Kindness
A few days ago, the imperial capital was full of snow, and the sidewalk was full of snow, which was a scene that had not been seen for many years. The snow nucleic acid project has made the atmosphere of the past year heavy and helpless.
The theme of this paragraph on the Internet is to find relatives, a few happy endings, father and son reunion, mother and son reunion, although the road is regrettable, there is hope and happiness ahead.
Most are hot spots of core misery.
Some mothers endured hardships and humiliation to seek justice for their daughters who died in a foreign country; some fathers were sentenced to death for personally pushing their children down the tall buildings.
Some hard-working people find their sons to recruit the new crown, and at the same time usher in bad news when they get the attention of the whole network; some finally find their biological parents after going through twists and turns, but choose to live lightly in the face of secondary abandonment and Internet violence.
The world is so uneven, but you and I can't do anything about it. Those who know me say that I am worried, and those who do not know say that I am worried about writing public names.
Years ago, I didn't plan to write more articles, and I am especially reluctant to write articles related to hot spots recently. God knows how much traffic goes in the name of "justice"!
But when I saw the news this morning, I still broke the defense...
This grandmother is so pathetic! If Liu Xuezhou can be strong, don't pay attention to those online flies, don't be sad for the ruthless biological parents, work well and live well, take care of grandma, how good it should be!
But how can we accuse this child of not being strong? He was only 15 years old, lost his adoptive parents at the age of 4, was bullied in school since childhood, and won a room full of awards.
15 years old, originally a sensitive mind, easy to impulsive age, the second middle school teenagers in every household, not all of them are as supplied as their ancestors, and their parents dare not come out, lest they intensify the contradictions and create the tragedy of running away from home and self-harming themselves.
And this poor child, the adoptive parents are gone, the aunt who loves him is gone, the parents who are hard to find, treat him worse than strangers, a white-eyed wolf.
There is also inexplicable malice from the Internet, those strange netizens, just by guessing, have made false accusations of personality against a 15-year-old teenager, which directly led to his collapse and suicide.
Think of the world, there are no surprises, other people's heads are as heavy as Tarzan, and when they come to the keyboard of some people, they are as light as mustard seeds.
And what kind of people have empathy, this is strange.
Most people will have a strong sympathy for "the most tragic tone of the epidemic" and "15-year-old teenagers who committed suicide after finding their relatives and disappointed", which belongs to human common sense and is a natural and simple true emotion.
I am not saying that a large number of people is necessarily right, but in recent years, it seems that it is particularly popular to pick the fault of the victim, but to empathize with the perpetrator, as if it is different from others, it is a kind of intelligence and cognitive superiority.
So Liu Xin has die-hard fans, loudly emphasizing that she also has her own rights and life, why should she bear such a heavy life because of an accident, and why should she have to manage Jiang Ge's mother?
So Jiang Ge's mother became an evil person who although a dead daughter, but frantically amassed money and made a lot of money, and said that she would not announce the matter of charity, and was chased and scolded by a group of keyboard men for several years.
So although Liu Xuezhou is only a 15-year-old teenager who wants parental affection, the keyboard heroes are a, not a man and no woman, just recognize the house and ask for money.
What is incomprehensible is that they can empathize with the parents who sold their children: "People now have their own families!" It's not easy for your parents to earn money, why buy you a house? ”
Even if the children have passed away, some people still scold on Weibo: "Die well, parents are less burdensome."
Is it that even the dog men and women who throw children in Chongqing have empathy? "You just lost your children, but what people lose is love!"
In the final analysis, such people have a common characteristic - that is, they only emphasize their own rights and selectively ignore their obligations. Of course, the more such people, the better they live, because their hearts will not be entangled in "responsibility" and "shame".
Don't say entangled, they don't know that there is a word "responsibility" in the world, they are full of thoughts - "You have a trick to think, no trick to die, why are you bothering me?!" Don't disturb my life! ”
They don't think, what's wrong with an unaccompanied teenager who wants a home of his own?
Yes, it is wrong to disturb the person who does not take responsibility, to be born and die, to quietly find a place to solve it, to come to people's homes, to affect the lives of others, is wrong.
So this kind of person, hiding behind the keyboard, scolds this and that to vent their anger; this kind of person, if he likes cats and dogs, raise them, and throw them away if he doesn't like them; this kind of person, once he gets in the way of his own family and friends, can be abandoned; this kind of person, I would rather bear the world's people than teach the world's people to bear me.
Don't say that the children will be exceptional, cold-blooded parents have seen more in the past two years, a pair of pink and tender dolls can be thrown at high altitude, what beast has not yet?
Human nature is complex, society is diverse, we can't force everyone to be good people, can have a consensus on the standard of good and evil. In some of the short lawsuits involving parents, there is no discernment to judge who is right and who is wrong.
But we can at least control ourselves, in network incidents, do not judge easily, do not add up bad words, especially for minors, we must have more kindness and help, do not wait for tragedies to occur, and we can't feel sorry.
Public opinion is a double-edged sword, and sometimes its power can be used to promote the settlement of events, so that the helpless can help and the wronged can be revealed.
However, once you become a party to a hot event, the development direction of the matter is often difficult to control. There will always be people who look at the person with a magnifying glass, find flaws and imperfections, and then shout and insult loudly to show their "wisdom" and "excellence".
And who can be perfect? Whose private life can withstand repeated pickpocketing and amplification? What's more, some are basically rumors, but they can be quickly circulated and fermented quickly.
Three people into a tiger, a lot of mouths to shovel gold, the situation has the Internet blessing? Liu Xuezhou will not be the last victim of online public opinion, and in a few days, his affairs will be overshadowed by new hot spots and eliminated from the world.
However, he is still a child, a helpless child who has been heartbroken by society. If he had been able to get a little more kindness and a little less misunderstanding, he could have survived, become a teacher, and lived a happy life that could heal his childhood.
Most of the people who pay attention to me are the parents of the chicken baby pen, and I have said before that this is the happiest group of people in the family.
But those who have husband and wife discord in the family, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fight, poverty and scarcity, and continuous disasters and diseases, do not have the heart to chicken babies. Chicken babies can only happen if all household indicators are relatively stable.
In this circle for a long time, we sometimes have a beautiful misunderstanding of the world, thinking that parents love their children unreservedly, and children can grow up happily.
However, there are many incompetent parents in this world, many poor children, laughing on the surface, their hearts broken and collapsed, their souls crumbling, and they only want to die.
Silly child, you die, those bad people will not regret it, before they die they will shout: "You have the ability to die!" When they die they say, "Wow, it's really dead." "Then what to do."
Sincerely advocate that from now on, starting from me, everyone can be a little more tolerant and kind to the victims of news events, especially the minor victims, and most importantly, a little bit of morality.
They may not be perfect, Jiang Ge's mother, Liu Xuezhou, the most tired tuners, they have encountered so much, their hearts are full of holes, how can they be perfect, who can be perfect?
These poor people are individuals, not charitable organizations. After donating money, our goodwill has been fulfilled, so why ask the person how to spend it? Afraid of this, don't you want to donate at all?
It may be really difficult to achieve "not to kiss their relatives alone, not to have only sons and sons", but at least let the young have strengths, do not let widows and widows be lonely, and the sick and sick have to face the inexplicable malice from strangers.
Less harsh, less regretful
A little more kindness, a little more vitality
Gentlemen are repugnant, and there is no evil sound
Don't forget your kindness, you can get good results
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