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The case of Jiang Ge's mother, Jiang Qiulian and Liu Xin (Liu Nunxi), came to an end, and the court sentenced Liu Nuanxi to compensate Jiang Qiulian for 690,000 yuan.
The People's Daily commented: Let the good deeds have strength, Liu Nuanxi is against common sense.
When asked whether she would accept Liu Nuanxi's apology, Jiang Ge's mother replied very crisply: I do not accept her apology, if she could face this matter sincerely at the beginning, there would be no case today.
Looking at the attitude of Liu Nunxi's parents, we can understand where her evil comes from
In 2016, the Jiang Ge case caused a sensation, and we were very concerned about it in the office at that time.
At the time of this incident, everyone did not pay much attention to Liu Nuanxi (who was still Liu Xin at that time), but more of a shock and anger, and the focus of these emotions came from the direct murderer Chen Shifeng.
At that time, there were many people who supported Liu Xin, and under such a fright, it can be said that she was timid and afraid of things, and under great fear, she turned away Jiang Ge, who helped her, resulting in tragedy.
But later her performance was really incomprehensible, cursing the mother of the life-saving benefactor, and spreading the Jiang song on the Internet as "txl", for the original life-saving grace has long been forgotten, completely ignored, and even believes that this is the life of two people.
If you are not grateful, why do you still beat a rake?
Some people say that It is Mother Jiang who has forced her to be anxious, she still has a good life, she needs to live quietly, she does not want to live in the shadow of the dead all the time.
That can be anonymized, do not appear in front of netizens, apologize for the apology, give a certain care to Jiang Ge's mother, do not believe that Jiang Ge's mother has not been able to forgive her.
Instead of doing so, she spread rumors on the Internet through her attention.
Why, exactly? Is there really no sense of guilt?
It wasn't until she heard her parents say to Jiang Ge's mother, "That's your daughter's life," that she suddenly realized.
It turned out that they were not a little grateful because they felt that it was fate.
In the face of the temptation of traffic and interests, instead of being grateful, instead of being grateful, he used the sharpest words to insult the benefactor's mother, so that this orphaned mother looked at her daughter's photos in a sleepless night and felt like a knife.
The upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked, and the parents have problems with the three views, so they have such a daughter.
Jiang Ge's mother: I don't have my own life, and Chen Shifeng returned to China in 2037 and continued to appeal
Some vicious people said that Jiang Ge's mother was making such a fuss because it was all for money.
There are even more vicious people who say that Liu Xin's evil was forced out by Jiang Ge's mother, who thought that her daughter was gone, and she would have to pull a cushion back.
Because of the existence of such a voice, Jiang Ge's mother first went to see her daughter after winning the lawsuit, and then thanked the legal team for its silent efforts, and then said that she would donate these compensation funds to help those children in need.
We hope that Mother Jiang can leave some protection for herself, which is the compensation she should get.
In fact, for Jiang Ge's mother, these are no longer important, netizens are not worthy to comment on her at all, in front of netizens, she is a mother who works hard for her daughter, in front of her daughter, she is a harbor that can always be relied on, in front of all mothers, she deserves the title of "great mother".
The moment I broke through the defense, I saw jiang ge's mother's words: I don't have my own life, and when Chen Shifeng returns to China in 2037, I will continue to sue.
The heart is sour, the tears can't stop flowing, this is the belief of a great mother, this is a woman who deserves to be respected.
Because the incident happened in Japan, Chen Shifeng was sentenced to 20 years, 20 years is far from enough to make up for the mistakes he made, Jiang Ge's mother lost her baby daughter, for her daughter, she must continue to stand firm until she gets justice for her daughter.
Compared with Jiang Ge's mother, Liu Xin's family is really nothing, they are still struggling in the whirlpool of interests, ugly, and Jiang Ge's mother's belief is to prepare her daughter to completely give up her life.
It's already two completely different levels.
As an irrelevant person, I feel that I have no right to evaluate Jiang Ge's mother because I am not qualified.
As a mom, I don't feel qualified to persuade this mom to learn to let go and live again, because I can't do it.
The vicious Liu Xin is bent on re-living, and even eats "human blood steamed buns", opens a marketing number, and attracts 300,000 fans to gain revenue, but how can a mother who has lost her baby daughter forget the past and live again?
Jiang Ge's mother is the only one in her life, she said, she is already a dead person, since November 3, 2016, she died, so she is not afraid of those who insult her, she will give back to them in the same way, what she has to do is to let the world know that she is not a madman, she will use righteous means to fight for her daughter's innocence.
I don't want my daughter to be too brave
We should not evaluate anything, we can only say what we hope, even hope is very small, for someone like Jiang Ge's mother, the daughter is all, and the rest is pale.
Suddenly understanding The decision of Sheng Hailin, the dear daughter is gone, rather than withstand the huge pressure, but also to give birth to twin daughters, which is the comfort of their re-life.
When a person's mind is hollowed out, there is no motivation to continue to live.
Mother Jiang, who has always regarded Jiang Ge as everyone, has no choice.
Understand Jiang Ge's mother's choice, and at the same time remain silent about Jiang Ge's mother's choice.
Also as a mom, seeing the evils of human nature, I hope my child doesn't become such a brave person in the future because it's not worth it.
I want her to always put herself first and her safety first.
The last thing a person should do is to "stick a knife in both ribs" for a friend, because you don't know whether your friend is a person or a ghost.
If I have to hope for my child, I want her to be an ordinary person, rather a selfish person, a careful person.
We take good care of our children and give them the best education and guidance, but we don't know how many vicious "Liu Xin" lurk around.
Children are healthy and happy, even if they are ordinary, it is enough.