Husband betrayal and cold war how to do, smart wife 3 tricks let him take the initiative to admit mistakes, peace! Yesterday, a fan said in a private message in the background: I found that my husband made a mistake, had a big fight with him, and is currently in the Cold War

Husband betrayal and cold war how to do, smart wife 3 tricks let him take the initiative to admit mistakes, peace!

Yesterday, a fan said in a private message in the background: I found that my husband made a mistake, had a big fight with him, and is currently in the Cold War. What should I do to make him take the initiative to admit his mistake and beg me to reunite?

What I want to say to this fan is: if he has the heart to confess his mistakes with you and beg you to reunite, he will not have an extramarital affair at all. He's fighting with the women outside at this point, so why would he come to you?

Don't think that you are reasonable, men should bow down and come to confess their mistakes and seek peace, you think too much. In the face of men's betrayal, if you want to save the marriage, you must do the following 3 points:

1. After discovering that your husband has betrayed the marriage, use tactics to fight him. Forbearance and cold war are not solutions to problems. Many women find that their husbands are engaged in extramarital affairs, especially afraid that their husbands will therefore propose divorce, they will endure all kinds of patience, waiting for his conscience to find a change of heart, in fact, you do not exert pressure, do not try to create their contradictions, they get along well, how can your husband change his mind?

Some women will argue with their husbands, and after the quarrel, they will have a cold war, and the result is to trigger a conflict between husband and wife, and the man runs away from home in anger. These are obviously not the results we want.

2. You want to become the leader of the marriage, when the husband has an extramarital affair, he must find a way to reverse the situation, not waiting for him to come back to you, he has changed his heart, you do not dominate, he cannot take the initiative to find you to ask for a compound.

At this time, you must take the initiative to talk with your husband, talk to his lover, let them both retreat from difficulties, and wait for them to provide opportunities for further development, and then you will be more passive when you live together, have children, and you will be more passive.

3. To control the situation, do not escalate the contradictions within the marriage, but instead create contradictions between your husband and lover. Like the fan's approach, the cold war after arguing with her husband is obviously a serious impact on the feelings of the husband and wife, on the contrary, it also gives them the opportunity to be closer.

What you have to do is to find out why your husband has an extramarital affair with this woman, what he has gained in her, and what the woman has taken a fancy to your husband, and then to create conflicts between them, so that they can see each other's faces clearly and recognize the nature of the extramarital affair.

Encountering an affair is not terrible, the terrible thing is that you are helpless and let others kill. If you are also unfortunate to encounter similar problems and do not know how to solve it, you can tell me the details @ marriage expert Zhao Yuechen private message, I will help you.

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