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Only firm love is the | cheng yi of salvation on earth
In Yi Shu's "Xi Bao", the heroine has such a line:
"I like you, it's the kind of normal people like.
Thinking about being with you, thinking about having a result.
Thinking about getting married in the future, thinking about having a child, thinking about growing old together. ”
The love of ordinary people is plain, but full of determination and loyalty.
Just as when you are in love, you must send an official announcement to the circle of friends, which is to tell the world that you have a beloved baby.
A clear liking is fascinating.
What the girl wants is to still hold her hand when she meets an acquaintance and not dodge.
It is an official announcement that the circle of friends is not grouped, and it is not hidden and tucked away, and it is well known for its preference.
As it is said in "I don't like the world, I only like you":
"Security is not just love, but exceptions and preferences."
The best love is to never let the other party think wildly, suffer from gain and loss.
It is to give you all my loyalty and steadfastness.
Over the years, there have been many idol stars who have been secretive about their love affairs.
Only Lu Han's official announcement was impressive.
Lu Han, who is at the peak of his career, of course knows that announcing his relationship means the opposition of fans and the decline in popularity.
But he still chose to show his love generously, a sentence of "this is my girlfriend", cut through the iron, crisp and clean.
Of course, he knew that announcing a relationship as an idol meant going against the whole world.
But he really wants to take responsibility for the relationship.
Today, Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong have gone through four years, and their relationship is still as stable as ever.
Different from other people's differential treatment.
Unwavering, unadorned liking is the ultimate way to show affection.
Friend Anna once chased a boy backwards when she was in college.
In order to pursue him, Anna will go to great lengths to get his class schedule and then choose the same course as him.
I will try to create countless chance encounters every day.
Hopefully, he'll make a little impression of himself.
She would even buy water for all members of the team to drink while he played.
And the drink given to him will always be his favorite drink.
At the instigation of the team members, the boy agreed to Anna's confession.
But when Anna was happily preparing to announce it in the circle of friends, the boyfriend's reaction was a little indifferent:
"I don't like to send official announcements from the circle of friends."
Anna, who is in love, thinks she can finally stand by his side as a girlfriend.
But it received such a result.
Unsurprisingly, this short-lived relationship lasted only three months before being proposed by the boy to break up.
A week later, the boy's circle of friends showed a photo of him and another girl, and the girl in the photo was smiling like a flower.
At that time, Anna understood that it was not that he did not like to send a circle of friends, but that he did not love me at all.
Yes, I really like someone, and how can I be willing to hide it and let her suffer all the grievances.
Humble love will only be exchanged for a more unvalued self.
Paradoxical ambiguity, the attitude of "lovers above friendship is not enough" will only make you fall into the vortex of unhealthy relationships.
You will slowly not understand how love should be expressed and perceived, and the sense of boundaries and security will be completely shattered and rebuilt.
The ability to love others is also frustrating.
Whether it is repeated again and again or how, the ultimate pain is not necessary to experience.
Only firm love is salvation on earth.
Some time ago, the EDG team won the championship in the Final of the League of Legends.
Many boys are swiping the screen in the circle of friends to celebrate what the beloved team wants.
There are also many girlfriends who joke with me:
"My boyfriend sent several circles of friends for the game game, but he was unwilling to officially announce my existence."
Such boys are not in the minority.
I remember that in the help sharing comment area of a love post on the hot search, I saw such a high praise:
"Boys are very easy to understand, and if they don't send official announcements in the circle of friends, they are probably not liked enough."
You can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, nor can you impress someone who doesn't love you.
A good relationship will give you plenty of security and will make you better.
Healthy love is a beautiful and firm choice to go in both directions, and it is to hold the hand of one person and not separate.
After all, liking someone can't be hidden, covering his mouth, and his eyes are still full of love.
Everything in the world is suffering, and your blatant preference is salvation.
For the rest of your life, be sure to be with the guy who posted you in the circle of friends.
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