Lebanese poet Gibran's poem "The Prophet"
Once "on children" -
Your child,
It's not actually your child.
They are the children born of life's desire for itself.
They came into this world through you,
But it is not because of you,
They're all around you,
But it doesn't belong to you.
What you can give them is your love,
But it's not what you think.
Because they have their own thoughts.
What you can shelter is their body,
But it is not their soul,
For their souls belong to tomorrow,
It belongs to tomorrow that you can't dream of.
You can do your best,
Become like them,
But don't let them become like you,
Because life does not go backwards,
Nor do I stop in the past.
Lecture 2: Strict Kindness and Friendship Between The Friendship of the Year
Therefore, parents may wish to do "yearless friendship" with their children, just like the father in the comic, use his legs to prop up the other end of the seesaw, maintain equal communication with the child, and "strict and kind" in the process of raising children, both principles and not too harsh.