In love, the most disappointing thing for women is these 4 moments
preface:
For girls, it is always the details that defeat love,
Men in love always feel that women will be angry inexplicably,
Even make men feel very tired of this behavior,
In fact, the more a woman likes a man in love, the more she wants to stick to her.
Because I subconsciously fear loss, I want to get more security from men,
But many men do not understand that women will not get any return in their feelings after all.
In fact, love is a process of continuous accumulation, a man gives all the love to a woman, and the woman will be very dependent on it.
If a woman is scarred in love and is full of disappointment, this disappointment accumulates too much, and the girl will leave discouraged.
I have to say that there are a lot of boys who are very straight men now,
They don't understand women's minds even more. Over time, girls will feel very disappointed.
So many women will slowly "get down" to boys in their feelings.
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "The harm of men to women,
It's not that he's in love with someone else, but it's about disappointing girls when they have expectations.
Didn't help him when he failed, but was jealous of her when he succeeded."
Therefore, in the relationship, what women are most afraid of is that men give them hope, but they always disappoint themselves.
The most important thing in the relationship is the understanding and tolerance of both parties,
The premise is to understand the feelings and thoughts of the other party, otherwise it will hurt a person.
1. When she is full of enthusiasm for you, the man does not care
In fact, for every woman, she hopes that her enthusiasm can get a response from men,
Because women want to get the love of men at this time.
But there are many men who don't care in the process of giving love to women.
Slowly it will be consumed by the relationship, if you don't get any response for a long time.
Women will naturally be extremely disappointed in men,
Women in relationships care a lot about the details, so they care about a man's every move.
So if you don't care about a woman's efforts, then he will definitely leave you.
2. You don't give help when you're helpless
Women are weaker at all times and mostly hope that their men can love themselves.
How to encounter difficulties and helplessness in life, the first thing that comes to a woman's mind is also the person closest to her.
What you value most is always the concern of men.
In the end, women will rely on men because they care, because no woman in love wants to be a strong woman.
If you are not there when a woman in a relationship needs a man to be around, it will definitely disappoint the woman.
If she is absent every time, the woman will slowly lose her heart and even let go of the relationship.
3. You doubt her when she trusts you
A woman's most desperate moment is that she has loved someone for so long, and the other party still does not believe in herself.
We all know that the most important thing between couples is mutual trust and respect.
If a woman puts all her mind on a man, it's all because of love,
But being suspected by the person you love the most will make women unable to accept it.
So in a relationship, what a woman cares most about is that you don't trust her.
As a result, it will also make its disappointment uneasy.
4. Not in public love
The saddest and disappointing thing is that two people have been in love for a long time, and men always don't disclose the relationship.
The circle of friends and even the friends around you never knew you existed.
This kind of man is likely to be cultivating a spare tire, and this phenomenon mostly occurs in long-distance or online dating.
The inherent insecurity will further deepen the inner fear of the other party.
Therefore, if you love someone and want to be with each other for a long time, you must be bold and open.
In this way, both parties will feel safe and even trust each other.
Conclusion:
Marriage is a long process based on the feelings of two people,
Therefore, in this process, feelings are the most important,
Both people's words and deeds will be based on not hurting each other's feelings,
Only such a relationship and a marriage can go on happily.
Two people in a relationship must be mutual, but where one party takes the initiative and the other is indifferent, such feelings cannot last long.
Many women may not be so materialistic, all they need is the thoughtfulness and meticulous care of men.
Nor does it need much romance, just a small detail in life can touch a woman's heart.
So the details determine success or failure, and the details also determine a person's love for you.
In the relationship, we must polish our eyes to find the other half, so that we can live happily in the future.
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References | Journal of consulting and clinical psychology