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A few days ago, Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives in Hebei, found his biological parents.
Originally, I thought that this would be a plot of searching for relatives and finally reuniting.
But within a few days, he was blocked by his birth mother on WeChat, and his biological father scolded him in the circle of friends for being a "network beggar", "human packaging" and "selling a tragic success".
The family affection that he had been waiting for was only 7 days— he suffered a second abandonment.
The reason behind this is even more infuriating:
Not lost, not kidnapped, but sold!
What about the money sold? The result was a failed marriage for the birth parents.
It is said that children are the crystallization of love, but Liu Xuezhou has become a victim of love and an abandoned object of marriage.
So what do we have children for?
Succession?
Raising children to prevent aging?
I read the answer from a book that goes something like this:
"In order to participate in the growth of a life, there is no need to fight for my façade, no need to pass on the generations for me, and there is no need to help me retire." I just want this life to exist, to walk in this beautiful world, to give me the opportunity to walk with her (him) for a while..."
This is the most touching answer I have ever heard.
We have seen this answer in Sun Haiyang, in Fu Jiantao's mother, and in Guo Gangqiang.
But not everyone has the same luck as Sun Zhuo, and not every father is called Sun Haiyang.
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Whose fault is it to be born without raising?
In "Imperfect Her" played by Zhou Xun, there is a little girl named Mu Liansheng. When chasing the drama, her tragic experience made me cry.
Mother Mu Jing is actually a poor woman, and her husband has not yet had a wedding, leaving the two to rely on each other.
Even so, she was not crushed by fate, and no matter how bitter her heart was, she would smile and face life.
I believe that she loves Mu Liansheng.
Because she once said, "I want to raise Lotus like a family with two parents." ”
But she loved herself even more.
Otherwise, how could he allow Shang Wu to humiliate and abuse his daughter, whom he regarded as a treasure?
Being beaten and being used as a target for a game gun became a common occurrence for Lian Sheng.
And even if it is full of scars, when facing his mother, Lian Sheng always bends his lips and smiles at his mother: "When my mother is happy, I am happy." ”
There was only her mother in her world, but her mother chose to abandon her.
A fire burned away all her thoughts about the family and the affection between her and her mother.
When people are desperate, they are likely to do something unexpected.
Just like Mu Jing, who longs for a happy life, she has lost her conscience and feels more and more that her daughter Mu Lian has created a burden on her road to happiness.
Just like the distorted thinking of the Chongqing sister and brother crash case:
They shouldn't have existed in the first place, and with them we wouldn't be happy.
Therefore, behind the birth without raising is:
The greed and fear of human nature, it can erode people's hearts and make people ugly.
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The sin of abandoning a child is not something that every parent can know for themselves.
Therefore, not every child can forgive his parents for their sins.
I had a classmate when I was a child, because she was a daughter, and her parents were not of childbearing age at the time, and the family wanted to have another one. In order to hide her identity, she had to be sent to her grandmother's house for foster care, and fell on her grandmother's account.
This was also very common in the countryside in the early years.
The village knows it, just don't pick it up, but there are always a few people who like to say more.
So after she understood things, she already knew her own background, but she never admitted it.
When I grew up, I got married and had children, and even though I would go back to visit them every New Year's Day, I never called my parents.
Children who are forced to lose their parents, the lack of fatherly love and maternal love in childhood, are ultimately incomplete in their hearts.
But if the parents really know that they are wrong, and the blood is thicker than the water of the affection, who is willing to give it up?
After all, parents are really different from parents.
Therefore, in my opinion, Liu Xuezhou's encounter is not because of the abandonment of his biological parents, nor because of the death of his adoptive parents.
It's because of the wrong fetus!
Having such parents was perhaps the most unfortunate thing in his life.
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If you are born without raising, why should you be home?
A 12-year-old juvenile offender took his parents to court while in prison.
The judge asked him, "Zane, why sue your parents?" ”
Zane said, "Because they gave birth to me." ”
This is just a clip from the movie "What a Home", but it is enough to make people heart-wrenching.
Parents living at the bottom of society have no time for themselves, and they still have children one by one. After the first menstruation, girls will be forced to marry, because they "can't afford to raise".
Man is like an ant, and his life is like grass.
Children in the slums, life is gray, they do not get the care they deserve, they live at the bottom of society.
When the judge asked Zane what he wanted, he said only, "Don't let parents have more children."
To be born without raising is to commit a crime against a child.
But there is no law that can deprive parents of the right to have children.
We cannot decide our own birth, let alone choose our own parents.
But Liu Xuezhou made his best choice - never forgive!
As Momoe Yamaguchi said in his autobiography, The Vast Moment:
I don't have a father, and although I know he exists on this earth as a physical being, I don't.
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