Author: Liu Yingya
How do kids and learning get lost?
Have a child. There are some problems with learning. I can't concentrate, listen to lectures, or do homework, I can't concentrate. Learning also lacks initiative.
@ Psychological Consultant Liu Yingya
Every day after school, this child will play with children in the same neighborhood, which is very happy.
Mother came back from work to know. Mother's attitude is: come up and study.
The child must come up.
If the child wants to communicate with the mother about the experience of playing, the mother: hurry up and do your homework.
When eating, the child wants to talk to the parents. Parents: Don't talk when eating, eat quickly, and do your homework after eating.
When doing homework, parents stare at their children doing homework. Of course, children with various mushrooms.
Then, my mother said I had to accompany him too. The child would ask me to play with him, such as playing with blocks, and he liked to play with blocks the most. Then she plays with the child. The child is playing there, immersed in her own world, including replying to work messages. There is no communion with children.
Children need to be raised and incubated. Parents' attention and response to the child is in raising the child, and the common experience and experience process of the parent and the child is raising the child. All of this will give him the ability to have the vitality to connect with the outside world, allowing him to happily embrace and explore the outside world.
If parents lack such parenting. This child naturally has difficulty concentrating and has little motivation for learning.
Children also need to explore their own world, including with children. This also enhances his vitality. Parents are given support and companionship while setting some rules.
I am Liu Yingya, a psychological consultant, who uses psychology to analyze love, marriage, family life, and make intimate relationships a classroom for self-growth.
Liu Yingya: Master of Psychology, National Second-level Psychological Counselor. A researcher of marital and emotional family, a researcher of body, mind and soul growth.
More than ten years of psychological work, focusing on family marriage and love feelings, personal body, mind and soul growth.