I am a 52-year-old rural bachelor, and after receiving 560,000 land acquisitions last month, I feel that my life has reached its peak. Widow Zhang, who had rejected me before, took the initiative to live with me, she

I am a 52-year-old rural bachelor, and after receiving 560,000 land acquisitions last month, I feel that my life has reached its peak. Widow Zhang, who had rejected me before, took the initiative to live with me, she said: "The two of us are the most suitable, the child can also be passed on to you, I don't want you anything." But can I trust her?

I am 52 years old, a typical rural old bachelor, childless, lifelong unmarried.

We have three brothers, and I am the third oldest. When I was young, because my family was poor, I went to the town to work in order to help subsidize the family, but I unexpectedly broke my leg, and when I was well cultivated, my right leg was no longer able to do it. From then on, I can only walk on crutches and do some easier ways to live.

In our rural areas, people with disabilities are vulnerable to discrimination. At that time, when I was in my 20s, I didn't believe in this fate, and I saw that the eldest brother and the second brother had already married their daughters-in-law, and even the two dogs who were dumber than me in the village had talked about an object, so I couldn't bow to the wind and let the matchmaker help me introduce the object.

At first, the matchmaker was very willing, after all, our family has a lot of land. Because of my grandfather's generation, there were seven or eight sisters and sisters in the family, and at that time, the state distributed land according to the population, and after they got married, all the land came to my grandfather's name.

And my father is a single line, so there are relatively more brothers than the same villagers.

The matchmaker also introduced me to several objects, at first did not say my own conditions, they rushed to my family's field, can support themselves, so they are very happy to come to my house for a blind date, but after learning that I am a cripple, they are disappointed to refuse.

After that, I also gave up the idea of blind dates, after all, I didn't have much ability to work. It wasn't until I was in my 30s that a partner from the same village died of illness, leaving behind his wife and two children.

At that time, everyone encouraged me to take the plate, even my parents supported me, my parents were old, afraid that I would be alone, as long as I had a partner, they were willing to accept it no matter how she was.

I also plucked up enough courage to confess to her, I said: "Brother and sister, or we will build a gang in the future, you with two children is not easy to remarry, as long as you want, I will help raise children in the future", but she ruthlessly rejected me.

She said: "If I partner with you, I am not as free as a person, it is not that I look down on you, although your family has land, but you can't grow crops, it's not useless."

Later, my parents passed away one after another, and although my two brothers were good to me, I could not disturb them for a lifetime, after all, they also had their own families.

And I didn't dare to expect love, I grew some vegetables myself, I could also feed, and rented out the fields left to me by my parents, and I could survive by renting grain.

Over the years, the younger sister Zhang Widow of the same village also changed several men, but none of them succeeded. I don't know what she thinks, obviously the conditions are not good, and they still hate me, at least I can help do some easy farm work.

But fortunately, with the help of Low Bao and my two older brothers, my life is still good.

Last year, the leaders of the town came to visit me at my house, and they put forward suggestions to help me get rid of poverty and get rich, they said that I could not grow crops on my land, it was better to rent it out, it was better to sell it to the government, they used it to help build farms, for those entrepreneurial young people who were willing to develop agriculture and animal husbandry.

I have no problem, after all, I have no use in keeping it, and several pieces of land under my name are connected together, which is just right.

In February this year, a staff member went to measure all my land area, and then quoted me 560,000 yuan and left me a vegetable field. When I heard 560,000, I was really shocked, after all, rural people, hundreds of thousands is already a huge amount of money. Within a few days, they took me to get a bank card, and the money was transferred to the card.

I took 100,000 yuan for my two brothers' families, and I planned to spend the rest myself.

However, I don't know who revealed the news, and in the next few days, many matchmakers came to my house to visit, which made me almost float. But I politely refused, the ones they introduced, either older than me or much younger than me, but I am also used to being single, to be honest I am afraid that others will blackmail my money. If I were young, I would at least have time to understand, but now that I am in my 50s, I don't have so much energy to talk about feelings.

And yesterday, I was taking a lunch break at home, but widow Zhang came to visit, and after seeing me, she came to me and said: "Brother, if we don't live together now, it's not too late, at least you know, we should be the most suitable, I can also do farm work to support you, the children also pass on to you, I don't want anything, just want to have a dependency."

I was frightened by her sudden scene, she rejected me more than 10 years ago, and we didn't have much intersection after that, but this time, she actually said that she wanted to live with me, I really couldn't believe it.

Do friends think I can promise her?

@Moving Emotions analysis is as follows:

Looking at your description, you can indeed say that it is ill-fated, single for more than 50 years for physical reasons. And in the past half a hundred years, good luck hit the head, but also thanks to the development of the country, in order to have a better life.

For you today, you can actually promise Widow Zhang. My reasons are:

1, your life can be said to be a creation of people, have not experienced the taste of love and family, because love is what many people yearn for, and promise her, you can also pick up two cheap children, but also can experience the fun of being a father.

2, although to put it bluntly, she just knows that you have money to approach you, but you must also understand a truth, the heart to the heart, you are really good to her, in fact, she will also be good to you. After all, who can be ruthless?

3, for the money in your hand, you firmly grasp well, the remaining hundreds of thousands, you do not be too generous, appropriate help them, her children can not say that they will not care about you in the future, after all, you are good to them, everyone can see.

4, compared to other women, she and you are indeed the most suitable, each other are in a village, no one can play Laipi. As long as you are gracious and generous, she will definitely take good care of you. #情感 #