Xiao Yan, who had just entered the first grade of junior high school, was quite interested in the new school, and one day after school, she saw that the time was still early, so she carried a school bag and turned around in the school. At this time, there are fewer and fewer students in the school,

Xiao Yan, who had just entered the first grade of junior high school, was quite interested in the new school, and one day after school, she saw that the time was still early, so she carried a school bag and turned around in the school.

At this time, there were fewer and fewer students in the school, but there were still a few senior students walking around in the corridor. Xiao Yan had just walked to the door of an office deep in the teaching building, when she heard a teacher stop her, it turned out that a strange male teacher wanted her to help sort out the scattered volumes in the office. Xiao Yan stood at the door of the office, looked into the room, found that only the male teacher was alone, so he did not go directly in, but stood at the door and said: "I'm sorry, teacher, I'm a freshman, I don't know too many rules." Moreover, it was not too early, I had to hurry up, my mother was still waiting for me at the school gate, and if I didn't go out, she should be in a hurry. Teacher, can I help you next time I have a chance? ”

The male teacher looked at Xiao Yan, who was standing at the door of the office and refused to come in, smiled and waved his hand: "I know, the little girl's sense of prevention is still quite strong, but it is right and worthy of praise." Well, it's really not early, hurry home, don't be alone in the campus ah, save the mother from worrying. ”

Xiao Yan mischievously spit out her tongue, said goodbye to the teacher, and quickly ran to the school gate with her school bag.

On the surface, it seems that Xiao Yan misunderstood the male teacher, because the teacher just wanted her to help, but was rejected.

However, we can't think that Xiao Yan is wrong to do this, on the contrary, her approach is worthy of our careful consideration and reference, because she shows a strong sense of self-protection. In fact, her practice should be something we should learn from, learn from, and can really apply to practice in the future.

Are you confused? So let's take a closer look at it.

First of all, when hearing the request of the strange male teacher, Xiao Yan did not immediately enter the strange office, but first observed the environment: there was only one male teacher in the office, but there were still some senior students in the corridor, Xiao Yan chose to "stand in a place with many people, not to go to a place with few people." Obviously, this kind of way of keeping herself in public is the right thing to do, which ensures that she is always in the line of sight of everyone, and if something happens, she can also let the people around her find out at the first time. This judgment is very important for girls, as a vulnerable group, we can not push ourselves into a more helpless situation, but to seek an environment that we can rely on, the more people, the safer we will be.

Secondly, in the face of the teacher's request, Xiao Yan did not show obedience, although the teacher's request was reasonable, and there was no other meaning, but Xiao Yan still bravely expressed her refusal. This refusal allows Xiao Yan to avoid being alone with the strange male teacher, and the next potential danger (even if it is one in ten thousand) is naturally avoided.

Some people may feel that this is too careful and will hurt the feelings of teachers or other classmates and peers, but sometimes, you can't just talk about feelings. As a girl, to be aware of the dangers that may occur in their own body, whether the other party has such an attempt, they should first have a sense of protecting themselves, and the heart of prevention must be there, and the emotional problems will be said later.

In the end, Xiao Yan behaved very wittily, using "Mother is waiting" to create an illusion for others, and explained the reason for her own prevarication very clearly in one sentence. Although the teacher immediately felt the meaning of her words, it also affirmed her expression and practice, which shows that Xiao Yan's witty reaction has been recognized by the teacher.

Isn't it bad to lie? Not good, of course, but also when to say. As long as we can save our own health and safety, it doesn't matter. When encountering danger, our brains should also turn around, don't just shout, just cry, but should try our best to get ourselves out of the dangerous situation, is the most important thing to do.

In general, let's not say whether Xiao Yan is really very clever in her handling skills in dealing with the teacher's request for help, but the strong sense of self-protection she showed in this matter alone is enough to make people praise.

In fact, to put it in layman's terms, many times we are not in danger because we "can't cope with the danger", but precisely because we "don't realize that it is danger" and we have walked into danger, and this unconscious self-involvement is the most dangerous.

Girls are really weak compared to boys, and as students, many times we are helpless against certain dangers. That is to say, if we really need to deal with unscrupulous people, we may not really have enough ability, so instead of waiting until after the risk is involved, it is better to have enough self-protection awareness before the risk, so that we can avoid going into danger. Just like Xiao Yan did, there is always an idea of "protecting ourselves" in our hearts, so our actions will naturally not appear reckless.

Therefore, we should also correct the previous more extreme cognitions, do not wait for the danger to come to think of learning various skills to deal with, but to sound the alarm in your heart before the danger comes. However, this does not mean that we do not have to learn those skills, consciousness must be cultivated first, and skills must also be well studied, after all, the world is unpredictable, we do not approach danger, but danger may inadvertently find us. Therefore, important self-protection awareness must be there, and important self-protection skills must also be learned.

With awareness and skill, let every girl become a "super girl" who knows how to protect herself!