I myself did not read "Dream of the Red Chamber", I could not read it after reading it a few times, nor did I read the book on "Xie Hong", which was created by chance. "The Red Chamber Is Not Finished There is a Drama in the World" is a collection of essays, after reading this book, my first feeling is "grounded", the author of this book will be many aspects of life and the scene in the dream of the Red Chamber corresponds, let me find that this is real life. At the same time, the book also compares "Dream of the Red Chamber" with "Jin Ping Mei", "Siege of the City", and Zhang Ailing's novels, etc., but the overall feeling is that there is too much ink on "Jin Ping Mei", and many places compare the characters in "Dream of the Red Chamber" with "Jin Ping Mei", and the overall analysis of "Dream of the Red Chamber" is still small. Let me talk about a few points after reading this book!
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The first article of the book is "The World's Coldest and Warmest Gift", written about Jia Baoyu's birthday, because of Jia Baoyu's special status in Rongguo Mansion, so many people will take advantage of Baoyu's birthday to please Baoyu, and the gift-giver is also representative, clearly reflecting the identity, status, and even estrangement from Baoyu. Some people go through the motions, and some come from the heart. Of course, gifts are not about whether they are valuable or special, "who gives" and "how to say" are the focus.
The book also lists the jiang ge and Liu Xin incidents some time ago, why Liu Xin was not forgiven by public opinion, it was the indifference and selfishness she showed after Jiang Ge's death, she refused to see Jiang Ge's mother, and threatened that she might stop assisting the police in investigation and appear in court, Liu Xin's parents also spoke ill of Jiang Mu... For this matter, as a netizen said: so cold, how can you blame fate for being harsh on you.
Human nature is diverse, and everyone will have moments of cowardice, selfishness and involuntariness, so we will tolerate those shortcomings that are within the bottom line and in line with people's common feelings, but the world is unpredictable, and in what way and what form crime and punishment will eventually appear, often unexpected and reasonable. The logic of human nature and worldliness is often staggering.
Like the poem inscribed on the Holocaust Memorial in New England, it applies to everyone in every age. This profound reflection is the foundation of social justice and the dividing line between darkness and lightness in the world:
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At first they persecuted the Communists, and I did not speak because I was not a believer in Marx.
Later they persecuted the Jews, and I didn't speak because I was Germanic. Then they persecuted Catholics, and I didn't speak because I was a Protestant pastor.
Finally they persecuted me, and I looked around, but no one could speak for me anymore.
It is the evil of mediocrity for anyone to hang on to one's own affairs. Selfish and cold people, one day, will pay a corresponding price for this.
For human nature, the author also told us not to easily test human nature, the author once put money casually on the desk of the dormitory when she was in school, and her brother told her: Don't do anything that tries to test human nature, don't tempt, don't challenge. The complexity of human nature can exceed everyone's expectations, if you don't want to see the evil consequences that will surprise you, don't try to challenge and induce the evil part of human nature.
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For today's issues about the education of parents to their children, the author also listed from the Dream of the Red Chamber: Jia Zheng has never had a good voice for Baoyu, does not give a word of appreciation, strictly teaches, and often physically punishes Baoyu. This may also be the image of many fathers now, in fact, this is often the opposite of what they want, so that they not only miss the warmth of knowing each other with their children, but also never understand the inner world of their children.
I remember that when I heard Yan Liang CP talk about the "Century Trilogy" before, there was a debate about "everyone will always become the person they hated", I think everyone will always become the person they hated at the beginning, and many of our parents are afraid that their children will take the detours they took, and interfere with their children's choices, so that many children cannot listen to them. Just like Jia Zheng in the Dream of the Red Chamber when he was young, "his nature was also a person who was born with poetry and wine", and with the growth of age and the change of status, he had already cut two paragraphs with the wind and snow in his past years, so he forced Baoyu to isolate himself from all poetry and painting, hoping to engrave such a big character as "Guangzong Yaozu" into Baoyu's brain.
In fact, our parents also came from their teenage years. They will also experience all the confusion of the unknown, the exploration in the dark, and the throbbing of feelings in adolescence, but unfortunately, all of this is difficult for parents to share frankly with their children.
Finally, the author's discussion of the affluence of girls, rich is not only materially rich for girls, but rich in poetry, rich in culture, insightful, critical, empathy and so on.
Well, the space is limited, here I will not list them one by one and have the opportunity to discuss later, interested in having time to read this book, after all, a hundred viewers, there are a hundred Hamlets, maybe you have different views after reading this book! Welcome to leave a message below to discuss together!
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