Recently, a bear child in Henan went to a relative's house to play for the New Year, and poured a bottle of mineral water on the piano keys of the host's home, causing the piano to break on the spot. Unexpectedly, the child's parents said amazingly: "Oh, the child does not understand things, but also good intentions..." The owner faced such a family that exonerated responsibility, and gave him a meaningful education lesson.
Originally thought that the child's parents will take the opportunity to educate the child what kind of behavior is correct, what behavior is wrong, to give the child a correct concept of right and wrong enlightenment education, did not want to be the child's parents, but directly with various excuses to exonerate responsibility. What's going on? Let's take a look at the details:
On the fourth day of the spring festival, a six- or seven-year-old boy followed his parents to a relative's house to visit the New Year, at first in the master's house is a variety of crazy play, see what decorations or small ornaments, will pick up to see or play, and then casually throw things, casually in various rooms around blindly press and touch p; the child's parents are blind to the whole process, and have not spoken out to stop the child's behavior. As the host's family, it is not easy to say anything; the adults are chatting in the living room, and they do not pay attention to the movement of the children.
Later, the master's family went to the study to get things, only to find that the bear child was pressing the piano keys randomly, and wanted to go over to stop the child from playing around, but saw that the whole piano was full of water, and there was an empty mineral water bottle next to it, when the owner of the gas almost threw the bear child down from the 26th-story building! After taking a few deep breaths, he forcibly suppressed the anger in his chest and asked the child what he was doing, but the child said to help her wash the piano!! A sentence shocked the owner in the wind messy, petrified on the spot [petrified] [shocked]
Eller go! The wordless master called the child's parents to tell the situation, but unexpectedly, the strange parents opened their mouths to say that the child was still young and did not understand things, and the child was also a kind and other excuse, all kinds of shirking responsibility. In the face of such "doting" children's parents, the host family had to admit that they were unlucky. Considering that it is a relative, after all, things have already happened, and it is useless to say more, and it is not good to completely turn the face upside down.
When the last family of three was leaving, the host family called the child over to give a big red envelope and said to the child: "The child is so cute, smart and clever; the aunt likes you very much, thank you for helping your aunt wash the piano so clean and thorough, this is the reward for washing the piano, and when you see that kind of big piano in the future, you can also help them wash, they will be very happy and give you a great reward." But you can't tell your parents, otherwise you will confiscate your red envelopes. ”
Although I don't approve of the master's approach, sometimes I help to squeeze the pustule from the side, which may have a good effect.
No, on the first day of the eighth day of the Chinese New Year, I received news that this bear child ran to a piano shop in a large shopping mall to wash a Piano of Besendorf, and is now in the process of ripping ...
It is said that this piano is imported from abroad, the relevant customs documents, certificates and whatnot are complete, the price is more than 660,000, and now the police are involved in mediation, either at a discount of 660,000 to buy, or to compensate for depreciation of 200,000 [decline] The family is crazy and anxious!
After watching the whole incident, it was speechless, right? It is also very sad and helpless, as a parent does not discipline their children in a positive and timely manner, society or others will educate for you, but the cost is too high, I am afraid you can not afford it.
Therefore, as a parent, we must pay more attention to the child's daily behavior, and the inappropriate places must be corrected in time, if you do not warn the child positively, it is too late to regret the development of small things to big things!
The parents in this article, if they deal with the child's piano washing in the family's home, I believe that there will be no major events in the future, although the protagonist's approach in the text is not advisable, but it also sounded the alarm for us: whether the child is ignorant because of his young age, or he is kind enough to do bad things, since the matter has come out, and the child's behavior has caused loss and harm to the other party, it should not blindly protect the child and evade responsibility. The sincere apology that should be apologized, the compensation that should be paid is decisively compensated; the misconduct of blindly pampering the child and protecting the child will only lay a time bomb for the future.
What do you think about this?
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