opening his mouth, and remarriage is impossible.

At this time, someone suggested that the ex-wife go to settle the matter privately, so as not to be embarrassed, and to avoid The punishment of Lao Hong. The ex-wife was indignant, "Divorce is a momentary, there is no principle issue." But he can't wait to sleep with other women in an accident, is it deserved, why should I help him, we will not violate the river water from now on. The wife stood by and watched, and also beat up Lao Hong's things, threw them out of the house, and broke up completely.

Lao Hong finally revoked the punishment as he wished, and although she was divorced at the time of the incident, the woman was married, and there was a picture and the truth, which could not be defended.

Some people say that ex-wives also have responsibilities, and they should start from the overall situation and help him solve it privately, and the pattern is bigger.

Some people say that the ex-husband is an adult, has the ability to solve his own affairs, and bears the responsibility for the mistakes he makes.

Some people also say that the woman is not a good thing, she has a husband, both sides are voluntary, after the blackmage of money is not successful, they sue and accuse, is to choke the staff of the establishment of seven inches, is a deliberate extortion, should not not punish her.

Do you think that Hong Libo's warning has been unjustly punished? Is the ex-wife stingy?