Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
In the relationship between men and women, whether two people like each other or not is sometimes like a guess. Everyone was busy looking for clues, trying to guess each other's minds.
Actually, if you want to know if you like each other, just test it.
This kind of temptation is not to play with the eyes of the heart, but to see the reaction of the other person.
If the other person responds, then the relationship has a chance to go further. If the other party doesn't react or dodge, then we can know sooner and don't waste any more time.
So, put it to the test, it's simple and straightforward. Of course, don't go overboard, or you'll scare people away.
On the way to find love, moderate temptation can find the truly suitable person.
01
Observe the other person's eyes
The eyes can always silently convey the deep emotions and wishes of the heart.
When a person is fond of you, his eyes seem to have a kind of magic, which will inadvertently reveal deep tenderness and endless attention.
This kind of eyes, clear and sincere, like the brightest star in the night sky, make people intoxicated and difficult to extricate themselves.
Imagine that when you are in the same room with the person you like, whether it is chatting or working together, you will always find that his eyes are on you from time to time.
That kind of affectionate gaze seems to be able to travel through time and space to the depths of your heart.
And when you whisper a certain topic, he will look at you intently, for fear of missing every word and expression of you.
As Shakespeare said: "Love is not a sweet word in the shade of a flower, not a honey whisper in a peach blossom garden, not a light tear, not a rigid compulsion, love is based on a common language." ”
By looking at the eyes, we will find that different attention and tenderness, and experience the feeling of being loved.
02
Pay attention to the other person's words and actions
In addition to deep eye contact, a person's words and deeds also reveal a wealth of emotional information.
When a person likes another person, he becomes more attentive and thoughtful, full of silent care and thoughtfulness.
He will take the initiative to understand your feelings, not just superficial greetings, but genuinely want you to be happy.
The trivial matters of your life seem to have become an important topic for him. When you encounter difficulties, he will not hesitate to help you solve your problems.
Gege's love is like this, she and her boyfriend were originally just friends. After being together for a long time, Gege found that no matter whether she was in trouble or in a bad mood, her boyfriend was always the first to appear.
In daily life, her boyfriend cares about her even more meticulously. He can feel Gege's subtle emotional changes, knows her life well, and can always give her warmth and consideration at critical moments.
These seemingly insignificant actions caused ripples in Gege's heart.
Eventually, their friendship sublimated into love and became an integral part of each other's lives.
Plato said, "Love, and only love, can make a man dare to give his life for the one he loves; This is something that not only men can do, but also women. ”
By paying attention to the other person's words and deeds, we can feel whether the other person likes you or not.
03
Tentatively express your feelings
To figure out if two people like each other, sometimes we need to take a brave step forward.
If you sense that the other person may have a crush on you, you may want to tell your true feelings at the right time.
It's not just a temptation, it's a sincere expression that can make the relationship clearer.
Tongtong and her boyfriend are college classmates, and at the beginning, Tongtong was already in daily interactions, and found that the other party's feelings for her were beyond the scope of friendship.
She began to secretly speculate in her heart about the other party's intentions, and while walking in the evening, Kiritsu plucked up the courage and tentatively confided in her heart:
"I don't know why lately, but when I'm with you, I always feel very happy."
When the other party heard this, a flash of surprise flashed in his eyes, and he immediately responded: "Me too, every time I am with you, I always feel that time is not enough." ”
In the end, the two confirmed each other's hearts, and a sweet love began.
Rabindranath Tagore said, "Love is another name for understanding and thoughtfulness." "By tentatively expressing our feelings, we can better understand each other's thoughts and have the opportunity to take our relationship to the next level.
If you want to judge whether two people like each other, you can look into each other's hearts and find those subtle clues by observing their eyes, paying attention to their words and deeds, and expressing themselves tentatively.
There is a saying that says, "Love needs a thin layer of sorrow, a little jealousy, doubt, and dramatic play." ”
In the process of testing and figuring out each other's intentions, we may hit a wall, but because of this, we will cherish each other's emotions more.
May we all be brave in our pursuit of love and find the one with whom our hearts are connected.