Communication is a good medicine: unhappiness must be expressed in a timely and appropriate manner, and holding it in the heart will eventually lead to a big mistake! Some people around me, some things, some recent public events, let my heart for a long time can not be calmed. Mixed feelings, lamenting that fate is playing tricks on people, but at the same time because of their lack of communication, do not express missed opportunities or cause irreversible losses, feel sad, why can't they open their hearts to see the world?
Perhaps the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear, saying that other people's heads are the Tao, and doing their own is confused. But life should be confused, and life should communicate with others more. Three stinky cobblers are better than one Zhuge Liang, when we are helpless, helpless, confused, the people around us will give us good advice, let us see the world through the fog, let us see the real self, will not miss in their own world.
15-year-old Liu Xuezhou was abandoned by his parents twice, ending his young life. To this day, my heart still hurts, Liu Xuezhou is still a child. Even if he did say let his parents prepare the house, then what? He just wanted to have a home. Think of your own children, but also to enter the age of 15, all day long is still in the mother's mia, the mother is screaming, in front of the eyes of the father and mother, and Liu Xuezhou is bearing all kinds of things.
If Liu Xuezhou could speak his mind and seek the enlightenment of his grandmother or aunt, maybe he would be another life. He can open his heart, complete his studies, and go out on his own. You know, Liu Xuezhou already has a large number of fans, as long as the attitude is positive and hard to move forward, many people are his help, without his parents, he can live a wonderful life. But he hid a lot of his heart in his heart and eventually sacrificed himself in his own world.
There is also the incident of Meng Meng, an 18-year-old girl in Xingtai, Hebei Province, being poisoned by her brother-in-law, which is largely due to non-communication and non-expression. Meng Meng's brother-in-law has an introverted personality and does not like to talk, but he has always been inferior because of poverty, and he always feels that his mother-in-law's family looks down on him. Regardless of whether his mother-in-law looks down on him or not, if he can express his thoughts earlier, even if he communicates more with his wife or his parents, maybe he has untied the knot and will not make a big mistake.
The inner thoughts of the cute brother-in-law, accumulated in the heart, not only did not fade, but also increased day by day, and finally developed into extreme behavior, resulting in irreparable consequences. A flower girl, almost lost her life, had to change her kidney, and suffered a double blow of body and psychology. And the cute brother-in-law will also face the loss of his wife, the loss of freedom, the son's lack of paternal love, and suffer from the impact of public opinion.
The incident between Liu Xuezhou and Meng Meng is far away from us, but the truth is very close to us. Think about how many people around you, because of the lack of communication, lead to bad results. My classmate's father always thought that his wife looked down on him, always spoke coldly to his wife, never calmly communicated with his wife, and finally ended up seriously injuring his wife, and her wife was paralyzed in bed forever. One of my beautiful girlfriends, angry and cold, whether it is for parents or lovers, and finally ended in divorce, three children lack of father or mother love, in fact, her husband loves her very much, but she knows nothing.
One of my students cried and told me that mom and dad didn't love him, they just knew how to force him to study, and they beat him up from time to time. In the child's heart, he learns entirely for his parents, and he is beaten up for poor learning, also because his parents do not love him. Although the child's thinking is biased, he has an advantage that he will express and he will ask for help. When he talked to me about his thoughts, I talked to his parents for two hours.
In the end, his parents apologized to him, scolding is not the way, and guide the child with heart and action. The child also knows the meaning of learning, although it is very difficult to learn, but he is working hard, he is persevering. This child is developing in a benign direction, although the foundation is poor, walking slowly, but he is moving forward, but also understands the meaning of learning, and his change is entirely due to communication. The parents' active apology opened his heart knot, and the change in his parents' behavior touched his soul even more.
Whether it is work or life, communication is a good medicine: unhappiness must be expressed in a timely and appropriate manner, and holding it in the heart will eventually lead to big mistakes! Say it, say it, be sure to say it, open the incomprehension, open the depression, open all your heart knots, let the world suddenly open up, and life is only sunny. Friends, do you agree that communication is a good medicine? Welcome to leave a message, comment, bookmark, forward!