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Zhao Dongyu, who lives in Changsha, Hunan Province, is 38 years old this year, with a monthly salary of only 3200 yuan, 5 years ago, but spent up to 68,000 yuan in dowry, married a 23-year-old girl Lu Yan, children and daughters, fortunately

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Zhao Dongyu, who lives in Changsha, Hunan Province, is 38 years old this year, with a monthly salary of only 3200 yuan, 5 years ago, but spent up to 68,000 yuan of dowry, married a 23-year-old girl Lu Yan, children and daughters, happy and happy, however, 6 months ago, his wife smashed the things in the family, making him jump like thunder...

The thing is this, this year's 38-year-old, family living in the countryside of Changsha, the family is poor, until 6 years ago, after the family's old house was expropriated, he finally bought a house and a car with his family in Changsha, and also spent up to 68,000 yuan in a dowry 5 years ago to marry Lu Yan, who is already 23 years old.

After marriage, although the husband and wife gather less and leave more, but still husband and wife love, children and children, and more than 2 million assets, life should be happy and happy.

However, just 6 months ago, his wife, who had been away from home for 1 year, suddenly came to the door with her mother-in-law and directly smashed the furniture and appliances at home, and there was a fierce dispute between the husband and wife, which made him angry and thunderous, and he did not know how to be good.

In desperation, he had to find the Hunan city emotional mediation column "Heshi Guy" column group, hoping that through the joint help of media reporters and Heshi Guy, he would help him find his wife to ask for an explanation and give his children a complete and warm family.

Subsequently, under the enthusiasm of the peacemaker, he soon met the emotional man downstairs in a certain community in Changsha's Yuelu District, and as soon as they met, he could not wait to tell the peacemaker.

"The thing is this, I am from the countryside of Changsha, after the family's old house was expropriated, only 5 years ago, spent up to 68,000 dowry, married Lu Yan, who is already 23 years old, after marriage, husband and wife love, children and children, have a house and a car, assets of more than 2 million, should be happy and happy."

"However, 6 months ago, I was working in Xiamen, but I received a call from my parents at home, and my wife, who has been married for 5 years, actually brought my mother-in-law to the house to make a fuss, not only smashed the furniture and appliances at home, but also burned the wedding photos and quilts of our wedding, pushed and shoved his parents, for which I had a fierce dispute with my wife, wanted to divorce, my wife still did not give up, still unreasonable trouble, let me be angry and thunderous, I had to ask your media to come forward!"

In order to understand the truth of the matter, he and the affair man immediately contacted his wife Lu Yan, expressed his willingness to mediate, and agreed to meet at the door of Changsha Xiangya Hospital.

However, at the appointed time, as soon as he met his wife, there was another argument, his wife said.

"I admit that 6 months ago, I did go home and make some extreme moves, but how could I be indifferent to the things he did?!" The evidence is in the hospital! ”

Hearing his wife's words, he actually became cringe and shrunk, and directly turned around and left the mediation scene, his wife directly took the peacemaker into the Changsha Xiangya Hospital, and saw his mother waiting in front of the bed of another strange woman, still holding a son in her arms.

His wife and his mother again had a fierce argument and shoving, in order to prevent the tense from expanding, the peace guy calmed each other's agitation in time, and when the mood eased, his wife pointed to the weak strange woman on the hospital bed and told the peace guy.

"This woman is the third person in our marriage, the woman who does not have a face, 6 months ago, it was I who came back from shenzhen to work, heard that my husband had a new woman, and has been pregnant for several months, here the hospital really saw the mother-in-law taking care of this woman, the husband has been avoiding it at that time, not giving an explanation, only to go home in anger to smash the things in the family and vent the dissatisfaction in his heart!"

In this regard, his mother told the peacemaker.

"The son did do something wrong in the marriage, we also learned later, but at that time this woman was already pregnant with Liujia, unable to beat the fetus again, I only out of sympathy for this woman, personally went to the hospital to accompany, and still hope that the daughter-in-law can forgive my son's excessive behavior, did not expect that the daughter-in-law actually returned home, smashed the furniture and appliances at home, so that we are helpless!" 」

Lying on the hospital bed, the strange woman who had just had a caesarean section told the peacemaker.

"My name is Sun Yufen, from the countryside of Chenzhou, Hunan to Changsha to work, 1 year ago, I met Zhao Dongyu, did not tell me that he has a family, I was also deceived by him, forced to be a third party, and due to physical reasons can not do surgery to shed the baby in the stomach, only recently in the caesarean section gave birth to our love crystals, but his wife was angry with me many times, I am also a stomach gas nowhere to vent!

As she spoke, Sun Yufen choked up with tears in her eyes.

Since this is the case, in order to completely mediate the emotional contradiction of his marriage with his wife, he once again agreed that he would come forward and communicate with his wife to resolve the contradiction, and he also expressed his willingness to mediate.

Eventually, he agreed that he would come with his wife to the local judicial mediation office, and at the beginning of the mediation, he told the peacemaker.

"I admitted that I did do a betrayal of marriage, very immoral, mainly married to my wife for 5 years, together for less than a year, lack of a lot of communication to produce a crisis of trust, every time I encountered something is noisy, just at such a time, I met the gentle and considerate Sun Yufen, and then I did something ridiculous under the impulse! Now, having realized the mistake and wanting to save the marriage! ”

However, unfortunately, with a monthly salary of only 3200 yuan, he could not come up with enough money to compensate the third party Sun Yufen, nor could he change his wife's forgiveness for him, he and his wife also broke up again, and his wife Lu Yan said that she considered suing for divorce, everything was handed over to the law to solve, and the 5-year marriage reached the point of court, which made people sigh endlessly...

In this regard, the headlines dear brothers and sisters, what do you think? If you were your wife Lu Yan, what would you do? #Emotional Emotion # #Emotional Review Awards # #我要上头条 #

Zhao Dongyu, who lives in Changsha, Hunan Province, is 38 years old this year, with a monthly salary of only 3200 yuan, 5 years ago, but spent up to 68,000 yuan in dowry, married a 23-year-old girl Lu Yan, children and daughters, fortunately
Zhao Dongyu, who lives in Changsha, Hunan Province, is 38 years old this year, with a monthly salary of only 3200 yuan, 5 years ago, but spent up to 68,000 yuan in dowry, married a 23-year-old girl Lu Yan, children and daughters, fortunately
Zhao Dongyu, who lives in Changsha, Hunan Province, is 38 years old this year, with a monthly salary of only 3200 yuan, 5 years ago, but spent up to 68,000 yuan in dowry, married a 23-year-old girl Lu Yan, children and daughters, fortunately

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