The third elder and his daughter-in-law are both doctors, except for Chinese New Year's Eve have eaten together, and they are at work these days of the New Year.
When we came home from the hospital for dinner yesterday afternoon, all three of us talked about our respective jobs.
Many fans of my job know that it is easy to go bald, and the second is financial, risky and high income.
The third is a doctor who belongs to the system, the basic salary is not high, and the benefits are OK.
The third daughter-in-law is a doctor who belongs to the People's Hospital, the salary is higher than the third, and the promotion space is also larger than the third, which is more arduous.
Today I am still in the hospital rounds, the doctor's work is too hard, and so hard is more afraid of medical trouble.
The old third Chinese New Year's Eve on duty at the highway intersection at night, checking vehicles coming from other places, and registering for epidemic prevention and control by the way.
The third elder often told me: If you have a choice, you must not choose to be a doctor, not the general tiredness.
I said, save lives and help the injured such a tall profession you don't want to do what you want to do? The third looked at me every time with an idiotic feeling [cover my face]
Did I do something wrong? Are there any fans who are doctors? Tell us what you think about the profession of doctor?
The eldest New Year's Day will talk about the love history of the third elder!
The third elder and his daughter-in-law are junior high school classmates, and when they know each other, they are not particularly familiar with each other, just acquaintances.
In the three years of junior high school, they said no more than ten sentences, because her wife was a particularly shy person, and the third was also an introvert.
After the turning point appeared in college, the two people had no contact during college, and they were both friends on QQ.
When he was in college, the third had a girlfriend. I've seen that ex-girlfriend because the third oldest took her to meet my parents and is ready to get married.
The people are pretty, they are locals. He is about 160 years tall and is a senior high school classmate. In high school, they fell in love.
In the south, it is more common for junior high schools and high schools to fall in love, and it used to be.
When I was in junior high school, I also wrote love letters to chase girls, but they were rejected.
The third and his ex-girlfriend were still very stable until graduation, and by the time they were 24, they had been together for exactly seven years.
So the third was ready to propose to his girlfriend.
His ex-girlfriend refused the third's marriage request on the grounds that she had just joined the work force, but could get engaged.
Because the old third daughter-in-law said that she was still young and wanted to play for a few more years. The third ex-girlfriend is a nurse,
Since the relationship is stable, both parents have also met, know the roots, then choose a good day to get married.
When we were engaged, we all went to participate, the bride price was not much, 50,000 yuan was given, and the woman also gave the dowry!
To be honest, I'm envious. The three brothers got married, and my wedding ceremony was the most shabby, and the third was the most luxurious.
Parents are the least painful and neglect the biggest children. A bowl of water will never be even, and the person who is hurt the most in his heart will always be the boss.
The trigger for the third elder to break up with his ex-girlfriend was because his ex-girlfriend was tricked into going to Guangxi Beihai to do pyramid schemes, and he had an ambiguous relationship with the male leader inside the pyramid scheme.
Also tricked into it was his friend, who came out of the pyramid scheme and said it.
Our He family can accept an ugly woman, but we can't accept a woman with watery Yanghua. It was the men who couldn't stand it, and the third elder called her!
His ex-girlfriend didn't deny it and acquiesced. The old third heart has been broken, and immediately proposed to break up with his ex-girlfriend.
After the breakup, this woman still wanted to entangle, and the third elder changed his mobile phone number! There was no contact later, and neither parent knew they had broken up.
The third didn't say!
Later, a year later, his ex-girlfriend came back, told her the ins and outs of her mother, and then took his mother to find the third elder, hoping to find the third elder.
The third did not agree, because a few months after the breakup, the third found the current daughter-in-law.
The third is a good boy, although it is to heal the wounds, but together they are also ready to be responsible for her.
How could a good horse possibly eat back grass again?
This is unfair to the future girlfriend, and the third can't do such a thing!
The third ex-girlfriend sees that the reunion is hopeless, so she plans to pester at the bride price.
My parents and my uncle sat down and talked for a long time.
In the end, it was agreed to compensate his ex-girlfriend for losses of 50,000 yuan, and the dowry of the engagement was 50,000 on top, and the dowry was equivalent to money to the woman's family.
I didn't ask how much money I lost in total, but it was perfectly solved anyway.
No matter how real the feelings have not escaped the itch of seven years, they have finally broken up after being together for so many years.
After another year and a half, the third was married. The third daughter-in-law's family is well-off, and she marries a villa [strong] [strong] [strong]
For the third daughter-in-law, my whole family is very satisfied. The old third daughter-in-law is perfect in addition to being short (155cm)!
The academic qualifications are relatively high, and the graduate students have graduated. The work is a doctor in a regular hospital, and the family still has money and power! Her cousin is a deputy director in a city in Guangdong.
And although this villa is not from Guangzhou, it also lost a Nissan Xuanyi.
The bride price and the gift of both sides were all deposited into the account of their little two, and his husband gave back some of the stock (I also want to have a father-in-law like this)
Compared with when I married my wife at that time, the dowry at Zhumadian was all collected, and one out of 100,000 miles was picked.
The meaning of one out of 100,000 is 10 W plus 1 yuan dowry, and the dowry in the north is much higher than in the south.
Zhumadian has not returned the gift, probably because it is too far away!
The third elder and her daughter-in-law now add up to more than 10,000 wages, not counting welfare and others.
But because they have the support of both parents, they no longer need to worry about mortgages and car loans.
So sometimes I also wonder if the third brother married his ex-girlfriend at that time, would he be so happy 😁 [teeth] [teeth]
Sometimes, decisive letting go can find something better, can't it?
Stopping the loss in time and not letting his head go above the Hulunbuir steppe is what men have to do.
I give the old three a thumbs up!
I have already sent the design of the house of the third old, and I will no longer send it here.
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