Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
In an intimate relationship, both men and women have their own expectations.
If a man is really attracted to a woman, he often has some special requirements. These requirements are not to find trouble, but that he genuinely likes your performance.
Therefore, when a woman hears these requests, don't pretend not to hear or care, because these are things that men will only make when they have a deep affection for you.
Think about it, if a man really likes you, he will want you to spend more time with him, or he will want you to be with him at some special times, and he may also want you to talk and act more to his heart.
These requests may sound a little fissy, but in fact, they are all because he cares too much about you.
Next, let's explore the three kinds of requests that a man may make after he is thoroughly emotional.
01
Hope you get to know him better
When a man is emotionally attracted to you, he wants you to understand him better.
Not only do you know what he likes and what he is interested in, but I want you to know what he thinks in his heart and what his emotional needs are.
He hopes that you can connect hearts and minds and talk about everything.
Mr. Zhang is particularly fond of photography, but his girlfriend, Ah Ling, was not interested in photography at first.
However, because Mr. Zhang likes Ah Ling, he really wants her to know photography. So, he took Ah Ling to participate in various photography activities, taught her to take pictures, and let her experience the fun of photography.
At first, Ah Ling felt a little bored. But slowly, she was infected by Mr. Zhang's enthusiasm and began to take the initiative to learn photography.
Because of photography, the two not only have a better relationship, but also find more topics and fun.
Therefore, when a man wants you to understand him better, you might as well try to understand his inner world, and maybe you will find a lot of different happiness.
As writer Romain Rolland said, "Love is a power that can make one person better for another." ”
When a man is emotionally attracted to you, he will want you to know him better, not only to satisfy himself, but also to make you a better version of himself.
02
I look forward to your support for his decision
When a man really likes a woman, he often cares more about his career and life.
He wants the woman he loves to have a good life, so he will work harder and plan for the future.
At this time, he hopes that the woman can support him, whether it is a change of job, some investment, or something else. This support is not just rhetoric, but also deeds.
Just like Mr. Li and his girlfriend Miao Miao, Mr. Li wanted to start a business, but Miao Miao was a little worried at first, afraid that failure would have an impact on his life.
However, after listening to Mr. Li's detailed plan and seeing his full confidence, Miao Miao decided to support his ideals.
She not only encouraged Mr. Li, but also helped him do a lot of preparations. Later, Mr. Li's business was very successful, and the relationship between the two became better.
Therefore, when a man wants to do something, if a woman can support him, he will be especially grateful and will cherish the relationship even more.
William Shakespeare once said, "True love is not in staring at each other, but in looking together in one direction." ”
When a man is emotionally attracted to you, he will expect you to pursue your dreams with him, and this tacit understanding and support will make your relationship stronger.
03
Eager to connect with you on a deeper level
When a man falls in love, he will develop a strong desire in his heart to establish a closer connection with the person he loves.
This connection is far more than a daily greeting of concern, but an all-encompassing, deep-seated resonance.
Mr. Zhao and Tingting's relationship is like this, since he has true feelings for Tingting, he is no longer satisfied with superficial interactions.
He cares about Tingting meticulously in his daily life, always pays attention to her joys, sorrows, and sorrows, feels her emotional changes with his heart, and takes the initiative to pay.
Moreover, he also hopes that he and Tingting can communicate on the spiritual level, so the two often participate in various activities together.
Whether it's outdoor sports or concerts, these not only enrich their lives, but also provide them with more topics for communication.
This kind of in-depth communication has made the relationship between the two deeper and deeper, and they have become each other's dependence.
The writer Fyodor Dostoevsky once said: "Love is the resonance and mutual understanding of the soul." ”
When a man is emotionally attached to you, he will desire to have a deeper connection with you and be able to give each other the emotional value they want.
After a man is completely emotional, he will make the above three requests to you.
These requests are not vexatious, but a reflection of his affection for you. As a woman, in the face of these requirements, we must understand more and take the initiative to cooperate, then your relationship will definitely become more and more intimate.