Liu Xin was 'socially dead'', Jiang Ge became a model, what did you learn from the two kinds of family education?

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After the first-instance judgment in the Jiang Ge case, on the last day of the litigation period, Liu Xin (Liu Nuanxi) appealed to the court. Jiang Qiulian said: I am not at all surprised by her appeal. After Jiang Ge was killed for 200 days, I have seen through the humanity of this family...

First, back to the Jiang Ge case: In the early morning of November 3, 2016, Jiang Ge, a Shandong girl studying in Japan, was killed in front of her home, and the police determined that the murderer was Liu Xin's ex-boyfriend, who lived in Jiang Ge's family, named Chen Shifeng.

Then, Chen Shifeng and Jiang Ge had no vendetta, why would they kill Jiang Ge?

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It turned out that after Liu Xin proposed to break up with her ex-boyfriend Chen Shifeng, Chen Shifeng had been pestering Liu Xin; Liu Xin found that there were extreme and violent tendencies in Chen's personality, so in order to avoid her boyfriend's entanglement, she asked for help from her friend Jiang Ge and wanted to live with her for a few days, and Jiang Ge quickly agreed.

In order to make Chen completely dead, Liu Xin played a little clever; asked the convenience store colleague who worked to pretend to be a boyfriend. Unexpectedly, when Chen Shifeng saw that Liu Xin's "boyfriend" did not have a dead heart, but a murderous heart.

He returned home, prepared a fruit knife, strong liquor, a change of clothes and other things, packed them in a bag, and went to find Liu Xin again. And sent a threatening message to Liu Xin: "I will be desperate."

After receiving this message, Liu Xin was on her way back to Jiang Ge's house, she was frightened, and once again asked Jiang Ge for help, asking her to wait for her at a certain station on the subway to come home with her.

As a girl, Jiang Ge is righteous and brave. When she learned that Liu Xin was pestered by her ex-boyfriend, she reached out to Liu Xin many times. Liu Xin was pestered by Chen Shifeng in Jiang Ge's apartment, and Jiang Ge rushed back from outside to persuade Chen Shifeng to leave. During this period, Jiang Ge also proposed to call the police many times, but Liu Xin refused to call the police for fear of making things bigger.

After waiting for Liu Xin, the two returned to the residence together. At this time, Chen Shifeng had been lurking in the apartment for a long time, and he drank a lot of strong liquor and his temperament had changed greatly. After seeing Liu Xin, he immediately rushed over to pull her, Liu Xin dodged him, ran into Jiang Ge's apartment with a cigarette, and quickly locked the door.

At this time, Jiang Ge was forced into a dangerous situation, and the young girl did not realize that Chen Shifeng had already started to kill. Taking advantage of Jiang Ge's lack of preparation, he quickly controlled Jiang Ge, slammed the door hard, and threatened Liu Xin that if he did not open the door, he would kill Jiang Ge.

At this time, Liu Xin, who was hiding in the house, was full of fear in his mind. She was afraid of Chen Shifeng's fierce eyes, that sharp knife that was dangling brightly, she knew that as long as she opened the door and was controlled by Chen Shifeng's neck and dead, she would change from Jiang Ge to her...

I don't know how long later, Chen Shifeng's roar and Jiang Ge's screams came from the door again... And Liu Xin locked the door of the house and closed his eyes in pain. She knew Chen Shifeng too well, he knew that Jiang Ge was fierce and ji ji, but timidity made her powerless; the only thing she could do was to hope that all this would pass early, and she would escape far away from this place of sin and suffering...

The next day, Jiang Ge died of excessive blood loss; Chen Shifeng fled the scene after committing the crime. In order to avoid legal responsibility, Liu Xin hid himself. Jiang Ge's mother looked for her everywhere, and her daughter was killed and needed Liu Xin to provide clues to solve the case. In a fit of rage, Jiang Mom published Liu Xin's home address contact information on the Internet, which forced Liu Xin and her parents out.

At this point, people also have a certain understanding of Liu Xin and her parents. After the incident, Liu Xin, the person responsible for Jiang Ge's death, did not accompany Jiang Ge's mother for the first time, and her parents did not send comfort or corresponding compensation to Jiang Ge's mother; instead chose to evade responsibility. All this also directly led to Jiang Ge's mother transferring her hatred for Chen Shifeng to their family. Subsequently, the two sides became more and more deadlocked, until a network war broke out, "killing" you to die.

It is not difficult for people to find from the performance of Liu Xin and his parents that this kind of family education is simply impossible to come out with children with a sense of responsibility.

On the contrary, the various performances of Jiang Ge and this girl are very different from Liu Xin. She dares to think and dare to do, and is responsible. She was filial to her mother and friendly to her neighbors, and when she learned that her friend was in trouble, she helped her five times to help and protect her, until she died.

Undoubtedly, Jiang Ge is a beautiful girl. Of course, this is the credit of Jiang Ge's mother; since her husband divorced Jiang Ge because she suspected that she was a girl, this strong woman has taken on the heavy responsibility of the family. She has to take care of the young Jiang Ge, to take care of her elderly mother, and to earn money to support her family... The responsibility and sense of responsibility in her mother, Jiang Ge has heard about it since she was a child, and there is a kind of power in the world that is stronger than any language, that is, the power of example.

On January 10, 2022, after a long-standing stalemate, Jiang Ge's mother sued Liu Nuanxi (formerly known as Liu Xin) for violating Jiang Ge's right to life, and Liu Nuanxi was ordered to compensate Jiang Ge's mother 696,000 yuan. The court held that Liu Nuanxi had obviously been wrong to prevent Jiang Ge from being killed outside the door of his residence in order to protect himself, and should bear the corresponding civil compensation liability. In the verdict, the presiding judge read out the verdict. In one paragraph, Jiang Ge and Liu Xin are given a world of difference:

As a female student studying in a foreign country, Jiang Ge gave help to compatriots in distress, gave sincere care and help, and lost her life because of the unlawful infringement. His selfless act of helping others embodies the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, is in line with the core values of socialism and public order and good customs, and should be praised, and he deserves legal relief for his unlawful infringement. As a friend of Jiang Ge and a rescued person, after the incident, instead of being grateful and giving sympathy and comfort to the relatives of the deceased, Liu Mouxi provoked him with inappropriate words, further aggravating the pain of others, and his behavior was contrary to common sense and human feelings and should be condemned.

One was praised, one was condemned; one became a model for promoting traditional Chinese virtues, and one became a scum killed by a large society. Although all are tragic, the latter is rarely sympathetic.

Through the stories of these two families, do you know how to educate our children?