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It is often said that marriage is a woman's second life.
There is actually some truth to this statement, you marry a quality man who is better in all aspects, and naturally the second half of your life is worry-free.
But if you marry an unreliable man, it will be difficult to live the rest of your life.
Therefore, every woman sets her mate selection criteria relatively high, wants to marry a good person, and is held in the palm of her hand for a lifetime, living a worry-free life.
But not all women are able to have a good marriage, and in real life, most women, all married to unsatisfactory men, have been living a chicken and dog jumping life.
In fact, the essence of marriage is the exchange of benefits.
If a woman wants to marry a good man of good quality, she must also have the ability, just ask, if the other party is very good, and you are unremarkable and unattractive, how can he possibly look at you?
Studies have found that women who marry well in the end often have three advantages.
Happy women are similar, unhappy women are different, learn from those women who live happily in the family life, you can also live this happy life.
The previous hit TV series "Parental Love" is worth learning from modern young women, and if you want to marry well, you must have the following three outstanding points:
Be a kind woman
Women can do nothing, but people must be kind-hearted, and a woman of excellent character, even if other conditions are not good, can make her stand out in the crowd.
This kind of kindness comes from women always subconsciously considering others, just like Anjie in "Parental Love", although she did not like Jiang Defu at first, she was still willing to take care of Jiang Defu's face, this polite and considerate behavior made Jiang Defu like Anjie more.
Women with good qualities, men are not willing to give up when they see it, because women's other material aspects can be cultivated, but only in terms of human character, it cannot be changed through the day after tomorrow.
A good-hearted girl, in the process of getting along, always consider others, married life will generally be very happy, you take care of others, then others will use the same way to repay you.
Kind girls are generally very popular, this kind of woman will have many people who want to introduce her to her when she is single, and generally still have good conditions in all aspects of men.
Just like Anjie and Jiang Defu, Anjie's family is not good, and Jiang Defu is an officer who can be expected in the future, but this does not prevent Jiang Defu from pursuing her with everything.
Don't always think about changing people when it is inappropriate, love is to mend the seams
Jiang Defu and Anjie's marriage is not smooth sailing, the two have experienced a lot of quarrels, Anjie likes romance, the pursuit of a romantic life, and Jiang Defu is a big old man of five big and three thick, straight male nerves he clumsily learned to romance for Anjie.
If Anjie had rejected Jiang Defu at the beginning, she would have missed a very good marriage.
Fortunately, Anjie is willing to give Jiang Defu the opportunity again and again, so that they have a happy life full of children and grandchildren in the future, love is not smooth sailing, and everyone's love has experienced disappointment and grievances.
Women's tears will teach men to grow, and since they have persisted for so long, don't give up easily.
A relationship is to go through all kinds of setbacks to strengthen, a little more patience with your man, he will love you more and more.
Now love always feels inappropriate to say break up, and finally talked about a lot of feelings, still do not understand love.
A well-married woman is not happy from the beginning, the right person needs to run into it, there are no two people who just fit perfectly, it is normal to experience various frictions in the process of love, maintain the mentality of always being together, and face difficulties together, so as to harvest the final happiness.
The beginning of every relationship is happy, but only by insisting on experiencing the twists and turns in love can we go hand in hand to the palace of marriage, the right person needs to be patient, a little more patience, you can also be a good woman to marry.
Feelings are not a person's efforts, and feelings that run in both directions are happy
Women always like to be in a passive position in the relationship, men pay a little, you accept a little, always so passive acceptance, men will also feel tired.
If a man has taken ninety-nine steps towards you, then you should at least take a step toward him, otherwise it is easy to want to give up without seeing hope in love.
Those particularly happy couples are often because their love for each other is the same, men are willing to pay for women, and women are willing to return men's corresponding things, so that there are back and forth feelings that can last a long time.
Jiang Defu gave up the future for Anjie, Anjie was touched, she put away her pride, willing to change herself to cater to Jiang Defu, did not bow her head in feelings, and considered each other for each other, which is a manifestation of true love.
Don't feel very ashamed to pay for men, in fact, you only need to do very small things for men, it is enough to encourage him to love you with greater strength, men are not afraid of suffering and tired, but they are afraid that women do not love themselves, give appropriate feedback when he shows love you, he will be more motivated.
Feelings need to be managed by themselves, unilaterally paid feelings are not long-lasting, those women who marry well seem to be men paying more for her, but in fact, she herself is not less for men to consider.
Men are also flesh and blood animals, whether a woman loves him or not, he can feel, mutually liked love, men will make all their efforts to fight, when working outside the people they like will be more motivated, and wishful thinking love is always easy to extinguish.
So women occasionally take the initiative, let men see your love, mutual like is a very beautiful thing, generously express your love to each other, believe that your marriage will be happier.
Time Emotion Classroom:
In the TV series "Parental Love", Anjie said such a sentence:
You say that this fate is not strange, no wind and no rain, the wind and the sun will be beautiful to fool people, who would have thought that I Anjie, can marry a countryman who has not read a book for a day, and still hold his stomach to give birth to him.
Fate is truly wonderful, and you can never predict what kind of man you will marry when.
But the arrangement of fate also has its rationality, and the reason why Anjie chose Jiang Defu is because she is not a superficial woman, she is kind by nature, she can see Jiang Defu's steadfastness and kindness, and she is willing to spend her life to repay his kindness.
Therefore, the most important reason why Anjie is married well is because she is kind enough and willing to spend her life running her feelings.
All happiness is not accidental, but two people running in both directions.