CCTV News: This morning (January 10), Jiang Ge's mother Jiang Qiulian v. Liu Xin over the dispute over the right to life, body and health was pronounced in the first instance at the Chengyang District People's Court in Qingdao City, Shandong Province, and the court ordered the defendant Liu Xin to compensate nearly 700,000 yuan. Such a case, which has aroused many "reasonableness and reason" discussions in the field of public opinion, has also made a judgment in the scope of civil law.
According to the details disclosed by the court, Jiang Ge and Liu Xin (now known as Liu Nuanxi) are fellow countrymen and good friends who studied in Japan together. Before the incident, Liu Xin proposed to break up with her ex-boyfriend Chen Shifeng, but the man refused to agree and constantly harassed Liu Xin. Liu Xin asked Jiang Ge for help, and Jiang Ge agreed that Liu Xin would live in her apartment.
Chen Shifeng later found the apartment and continued to pestering Liu Xin, Jiang Ge suggested calling the police, but Liu Xin was afraid that the police would not allow them to live together after they found out (it is said that local law does not allow sharing the apartment), and did not agree to call the police. In order to get rid of the entanglement, Liu Xin let his colleagues impersonate his boyfriend, Chen Shifeng sent a threatening message after knowing it, and Liu Xin did not tell Jiang Ge about these situations.
At 11:00 p.m. on November 2, 2016, Liu Xin felt afraid to let Jiang Ge wait for her at the subway station to go home with her. At 12 o'clock, when the two were about to return to the apartment, Chen Shifeng, who was ambushed in the corridor, rushed out. Jiang Ge, who was walking behind, theorized with him in an attempt to stop him, and Liu Xin preemptively returned home and locked the door. Chen Shifeng stabbed Jiang Ge more than a dozen times in the neck with a fruit knife outside the apartment, and then fled the scene.
Liu Xin called the police twice, and finally Jiang Ge was unable to rescue him due to excessive blood loss. Later, Jiang Ge's mother, Jiang Qiulian, and Liu Xin had a dispute over the cause of Jiang Ge's death, and Liu Xin also made radical remarks to each other through the Internet.
Some netizens disclosed that Jiang Ge died because of Liu Xin, but Liu Xin's family did not feel guilty at all. At the memorial service held by the Japanese Chinese for Jiang Ge, Liu Xin and his family did not attend, Liu Xin sent a threatening message to Jiang Ge's mother, Liu Mother said that Jiang Ge died because of short life, and Liu Father also threatened to sue Jiang Ge's mother.
If all this is true, even if Jiang Ge's death Liu Xin is not responsible, the actions of their whole family are indeed chilling. Jiang Ge is kind, brave, and has a righteous heart, and she lost her life to save her compatriots. As Jiang Ge's mother, her grief is unmatched, and if Liu Xin and her family can comfort her with gratitude, Mother Jiang will not go to court with them.
Although justice is late, compared with the pain of Mother Jiang's bereavement and years of running and toiling, the compensation of 696,000 yuan is far from making up for her losses. However, Mother Jiang made it clear: "The amount of compensation is not important, the key is to use the law to restore the truth of my Jiang Ge's murder!"
This tragedy is heart-wrenching and worth reflecting on. Parents hope that their children can grow up safely and have a smooth life. But the truth is that there are really bad people in this world, and there will be bad things happening. Children can not live forever in the protection of their parents, it is very important to let children understand some truths and learn some skills as soon as possible.
First, from an early age, adults should establish their children's safety awareness and let them learn to protect themselves.
Children are protected and cared for by adults as soon as they are born, and the world in cartoons is always full of beautiful fantasies. However, in reality, children, like us, live in a very complex world. Adults should tell children that there are bad people in this world, and bad people cannot be seen from the outside, and they must be judged by their behavior.
Anti-abduction, anti-deception, protection of privacy, from an early age to cultivate children's safety awareness. Children's thinking, limited by their age, is often simple and one-sided. Adults can learn how to protect themselves by reading picture books, telling stories, etc. At any time, we must first protect our own lives and let our children keep it firmly in mind from an early age.
Second, to let children learn to make friends, not all people are suitable for friends.
This requires children to establish their own values from an early age. In the last years of the Han Dynasty, Guan Ning and Hua Xin had been studying together since childhood and were very good friends. However, Guan Ning studied hard wholeheartedly, while Hua Xin always valued material things such as gold and luxury cars, and envied glory and wealth. Guan Ning saw the difference between the two and sat down at the table, breaking off the friendship.
The Tao is different, not conspiratorial. Adults should tell children that making friends should be cautious, and they should choose those who are like-minded, good-natured, cultivated, and self-motivated to make friends. Let the child understand that they have the right to refuse, face the unreasonable demands of others, no matter how good the relationship is, and be brave enough to say "no".
Third, when encountering difficulties, we must do what we can and learn to ask for help.
After all, a person's strength is limited, and it is inevitable to encounter problems. Adults should tell children to objectively assess their abilities and immediate difficulties, especially when encountering danger, they must first protect themselves. When you can't solve it yourself, learn to ask for help, don't put yourself in a dangerous situation.
Human nature cannot be considered, and changes in things are unpredictable. It is good to be helpful, but it is necessary to ensure your own safety, and you must not be reckless. At critical moments, don't use brute force to fight, have your own judgment, ask for help from people you can trust, and inform the corresponding institutions in time.
Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for them. We can't accompany the child all the time, we can only tell the child in some ways in advance about the difficulties he may encounter and the corresponding countermeasures, the most important thing is to have such awareness.
I hope that there will be fewer such tragedies in this world, and I hope that every child can grow up more wise and powerful under the guidance of parents.
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