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It's terrible! The banned book "Teach Suicide" reappeared on the Internet

A mother found her 15-year-old on her desk a book with the word "suicide" on its desk. Mom was very nervous when she saw it, so she opened it and looked at it.

After only a few glances, my mother was terrified. It turns out that this book is all about "teaching people to commit suicide", and what is even more frightening is that it has detailed descriptions of various suicide methods, and even rated according to "standards" such as pain level.

The mother wanted the child to give the book to herself, but the child refused. This worries the mother even more, because the child has been depressed, and the mother is worried that the child will go to extremes because of the influence of this book.

After communication, the mother knew that the book was seen by the child in an anime on a video platform, and the child was very curious about this "book that teaches suicide" and bought the book online.

The book, published in Japan in 1993, details suicide methods that cause death in various physical forms. Because the contents of the book are so contrary to the traditions and morals of society, it has sparked heated discussions in Japanese and Asian society. In 1997, it was added to the list of harmful books in Japan and its sales were restricted.

The book was also introduced to the mainland Hong Kong for publication at that time, but later because of its bad impact, it was classified as a Category III item by the Hong Kong Film and Television and Entertainment Administration, and was prohibited from publication, sale and any form of distribution.

In 2005, some college students in Wuxi published the content of the book on an online platform, and at that time, the Wuxi Public Security Bureau issued an administrative warning and fined 5,000 yuan.

And this book will now be noticed by the youth group, as the previous child said, it appeared in a Japanese anime broadcast on a video site. The protagonist of that anime story committed suicide according to the method introduced in the book.

Some people filmed a video introducing the content of the book, and many netizens left messages in the comments asking for the book's resources, and some people said that they wanted to imitate the behavior in the book.

It may be that they saw the business from it, some people began to print the notebook of the same name for sale, and some stores sold 100+ monthly sales of this notebook, and many people who placed orders said that they were attracted by watching anime videos.

It is under this premise that some sellers began to sell this book on second-hand platforms in the form of "group customization". Some media have checked the dynamics of the seller's idle fish homepage and found that the book has been sold continuously, and thousands of people have viewed the sales link.

What's more frightening is that on another e-commerce platform, the book continues to be traded in the version of "PDF private collection e-book".

As an old mother, I am really scared to see such content spread through the Internet! Especially if there is an adolescent baby at home, it will be a little more nervous.

Because adolescent children have strong emotions, many emotions will suddenly burst out like volcanoes without warning, and children are more likely to lose their minds and appear impulsive and aggressive behaviors under the stormy emotions.

Adolescent children themselves also prefer to try new things, like to seek adventure and excitement. Once they have an idea, they can't wait to implement it, and they lack foresight to consider the risks and harms that the behavior may cause.

At this stage, it is also particularly susceptible to the influence of peers, just imagine, under such developed information now, some children see similar negative content, out of curiosity, and discuss with peers, once the child's emotions are stimulated, it is easy to lead to terrible consequences!

Therefore, unscrupulous sellers who spread such content must be severely punished.

It is spring, and it is also the season when it is easy to have negative emotions, at this time, if you find that teenagers or people around you have impulsive behavior, you can try the following methods:

1. Clearly express concern and let the child know that his life is important

When children say all kinds of negative words, parents must not pretend not to hear or respond because they are afraid in their hearts.

Look at the child honestly, express his position in time, and clearly let the child know that his life is important to the parents, so that the child can know that the parents care about him and want to understand his thoughts.

2. Listen carefully

Teenagers and parents can easily get into an impasse in communication, and parents are prone to say hurtful things like "stop telling me this" and "I wasn't as squeamish as you when I was a child" under the influence of emotions. When communicating with adolescents, parents must remember that children want someone to listen carefully to their feelings, and when they are listened to and accepted, their emotions are easier to eliminate and find the right way to cope.

3. Have empathy

When the child is emotionally calm, parents should often express love to the child, let the child know that he is wrapped in the love of his parents and came to the world, and he is welcome. At the same time, they can empathize with their children's emotions and have the ability to accept their children's emotions.

4. Keep your child in touch with the outside world

Adolescents are susceptible to external influences, and many times, parents will also hope that their children will have less contact with the outside world because they are worried that their children will be affected by negative parents from the outside world, thinking that this can help their children isolate some harm.

As everyone knows, this will only be counterproductive, the relationship between peers is more often a positive influence on children, parents should amplify these positive influences, so that children and friends maintain a good relationship. At the same time, as a parent, it is also necessary to maintain time with the child, understand the child's situation, and strengthen the child's support system, so that the child is willing to share more details about getting along with friends, and the parents' advice is willing to listen to them.

5. Trust your own judgment

Adolescent children like to report good news rather than bad news, and when they are depressed, they may also hide it and not communicate. When you feel that something is wrong with your child, even if your child denies it, trust your intuition and judgment to prevent problems before they happen.

6. Safety first

When the child's mental condition is unstable, you must remember to put safety first, put away those items that may cause injury, do not leave the child alone, and actively seek professional help.

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