Post-90s: When I gave birth to me, I was fined 3600 yuan, why let me have three children now?
Recently my baby was about to be born, and my mother came to take care of my daughter-in-law. By the way, my uncle and aunt are preparing to have three children, although my uncle and aunt are not very old, but they have already given birth to two daughters, if you want to have a son again, I am afraid that the pressure will be great in the future. Because we are all rural families, the economic conditions are average. The mother said that it was because the sisters and brothers on both sides of the uncle and aunt had daughters, and there was no son. My aunt's mom wanted her to have another one.
Of course, I am opposed to having a second child and having a third child. Everyone knows that having two or three children is lively at home, and the children are not alone. But now the cost of raising a child is too high, and having a boy is even more stressful. After that, it was a house, a car, a bride price, or something. But the elderly still want the young people to have more children, and they are happier to have boys. They have no idea how stressful it is to have a boy.
During this time, my mother talked about me again. When I was born in 1993, family planning was tight, and my sister and I were only two years apart in age, which did not meet the fertility standards. So the village cadres asked my mother to beat the fetus, and finally forced my mother to have a caesarean section for only more than six months to let me come out early, and I was only born more than three pounds, and almost hung up.
After giving birth to me, I had to hide from the village cadres, and my mother sneaked back from the river in the middle of the night and brought me back in a bag, but she was still found. The village demanded a fine of 3,600 yuan, and 3,600 yuan for a rural family in 1993 was not a small amount. There is no money but to take food crops to arrive, and on hot days, we have moved all the electric fans and radios in our house. He also arrested my grandmother and took her to the township for a few days to sit in the "study class."
Unexpectedly, more than twenty years have passed, and now the three children have been opened. Unexpectedly, everyone didn't want to be born, and the world became too fast! Don't say that now is to give 3600, is to give 30,000 6, I guess many people do not want to have children, right? #生孩子 #
