This article is original by Tu Ma Ai Na Na, all rights reserved, infringement will be investigated
Before the arrival of the New Year, Liu Xuezhou ended his life in the beautiful Sanya, which was caused by the cold-bloodedness of his biological parents and the terrible online violence.
Today, also deeply involved in online public opinion is Liu Xin, the defendant of the "Jiang Ge case."
Before the second-instance trial, Liu Xin used Liu Xuezhou to compare herself, she believes that she and Liu Xuezhou have suffered a serious Internet storm, in the interview, Liu Xin said that she has been waiting for the truth to come out for 5 years, and the reality has repeatedly made people in a desperate situation, she has been avoiding becoming Liu Xuezhou.
Unexpectedly, Liu Xin's speech made her "network exposed" again.
Many people who have done wrong things will try to get a chance to be forgiven, but why is Liu Xin so hated?
The answer can be summed up in eight words: mistakes are not recognized, and mistakes are not willing.
As Chinese students studying in Tokyo together, Before the tragedy occurred, Jiang Ge and Liu Xin were a pair of very good friends, and Jiang Ge even allowed Liu Xin to live with him after Liu Xin had a conflict with her boyfriend.
But what Jiang Ge did not expect was that it was out of this kindness that he finally lost his life.
At the moment of crisis, Liu Xin abandoned Jiang Ge and left the hope of life to himself.
If greed and fear of death are attributed to the weakness of human nature, even if Liu Xin sincerely admits her mistake afterwards and tries her best to make up for Jiang Ge's mother, she will not become the object of netizen criticism.
But what did Liu Xin do?
She got a new haircut and happily took selfies on social platforms;
She sent a "blessing" text message to Jiang Ge's mother during the festival, using "family fun" to stimulate the pain of the other party's bereavement (the explanation afterwards was that she used the wrong word);
What is even more shocking is that as a parent, Liu Xin's parents did not give their daughter the correct guidance after the incident, but instead threatened and intimidated Jiang Ge's mother.
How can such a parent raise a daughter with three views?
Liu Xin admits that he is now miserable: no friends, no job, no hope...
In this regard, netizens applauded and praised while firmly supporting Jiang Ge's mother, it is clear that in the eyes of the vast majority of people, Liu Xin's fate is completely worthy of her former words and deeds.
From the perspective of parenting, what pushed Liu Xin to a desperate situation was not only the selfishness and cowardice in her bones, but also the failure of family education.
In the child's behavior, there are three views of the parents
Born as a human being, everyone will make mistakes, making mistakes is not terrible, the terrible thing is that when the child makes a mistake, the parents do not guide it correctly, so that small mistakes become big mistakes, and eventually they are out of control.
We do not understand Liu Xin's growth process, but from the attitude shown by Liu Xin's parents to Jiang Ge's mother after the incident, it can be inferred that Liu Xin's family education is missing.
She did not face up to her mistakes under the guidance of her parents, on the contrary, the family of three also carried out language and writing attacks on Jiang Ge's mother, and to this day, Liu Xin still believes that she has no problem.
As parents, it is natural to protect children, but this protection must be based on not violating morality and principles.
If it is clear that the child has caused serious consequences due to misconduct, and instead of guiding the child to stand up and apologize at the first time, the parents will "go along with the child" and attack the victim, then this distorted three views are bound to cultivate the child more and more "crooked".
Many people say that children's behavior hides the three views of their parents.
Indeed, Jiang Ge's mother is really kind, and Jiang Ge is also enthusiastic and righteous.
On the other hand, Liu Xin, her parents blindly protected and shielded her daughter after she made a mistake, Liu Xin is the same, a human life can be big or small in her eyes, after her friend died for herself, she did not have a trace of guilt in her heart...
Influenced by network public opinion, Liu Xin used Liu Xuezhou to compare herself, hoping that she would not become a victim of internet violence, I don't know if Liu Xin at this time thought it, it is also her selfishness that makes the innocent Jiang Ge a victim of an emergency...
Topics in this issue
How do you see Liu Xin's current situation? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!
I am a mother, there is a cute baby at home, every day to record and share a temperature, height, depth of parenting experience and interesting talk, pay attention to me, at any time to get scientific and reliable parenting dry goods! Feel free to leave a comment or tell me what you think in the comments section!
(The pictures in the text come from the Internet, if there is infringement, please contact to delete, thank you)