Author: Liu Yingya
Is it worth it for a man to abandon his family for the sake of a woman outside?
I saw one such question that day. Say that his brother abandoned his family. Now it doesn't matter if the son is thirty and married. Parents also don't take care of it. And his sister-in-law has persisted for so many years.
@ Psychological Consultant Liu Yingya
In this case, sometimes don't ask if it's worth it. Men abandon their families for women, and sometimes it has little to do with whether they are worth it. It is more related to some psychological problems. Or pay attention to whether the disease is cured first.
Even, abandoning one's family and abandoning one's own man's responsibilities and responsibilities, sometimes this behavior itself represents some kind of connection. Not a connection with a woman out there, but a connection with a parent.
Sometimes. Wife and marriage are a metaphor for the inheritance of parents' lives. When a man has a festival with his parents, or when there are other chapters in the family, the man's heart resists the marriage, that is, resists the parents, resists the inheritance. Betrayal and abandonment of marriage represents an attitude towards parents.
At this point, the man was a boy, not yet a man, and was still entangled in the chapter with his parents.
Truly mature men don't bubble up. They don't have this emotion to deal with. There is no need to meet certain psychological needs from the bubble girl, such as a sense of existence, vanity and so on. The needs of the body and mind can also be met in a more suitable way.
They have very important inheritances that weigh down in the hearts and souls.
I am Liu Yingya, a psychological consultant, who uses psychology to analyze love, marriage, family life, and make intimate relationships a classroom for self-growth.
Liu Yingya: Master of Psychology, National Second-level Psychological Counselor. A researcher of marital and emotional family, a researcher of body, mind and soul growth.
More than ten years of psychological work, focusing on family marriage and love feelings, personal body, mind and soul growth.