Some children make us feel that this life is worthy, and some children leave us with lifelong regrets. — Gibran
The arrival of children is a great surprise for every family, in fact, most of the children are also placed high hopes by the elders.
But as Gibran said, some children have created extraordinary great deeds in their lifetimes, so that their parents feel that this life is not worthwhile, but some children have left parents with lifelong regrets, and this result is not only related to the children themselves, but also related to the parents' education methods.
The word laziness is often ridiculed by people, but many people are eventually ruined by laziness because of their lack of self-control.
Yang Suo is known as China's first lazy man, he is unimaginably lazy, unwilling to walk on the ground, eat to be fed, unable to take care of himself, 23 years old and even starved to death at home.
Yang Suo's short life has also left his parents with lifelong regrets, and his tragedy has also made more people understand that in the process of each child's growth, the most affected is the environment around them and the words and deeds of their parents, an environment that cannot motivate people, which is equivalent to acquiescing in the future destruction of this person.
Parents doted
Yang Suo was born in Zhutang Township, Luoshan County, Xinyang, Henan, although born in the countryside, but Yang Suo's parents, from a young age, put all their energy into this child, they hope that this child can grow up safely around them, as to whether the future will be achieved, they do not care.
Even sometimes Yang Suo's parents want to tie their children around with love, but they have never thought about what their children should do if they encounter an accident.
Even if the child grows up, Yang Suo's parents are still insisting on feeding their children to eat, in the process of reading, Yang Suo and other children have a conflict, and the parents will indiscriminately make a big move and not allow their children to suffer a little grievance.
Learning is originally a boring and tedious process, because the child is reluctant, Yang Suo's parents directly let him stay at home, do not want to study can not go to study, such doting makes Yang Suo begin to become lazier.
In daily life, parents spend all their money on Yang Suo, even if they go out to work in the field, they will take a flat burden to carry Yang Suo, do not let him walk on the ground, and at home they are reluctant to let their children do a little housework.
Under the doting of his parents, Yang Suo became unable to do anything. Originally a child of poor parents, Yang Suo not only did not learn to be independent and self-reliant this morning, but under the doting of his parents, he grew up like a rich man, and his ten fingers did not stick to the spring water of the yang.
Originally not rich, the child is so pampered, but also brought a lot of burden to the family, for what they want, Yang Suo is even more eye-catching, directly reaching out to the parents.
Parents are distressed by Yang Suo, in order to let the children get what they want, parents can only work harder to make money. Therefore, Yang Suo's daily life is to wait at home for his parents to come back to feed himself and help himself dress, and he is too lazy to want to do anything.
Unwillingness to accept reality
In order to be able to support Yang Suo, his parents ran everywhere, and under the constant work day and night, his father left the family because of an accident, and all the burdens were on the shoulders of his mother alone.
At this time, the mother who doted on her son was also more and more unable to cope with the life in front of her, and coupled with the fact that the child was so unsuccessful, she felt even more desperate.
In this way, five years after the death of his father, Yang Suo's mother also died. At that time, Yang Suo was 18 years old, but he was still immersed in the life of having his parents take care of everything for him, he was unwilling to accept the fact that his parents had passed away, and he was still lying in his own home, unwilling to go anywhere.
There are many friends and relatives who see Yang Suo so depraved and want to help him find a job that can be used to support himself. But for the work introduced by relatives, Yang Suo was not satisfied, and he even chose to lie at home every day without eating or drinking.
The people in the village saw Yang Suo living like this every day and would often help him. But unexpectedly, Yang Suo saw that the meals sent by others were close at hand, he was too lazy to take them, he had already prepared the meals that could be eaten, he was even too lazy to eat, let alone make it himself. Without his parents to feed, Yang Suo chose to be hungry all the time.
Laziness makes him decadent
For Yang Suo, laziness seems to have become the whole meaning of life. He didn't bother to go to the toilet, so he simply dug a pit in the hall house and buried it directly with soil after going to the toilet.
The reluctance to go out and look for work, and the fact that the neighbors did not bother to take the food on the door, was so depraved that many people gradually became reluctant to take care of him.
For Yang Suo, his greatest pleasure is to lie motionless, as for the problem of survival, for him is the category of laziness, without his parents, even if he can no longer be lazy and at ease, it is ultimately a situation that is difficult to return.
Until that winter, Yang Suo didn't even bother to heat it, just covered with a few worn-out clothes and a few worn-out quilts.
The weather was too cold, coupled with the fact that he had not eaten for several days, Yang Suo finally failed to carry through the winter of the 23-year-old. This tragedy made many people sigh, obviously, the doting of parents completely ruined Yang Suo's life.
epilogue
Yang Suo is only from a poor family, not only never thought of helping his parents share the housework, but only added a burden to their parents, and eventually starved to death because of the death of their parents, which should give people a wake-up call.
After hearing this story, many people's first reaction was to laugh at Yang Suo's laziness, but they never thought deeply about their own practices in daily life.
First of all, Yang Suo's laziness comes from the doting of his parents, unwilling to let Yang Suo bear the responsibility he should bear, making him a lazy person to the extreme.
The second is that Yang Suo himself covets enjoyment, does not think of changing his current situation, but blindly immerses himself in his own world, sees the differences between his peers and himself, and will not think deeply, but blindly escapes, hiding under the wings of his parents.
Every child's encounter with their parents is a blessing for several lifetimes, but as Gibran said, some children are here to repay the favor, and their existence will make their parents feel that this life is worthwhile, but some children will only leave their parents with lifelong regrets.
Yang Suo's final tragedy is not only a wake-up call for parents, but also a reminder of children who are being pampered by their parents. It is common for parents to spoil their children, but once they are pampered, they will bring a fatal blow to their children, and when it is time to let go, let the children go on their own, and the children who have grown up can face the storms of life alone when their parents are not with them in the future.