Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
Text | The wind stops at night
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Why do people live a lifetime?
This problem, I am afraid that no one can give an accurate definition!
Once upon a time, I felt that people live to fulfill the ideals they set in school. Later, after graduation, I found that the realization of the ideal was very different from the fantasy I had when I set it up!
Later, I felt that people live to complete the dream of a common future with their loved ones! In the dream, we are willing to share the hardships and hardships, the wind and rain in the same boat, and give birth to one or two lovely children. Later, I learned that the combination of two people, in addition to the beautiful wind and snow moon, there is also fried rice oil and salt!
Children do not understand what it is to live, adults desperately live, and if the elderly are not miserable, they still want to try their best to live for a few more years!
Alive, for what? It's like, just live for the sake of living!
Probably, some people see my remarks like this and think it's very negative! However, in this red dust coming and going in an empty dream, the difficulty of living has long been intolerable to people to live for the way they want to live!
In the face of survival, we have to admit that the encouragement has never been the way we want to live!
In front of life, we have to cater against our hearts, and it is never what we like!
In the adult world, nine out of ten say: I haven't had a heartfelt laugh or laugh in a long time!
This is the universal reality of people today!
Reality is cruel and the most real!
In all kinds of relationships, we always try to live soberly - for ease and freedom, but we can't escape the "rare confusion"!
Some things are not broken, in order to better self-protection, so that we can do the best self-protection when we are powerless to change the status quo!
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In this reality of the inherent evil of human nature, it is as if you, me, and he are all talking about poetry and far away!
Our completely different attitude towards the people close to us and ordinary interpersonal relationships is probably because of the release and concealment of pressure, right?
When I talked to my mother in the video, I talked about the topic of "people living". The 80-year-old mother sighed:
Hey, people in this life, the less the picture is not tired, the more the picture is tired! When I am old, I think back on this life is really sour! It's not easy to be alive! In this life, all the difficulties, blame themselves!
What my mother said, I naturally knew what her heartache and hardship were! It's just that I can only understand her difficulties and can't empathize with them!
After all, I haven't really experienced her experience, and that kind of difficulty is something I can't understand!
Saying that it is an understanding of my mother, it is better to say that seeing the light in her eyes makes me feel more painful!
In this world, there must be many old people like my mother. In particular, after reading your mother's experience, you will know how philosophical and rational she said that "it is not easy for people to live" and "people blame themselves for all the difficulties in this life"!
When my mother was 11 years old, she didn't have her own mother! At the age of 21, he married his father! 22 years old, mother!
After the birth of 6 of our brothers and sisters, she gradually learned how to be a mother!
Those who have not tasted the love of their mothers can only export to their children according to the love they think they think! Knowing that it is not easy for her to grow up, she can only let the child "not suffer" in her own way.
For example, she would force us to do everything on our own. We all blame her for this.
For example, for our inferior roots, she would use "stick education is the most direct" to make us grow, but we all hated her at that time.
For example, she never cares about us in the most gentle tone, and only tells us directly that wrong is wrong, right is right; so we all envy others who have a mother who will make friends with children!
Not only for us, in interpersonal relationships, my mother will not use any "means", so she also hurts people many times because of her straight, loving and excited personality!
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As we grew up, we had our own families, and we gradually understood the difficulty of motherhood!
When she talked to her mother about life and life, she blamed herself.
Even, more than once, the mother said regretfully:
If life could be repeated, I would have lived it less than I was confused!
I smiled and told her: Now you understand, because you carry the memory of the experience. If people can really travel back to the time and space, you must not be able to change anything! Because, at that time, you didn't know what the experience of these years was!
Therefore, in this regard, my mother always smacked her tongue and said, yes, the difficulties in this life are all found by themselves!
In fact, all the sighs of the mother are not "involuntary" under the creation of fate?
People live a lifetime, and the reason why they look back on the past is too sad is because they are missing too much "self-release".
In this life, all the difficulties are blamed on "self-embarrassment"!
The mother has to be strong for decades, and the "awakening" in the old age is not a summary of her past! But so what?
Life, no repetition!
Everyone is an ordinary one among all sentient beings, and if we have the ability to see into the future and travel through the past, we will definitely be the most perfect way to live!
Everyone has regrets, and everyone faces survival and life in their own years, according to what they think is "right"!
Everyone makes mistakes, and everyone takes a pace that suits their own rhythm in the world they think is right!
As for why people live, it is never a question, so it should never have an answer!
However, in the current time, live up to the years, no matter right or wrong, just be ashamed, that is the best way to live!
For the rest of your life, may you:
Don't be too embarrassed about yourself! Do what you like as soon as possible, and cherish it as soon as possible for those you want to love. Don't deliberately pander to anyone to please! Don't be afraid of being misunderstood, time will be the best "detergent", and one day it will return your innocence!
Be more understanding and tolerant, don't hate, don't complain, don't regret! Learn to please yourself, not to embarrass yourself, is not to live in vain! Don't live in vain, you live well!
Finally, I would like to give you a lot of words from "Soldier Assault":
Live well and do something meaningful! To do something meaningful is to live well! To live well is to do many, many meaningful things!
May you and I encourage each other!
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